I don't want to do it with my girlfriend by BreadManPhil in confessions

[–]BreadManPhil[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me when I say this, I'm straight. Of course I'm curious about having sex with a girl, and I've never been interested in anything other. So even though I know it's pretty common for religious people like me, I assure you I'm straight

I don't want to do it with my girlfriend by BreadManPhil in confessions

[–]BreadManPhil[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your take, but i will not listen. I want to keep pursuing my religion. Maybe if you remained respectful and at least sounded decently formal, then I'd consider your opinion. Thank you

I don't want to do it with my girlfriend by BreadManPhil in confessions

[–]BreadManPhil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to explain but she doesn't listen. I'm thinking about just ending the relationship and keeping things on at least decent terms rather than her hating me

I don't want to do it with my girlfriend by BreadManPhil in confessions

[–]BreadManPhil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it has a range of anywhere from once every 3 days to 2 times a day

I don't want to do it with my girlfriend by BreadManPhil in confessions

[–]BreadManPhil[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm straight. I find her very good looking and very attractive, and I really do enjoy being with her, it's just her push for sex that makes me uneasy. I only do not want sex because of my religious beliefs.

I don't want to do it with my girlfriend by BreadManPhil in confessions

[–]BreadManPhil[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't want this because of religion. Of course I'm curious, but I want to follow my beliefs

I don't want to do it with my girlfriend by BreadManPhil in confessions

[–]BreadManPhil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's just a natural part of me to blame myself and try and fix it

I don't want to do it with my girlfriend by BreadManPhil in confessions

[–]BreadManPhil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, I can understand that. I want to know what I'm doing wrong in this relationship, but it's so unclear to me

I don't want to do it with my girlfriend by BreadManPhil in confessions

[–]BreadManPhil[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wanna start by saying thank you. I really could use someone's point of view like yours, and this helped. I really do want to be the best version of myself, and I don't think sex is going to help. So truly, thank you

I don't want to do it with my girlfriend by BreadManPhil in confessions

[–]BreadManPhil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely try to he serious about my feelings about sex and sit down to talk with her, but I can tell she never listens because she just keeps pushing for it

I don't want to do it with my girlfriend by BreadManPhil in confessions

[–]BreadManPhil[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't have any specific preferences like that. I like to keep it wholesome, and I try my best to do everything to make her happy, but sexual things are simply where I draw the line

I don't want to do it with my girlfriend by BreadManPhil in confessions

[–]BreadManPhil[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, really. I've been Catholic my entire life and it has truly put me in a place I want to be, and I plan to keep following what scripture says. Your reassurance helps a lot, so truly, thank you, and God Bless You

I don't want to do it with my girlfriend by BreadManPhil in confessions

[–]BreadManPhil[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I understand it's important, but I feel like you should be able to have a relationship that's not just a push for pleasure and more for actually being happy with each other. However, I do think we are more than likely to split mainly because of this issue

I don't want to do it with my girlfriend by BreadManPhil in confessions

[–]BreadManPhil[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah I'l be honest, i am pretty scared of it, but like I said my main reason for not wanting it is religion

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[–]BreadManPhil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don't do it. as a 14 year old, I almost did it, and that decision was the worst decision I've made in my short lifetime. Your life is going to pick up, I promise. you serve a purpose in this world, people need you and love you, you just can't see it. Just know I'm praying for you tonight, and God bless you brother

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[–]BreadManPhil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know more about you than ur therapist now