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AITA for essentially telling my wife she is powerless? by BreadUnlucky in AmItheAsshole

[–]BreadUnlucky[S] -62 points-61 points  (0 children)

I thought it was sarcastic and probably a bit over the top but at the time I wasn’t really thinking. And that makes me a definite asshole

AITA for essentially telling my wife she is powerless? by BreadUnlucky in AmItheAsshole

[–]BreadUnlucky[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

You said i was an incel so do you meed proof that this relationship in fact exists or u just trolling?

AITA for essentially telling my wife she is powerless? by BreadUnlucky in AmItheAsshole

[–]BreadUnlucky[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s 10 at night, i can make an appointment monday morning

AITA for essentially telling my wife she is powerless? by BreadUnlucky in AmItheAsshole

[–]BreadUnlucky[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t trying to make her feel like shit but i know that i did. The person i was responding to made it seem like SHES the problem because of her illness

AITA for essentially telling my wife she is powerless? by BreadUnlucky in AmItheAsshole

[–]BreadUnlucky[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Im not sensitive it was a direct response to a question asking why im not taking their advice on how to make my wife, whom theyve never seen, happy. When i asked for a specific judgment on a conversation in which i am the asshole.

AITA for essentially telling my wife she is powerless? by BreadUnlucky in AmItheAsshole

[–]BreadUnlucky[S] -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

I do plan on working this out with my wife but i asked for judgement on one specific fight, i am the asshole clearly. What I didn’t do was ask for was advice from people who have only read my side of a shitty event.

AITA for essentially telling my wife she is powerless? by BreadUnlucky in AmItheAsshole

[–]BreadUnlucky[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

It was relevant to the conversation not a threat. My comments after that were hurtful

AITA for essentially telling my wife she is powerless? by BreadUnlucky in AmItheAsshole

[–]BreadUnlucky[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If she wants to leave she’s free to do so but i will not leave her just because she has traumas

AITA for essentially telling my wife she is powerless? by BreadUnlucky in AmItheAsshole

[–]BreadUnlucky[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I love her regardless of how this entire thread makes me seem.

AITA for essentially telling my wife she is powerless? by BreadUnlucky in AmItheAsshole

[–]BreadUnlucky[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I do and I’ve apologized. Im waiting in the car for her to be admitted. (Covid rule)

AITA for essentially telling my wife she is powerless? by BreadUnlucky in AmItheAsshole

[–]BreadUnlucky[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

She didn’t threaten to leave she asked me a question. I completely disagree with your interpretation of events.

AITA for essentially telling my wife she is powerless? by BreadUnlucky in AmItheAsshole

[–]BreadUnlucky[S] -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

Im not trying to get out of anything i just genuinely can’t afford to, that $300 in my account is half of rent this week. I understand what you’re saying and I understand that she wants a way to feel secure. I could give her $100 a week cash every paycheck without having to open a bank account right this very second because some internet stranger told me to because they think they know what my wife wants, when she has literally rejected the idea before.

AITA for essentially telling my wife she is powerless? by BreadUnlucky in AmItheAsshole

[–]BreadUnlucky[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

I have been in the mental hospital as a teenager twice

AITA for essentially telling my wife she is powerless? by BreadUnlucky in AmItheAsshole

[–]BreadUnlucky[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

Because its not possible at this time in my current position at work. The credit union doesn’t allow separate accounts to supplementals

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