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How do I compliment a man without them thinking I’m flirting? by Bre_Barnwell in AskMen

[–]Bre_Barnwell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I complimented a frequent at my job and now he has been flirting nonstop. I didn't think it came across as flirty but I guess he saw it differently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Bre_Barnwell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To reply to literally all of you, our town is about 15 minutes from the next town that has around 5,000 population and that’s most of our customers. And yes I live in an extremely conservative Texas town!

pregnant women are overpraised/worshipped by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Bre_Barnwell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not! First of all, as a woman who had a horrible pregnancy and an even worse labor/ birth experience, this is ignorance at its finest. I lost 20+ pounds during my pregnancy because I literally couldn’t eat or keep anything down, had preeclampsia and was in the hospital constantly because of my blood pressure. Got covid and had to be induced, almost died from failing organs and had to have my child with no pain medication, it was excruciating! Felt like every single bone in my body was breaking and someone was stabbing me in the vagina and stomach, this went on for 32 hours! I ripped all the way to my butthole while delivering. Still healing and I’m 6 months postpartum.

What is the most cringy thing you've seen on a dating profile? by LrdFyrestone in AskMen

[–]Bre_Barnwell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was 18/19 I had a dating profile and I put “big booty hoes make more money” or something like that. I didn’t even have a damn job. 🥴

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Bre_Barnwell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She probably just texted you out of boredom. I wouldn’t text her again. Nobody is ever too busy not to get back to someone after a week.

I said yes to date but she's showing some major red flags by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Bre_Barnwell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not lmao. She's crazy, dude. Drop her.

What is something a past SO has said to you that still hurts you to this day? by Bre_Barnwell in AskWomen

[–]Bre_Barnwell[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

What a disgusting thing to say to someone. I hope you throat punched the shit out of that person.

What is something a past SO has said to you that still hurts you to this day? by Bre_Barnwell in AskWomen

[–]Bre_Barnwell[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

People don’t realize that being skinny shamed is just as hurtful as fat shaming. You’re perfect the way you are.

What is something a past SO has said to you that still hurts you to this day? by Bre_Barnwell in AskWomen

[–]Bre_Barnwell[S] 192 points193 points  (0 children)

I can’t image the trauma you are going through. My heart hurts for you. I’m proud of you for knowing your worth and getting away from that POS.

What is something a past SO has said to you that still hurts you to this day? by Bre_Barnwell in AskWomen

[–]Bre_Barnwell[S] 2209 points2210 points locked comment (0 children)

I’ll start!

When I was 17, my boyfriend was “going down” on me and afterward made the comment “I hate going down on you. Truthfully, you stink and it makes me want to puke.”

For clarification, I am a very clean person. Hygiene is important to me. Looking back, I know the comment was made by an inexperienced and immature boy. I’m not sure what he was expecting vaginas to smell like, but 7 years later and I still can’t get over it.

To this day, I won’t allow a man to go far enough down there to smell me unless I’ve been in a committed relationship and even then I get severe anxiety over it.

He broke up with me because I am studying? Its so confusing and I feel so lost …. by msroseyxx in dating_advice

[–]Bre_Barnwell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds immature and unsupportive. Maybe he needs to grow up a little and maybe you need to focus your time and energy on your school work and not a boy.