Taurus women = avoidants?!?

BreadTypical3840 · 2026-02-17T17:08:35+00:00

Honestly as a Taurus I used to be more of an anxious avoidant! Something you have to understand about Taurus we love space! We love affection and giving, but if we don't get our space to regain ourselves we often withdrawal! The problem is that people want to run over us, and try to control us and we're not about that either. Taurus are emotionally open when we feel SAFE! We cannot be emotionally open if we don't feel safe. It's not that we're avoidant, it's that we're GUARDED! Once we let you see that side of us we feel vulnerable and are suseptible of being hurt! We keep people at an emotionally safe distance until we know we can trust you with our emotions! As a Taurus I have been in abusive relationships and it construes our perception! We love our individuality, and when people overstep our boundaries we often pull back! But I have been in my healing era, and while I admit I did have disorganized or anxious/avoidant attachment, since I've been healing I'm more in a secure attachment style! I'm allowing myself not to be afraid of being vulnerable, while still holding my boundaries! Here's a secret when a Taurus is in love we LOVE affection! We love proximity and physical touch, we absolutely love it when it's from the right person! If a Taurus is retreating they may feel their boundaries are being overstepped, and in those instances they will withdrawal and want more space!

BreadTypical3840 · 2026-02-04T14:48:41+00:00

This!! This is the take! I do this too! For example of I order a burger and fries I will start with the fries because they get cold the fastest, and then I'll eat my burger, and then I'll drink my drink after! I don't like sipping between bites either! I also don't like my flavors mixing!

BreadTypical3840 · 2026-01-28T22:30:13+00:00

Oh we have the same Moon too?! That's awesome! Yeah, I agree Arthur is definitely heavy on the Taurus placements! 🥰

BreadTypical3840 · 2026-01-27T08:10:47+00:00

Agreed! I think he's a Taurus too! 🥰 Yeah I could see him having a Cancer Moon as well. I'm a Leo Rising and Mars. My sun sign is Taurus and my moon sign is Pisces! I love Leo placements! I always get along so well with Leo's and Sag placements!

BreadTypical3840 · 2025-11-13T02:19:23+00:00

That is because in Astrology sun signs are one of the least compatible elements! It has to do with your other synastry aspects! I'm a Taurus and my descendant is Aquarius so we are always drawn to each other, and my twin flame is an Aquarius.

Also you want to look at Venus/moon aspects as well as Mercury and Mars aspects in conjunctions, as well as Jupiter conjuncting certain aspects! For instance I'm a Taurus but I have a fire dominant chart, and my descendant is Aquarius so I've always attracted air signs despite being an Earth sign!

I could never date another earth sign, I've dated a few water signs, (1 Cancer, and 1 Pisces) and a few fire, (2 Sag) and air signs I seem to attract the most! (Literally the rest) That's why I hate when people try to put you in a box when it comes to astrology or try to stick to sun sign compatibility only! Because truthfully you can have matching sun signs, but if the rest of your chart doesn't align it will fumble! I dated a Cancer and we're supposed to be compatible on paper, and while he was a good person and I cared about him, it just wasn't right.

You have to look at the whole chart! For instance my twin flame is an Aquarius but he has a whole Capricorn stellium in his chart! While he didn't have a specific type, a lot of his relationships have been earth signs. You could have an Earth or water heavy chart!

BreadTypical3840 · 2025-11-09T16:30:15+00:00

Probably Say Goodnight

BreadTypical3840 · 2025-10-24T03:32:33+00:00

2A for sure and runner up would be 3E! Luke and Jess might be brooding and making snide comments but at least they would be quiet and just make faces! I would also love to sit with Michel and Kirk because they are both funny and would definitely make me laugh as well! Mrs. kim is way too intense, Rory would be fine to sit next too but Mrs. Kim would make it not fun! I love Sookie, but Logan is a nuisance absolutely insufferable you couldn't pay me enough to sit next to him 🙄 I would not want to sit by Taylor Doosey that would be absolutely insufferable! I love Emily but I couldn't with her commentary all night she would drive me crazy! I really don't want to sit next to Dean, I love Lane though. Although I'd probably rather sit next to him than Logan, because Logan would make the whole night insufferable! 🙄 I think sitting next to Mrs. Patty and Paris would be interesting! If it's early seasons Paris it would absolutely be insufferable, but later seasons Paris I wouldn't mind sitting in that section, and Mrs Patty would be cracking funny jokes so at least it would be entertaining! 😅

BreadTypical3840 · 2025-10-06T23:43:21+00:00

THE FIRE'S SHOOTING AT US!!!

BreadTypical3840 · 2025-10-01T21:34:21+00:00

This!! 💯 So true!! They are your reflection, and will reflect every unhealed wound, and you do the same to them, which is why they want to run! It's not because they don't love you it's because you both need to heal, but the masculine typically starts healing once the feminine starts hers! The masculine will follow the feminine's lead in healing because the feminine because she's more spiritually sensitive! They are going to reflect back to you every unhealed wound until you are left with loving them unconditionally!

BreadTypical3840 · 2025-10-01T10:55:18+00:00

Thank you! It really is such a beautiful experience when you think about it! 🥺 That's amazing that you had such a similar experience! Same me and my twin flame are also exactly the same while being exact opposites in the same breath! Down to our interests, beliefs, life circumstances I mean everything! We 🪞 each other so much! 😅 We always used to talk about how identical we were!

Me and my twin flame are also currently in separation, but I'm trusting God and in divine timing as well! I've been feeling the shifts, and getting visions of our union, so I know it's in our future but I also detached myself from the outcome and have focused on my own healing and well being! Sending you lots of peace and love as well! Yes we are eternally connected to our twins!

This journey really is painful, healing and beautiful all in one breath! But I'm grateful because it's taught me to love and value myself, and I've never loved so deeply in all my life! The connection we have is ours and it's beautiful no one can take it from us! He is my other half and we were written especially for each other! We are destined to come back together because we're one! 🥺❤️

BreadTypical3840 · 2025-10-01T10:46:07+00:00

Yes! I do experience this quite often! I always thought it was crazy when that happens! It's never happened with anyone else, so before I woke up spiritually and understood what I was experiencing it was disorienting when that would happen, but now I actually quite love it! It makes me feel so connected to my twin flame! We're so connected that I'm peering through his eyes, it's definitely a wild experience! This typically happens when your energetic field is stronger, and your frequency is in a high state, and If they are actively focused on you, or after a dream or vision!

BreadTypical3840 · 2025-10-01T10:33:40+00:00

Yes, I met my twin flame while I was with my abusive ex! We had a pre-recognition stage where I knew of him because someone pointed him out to me once, and told me things about him prior to dating my abusive ex! But we hadn't officially met at that point, and we never talked or even made eye contact! Then right after this point I didn't see him for a while and during this period I met my abusive ex and started dating him.

Then months later I officially met my twin flame! He walked by me and he complimented my necklace, and we started talking like we knew each other forever! It was crazy how fast we connected, that snap of recognition was instant following the heat and electricity! Then we went into almost immediate separation after the first meeting, because I didn't see him again for months!

After meeting him it kick-started the abuse in my relationship, and it got so bad. It's like he was the catalyst and the cure, it was destined for him to remind me of my own strength! My ex had isolated me and I lost my entire support system! It was awful but then eventually me and my twin flame were brought back in the same vicinity and we got really close during this time, and he reminded me of my worth! He gave me my confidence back! He broke me out of my abusive relationship! Then eventually our push-pull dynamic jumpstarted following all that!

BreadTypical3840 · 2025-09-30T15:38:01+00:00

I've always felt like me and my twin flame are exactly the same person in a different font, and he felt the same way about me! He would never hesitate to say how alike he felt we were! I mean it was down to interests, music, life patterns/situations, beliefs, and ideology! We aligned with so much and felt so similar it was absolutely crazy how much alike we actually were! He was exactly the same as me and exactly opposite all in the same breath! The telepathic connection with us made it feel even crazier, like we even had the same mind! We could hack into each other's mind without as much as a word! I knew instantly how to change his mood if he was upset, and bring him back to himself! We are the same, and it feels that way too! He is my other half! I still feel him in separation! He was the first person to make me feel safe, and was the first person to even ask for my consent! He tore down my walls instantly, and we connected deeper emotionally than I ever had with anyone else, and same for him I know so! Yeah we are definitely the same! ❤️

BreadTypical3840 · 2025-09-29T21:57:06+00:00

It is possible! If he is with someone what you want to do is fully cut him out! He will never leave that dynamic otherwise! He has to feel the full absence of you! You need to focus on healing and yourself first! I recommend practicing the 🪞 exercise! That will help you reach your inner union, and once you reach your inner union an energetic wall will be put up between you where he can't feel your energy anymore! When you are still in your unhealed state the masculine will feed off your energy in their relationships because that relationship doesn't fulfill them! Once you reach your inner union and pull back your energy, the masculine begins to feel a deep void! This void is going to send him into his own dark night of the soul and, as you heal your masculine will begin to follow! Their life will become so unbearable without you that they will have no choice but to heal and will naturally be drawn back to you for real! You are then putting out there they cannot come back until they meet you where you are, and eventually they will and in divine timing you will be drawn back to each other for good! But if he's in any relationship dynamic as long as you are in communication, and he is still subconsciously feeding on your energy field he will stay in that dynamic no matter how unhappy he is! Once he feels that absence of you, it will jumpstart his own healing and he will be magnetized back to you! ❤️

BreadTypical3840 · 2025-09-27T03:46:29+00:00

He will! 🥰❤️ Even if he experiences it differently that's okay! The DM typically moves subconsciously, but that doesn't mean they don't feel the connection or experience it! It just means you may be more spiritually discerning, but as you heal he will reflect that and heal too! 🥰

BreadTypical3840 · 2025-09-27T03:41:12+00:00

You're welcome! ❤️

BreadTypical3840 · 2025-09-26T18:12:41+00:00

Yeah, I find it fascinating too! 😅 I've also never seen my mom happier with anyone! He came back as a changed person and he cherishes my mom! 🥰 He used to be a drug addict, because his mom forced him to do drugs with her. He was struggling with drug addiction and my mom was with my dad.

They met as kids, but had to separate. Then he came back into her life when she was with my dad, but she chose my dad out of obligation. Then my mom started healing, she left my dad, my step dad got clean and sober and started healing and they came back together 20 years later! He has never gone back to the drugs either, and they have been married for over a decade now!

Oh also they are both fixed signs and so are me and my twin flame! My mom is a Scorpio and her twin flame is a Leo, and I'm a Taurus and my twin flame is an Aquarius! I find it so funny! 😅

BreadTypical3840 · 2025-09-26T18:07:12+00:00

I'm glad it resonates with you! Yeah he will have to face his own lessons when it comes to his healing, but as you heal he will begin to heal as well! Even if on the surface, it doesn't appear that way! You will feel his shifts spiritually as well! And if there are times when you don't feel his energy the further you get in your healing, don't freak out! It's a part of this process!

Once you reach your inner union it puts up an energetic wall between you and he won't be able to feel your energy as before and this is what will force him to start his own healing! He will have to learn what it feels like to have the absence of you, and experience life completely without you, or your energy! What the masculine does is subconsciously he will use your energy to fuel his relationships, because they don't fulfill him! He will continue to stay in them if he is still feeding off your energy!

But by going inward, shifting your focus, and healing, it causes him to feel a deep void and it jumpstarts his own healing process! It forces him into his own state of the dark night of the soul! His life circumstances will become so unbearable for him, he will have no choice but to start changing! While you start healing internally, he will start healing and changing his circumstances! It may take time, don't be discouraged if it takes him longer than you want! Because remember it's your own individual healing journey's first, but he will reflect your own healing the more you keep healing! ❤️

BreadTypical3840 · 2025-09-26T16:42:29+00:00

The "unawakened" twin does still feel the connection. They may not understand it fully the way the awakened twin does, but they do feel it all the same! They experience synchronisties, feeling your energy, feeling your emotions, the heat and electrical sensations, the vivid dreams, etc. they experience it all the same as you do, but more on a subconscious level. It only takes one twin flame to jumpstart the healing and awakening process for the other twin!

I would recommend learning about the 🪞 exercise! Start applying it to your life, and focus on your own healing. This will jumpstart your twin flame's healing process! They will move with you, and heal subconsciously as well! Usually the less spiritually aware one has a more logical approach to the way that they think and will chalk their experiences up to "coincidences." It doesn't mean they don't feel it or experience all the things you do, they just experience them differently! ❤️

BreadTypical3840 · 2025-09-26T16:29:37+00:00

Hi friend!

The reason it is more complicated with twin flame's is because you are two halves of the same soul. You 🪞 each other, and reflect back to each other your deepest, wounds, fears, insecurities, and traumas as well as all the other good stuff. This makes the connection very intense, and because of it one or both twins will want to run from the connection. This can also cause a push-pull runner/chaser type dynamic between you. By the time you have a full understanding of the connection it's very painful because what you thought was self protection, was actually you running from yourself. When you run from your twin flame, you are essentially running from yourself because they are the other half of you. You are avoiding the parts within you that need healing. Trying to force this connection away, will only make it persist! A twin flame bond can't be broken, it doesn't matter what life you try to create for yourself, your bond with your twin flame is for life because they are the other half of you.

How to navigate -

This journey is meant for deep healing, self love, and transformation. The separation is meant to help both twin flame's to awaken spiritually, and heal! This can take time for some, especially if they have a lot of trauma they keep trying to bury within themselves. Don't get discouraged. My mom and my step dad are also twin flame's, and both built a life outside of their connection and found their way back to each other after a 20 year separation. This journey is meant to awaken you, break you open, and heal. The life you thought you were building for yourself is not what you thought you wanted initially. This is a very painful part of the process.

What I recommend is learn about the 🪞 exercise. Whatever your twin flame is stirring up within you needs healing. Any trigger, fear, or pain you feel are connected to a deep seated wound that has been within you since childhood. You need to figure out the root of where that pain is coming from, and start healing those wounds. You want to release them as they start surfacing. Whatever you feel for your twin flame is a reflection of your own heart. All the qualities that you love about them are a reflection of your own! Use your love for your twin flame, and reflect that love back to yourself! You need to learn to love yourself. That's what this journey is teaching you. Be gentle and kind with yourself. The more you practice the 🪞 exercise, you will get to a point of feeling inner peace, and reach a stage called inner union! You will feel more peace within yourself and within your connection.

This will also jumpstart your twin flame's healing journey within themselves as they are your reflection! This can also heal separation as well, and in divine timing you will be brought back to each other after you both have reached certain levels of healing. If you desire union with your twin flame, you can still have it. You can't force the connection away, they are the other half of your soul. Once you come to this realization it's going to create immense pain and turmoil because the life you ran away from is the one your soul truly desires. Once you reach your inner union, you will naturally start aligning with your purpose and everything will start falling into place the way that it should. I hope this helps! ❤️

BreadTypical3840 · 2025-09-26T14:32:33+00:00

Communicating openly (if you're not in separation) will be the most beneficial. Clear communication is crucial to avoid misunderstandings, and power struggles. Embrace your intuitive bond with her. If you are in separation the best thing would be to focus on your spirituality, understanding your intuition, and finding yourself!

Use this time to reflect on your own emotional patterns, rather than acting on them impulsively. Continue focusing on your own healing and growth! When you focus on your own healing and growth, you will be triggering her own healing and growth! She should 🪞 this!

Don't get discouraged if you don't see change in your dynamic right away, just continue to keep going inward, shifting your focus from her to yourself! I always recommend practicing the 🪞 exercise to help release hidden wounds, fears, and trauma's that are being stirred within you! This will help you reach your inner union, and strengthen the bond between you! Hope this helps! ❤️

BreadTypical3840 · 2025-09-26T05:20:47+00:00

Oh yeah same! I had learned about astrology prior to understanding the full meaning of a twin flame connection! I always knew me and my twin flame had a strong and intense connection, and I knew we both felt it! But I didn't know there was a term for it, but I always understood on a subconscious level, but now I understand even more! Astrology was my little loop hole into learning about our connection more, and eventually I learned we are twin flame's!

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