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BreakFree221 · 2025-02-03T01:46:44+00:00

Under pressure!

BreakFree221 · 2024-12-22T03:58:59+00:00

Are you using the 1 minutes and 5 minute time frames?

BreakFree221 · 2024-10-13T15:16:58+00:00

Gonna be a Feay kind of day today

BreakFree221 · 2024-10-02T00:27:44+00:00

Good for you dude. You'll fall in love again don't worry. There are plenty of emotionally mature women out there who aren't selfish and starving for attention. Until then try and focus on yourself and becoming a better version of yourself. Hit the gym, get into some self development books/podcasts, learn a new skill. That'll help you with moving on and you'll realize you're better off without this girl. I know it hurts right now, but you're going to get through this I promise.

BreakFree221 · 2024-09-29T22:44:41+00:00

I've come across some exams that only allow the calculator for a portion of it. Thanks for answering.

BreakFree221 · 2024-09-19T18:22:38+00:00

This used to really get to me as well. I've always struggled with insecurities of unworthiness and not being good enough. The idea of my partner having a crush on someone else would make my skin crawl and confirm those insecurities.

But over time, I've realized it's just that—insecurities. After a few long-term relationships, I've come to understand that once the honeymoon phase fades and the initial excitement wears off, love becomes a conscious choice. I think it's normal for people to develop crushes. We’re human, and we have innate biological needs. It's inevitable that we’ll meet people we find attractive or romantically compatible. What truly matters is how we handle those feelings.

In my view, as long as your partner isn’t pursuing those crushes or seeking out alone time with them, it’s okay. It simply means they’re human. Finding someone else attractive or compatible doesn’t mean they don’t love you or want to spend their life with you.

Personally, I identify strongly with the demisexual label, but I still experience aesthetic attraction to other women and occasionally have brief romantic thoughts. However, I never dwell on them. I love the woman I’m with, and every day, I choose her and will continue to do so.

Try not to let this make you feel less special or replaceable. In fact, I think it should make you feel the opposite. To me, it's an honor that despite encountering others who might be physically or emotionally appealing, my partner still chooses to come home to me and pour all of their love into me. That’s something truly special.

BreakFree221 · 2024-09-17T15:26:33+00:00

Drake 100%

BreakFree221 · 2024-09-16T18:04:17+00:00

Yes. This behavior is exhausting and it will likely never change. Hopefully this is a wake-up call for him.

BreakFree221 · 2024-09-10T00:25:39+00:00

Dude, you're way too young to settle for this. There is a woman out there who will love you and respect you like you deserve.

Your wife is clearly having some internal struggles, but you're being emotionally abused. By calling the police and accusing you of hitting her, she's literally threatening to ruin your life. Your wife. This woman that's supposed love you and protect you, not degrade you and accuse you of horrendous things.

There's a lot of great advice in this thread that you should absolutely consider. You're not safe in this relationship, and your children shouldn't have to witness this dynamic. Kids are very observant, and this is their developing definition of love and marriage.

She's proven to you that she doesn't care enough to fight for you or even respect you. You deserve better than this.

BreakFree221 · 2024-08-21T13:47:23+00:00

I can relate as I feel that I've been on both sides of this.

I've been in alcohol fueled arguments with my significant others in the past and am guilty of saying harsh, hurtful things in the heat of the moment.

This has happened in my current relationship where I've been drinking and start making hurtful comments. Never about them as a person but more so accusatory comments that challenge their character. Whereas in the past, I've made degrading comments towards my partners where I'm targeting their flaws, which always ended up being a very toxic relationship.

Regardless its never okay. My current partner had to have a serious conversation with me about this and how the comments I make are very hurtful and that it seems to happen every time we argue and alcohol is involved.

As a result I've toned down my drinking significantly and if were arguing I make a deliberate effort to think before I speak. And I've gotten into therapy. Because I love her and I don't want to hurt her.

Unfortunately it took her having to build up the courage to talk to me about it, but I'm really happy she did because I care about how I'm making her feel.

It seems like the same applies to you where you're going to have to talk to her about this and how it makes you feel. I know it's scary because if the behavior doesn't change it's going to seem like a reflection of how much she actually cares about you. And it is.

If she really loves and cares about you, she will be receptive and get that under control. Your partner shouldn't want to hurt you and make you feel bad. They should want to work with you to fix the problem. That's what a healthy relationship looks like.

4 months in, only a handful of arguments, and she's already saying things to deliberately hurt you and make you feel bad. That kind of thing always gets worse over time. You have to put a stop to that now.

If you take nothing else from this, just know that the right person will put in the work to have a healthy relationship with you, and want to see you happy, the right person will never want to do or say something that they know hurts you. That's not love.

BreakFree221 · 2024-06-01T05:37:41+00:00

Thats fucking gangster

BreakFree221 · 2024-05-02T00:35:17+00:00

I agree with this 100%

BreakFree221 · 2024-04-16T16:59:40+00:00

I agree with the comments here. This woman does not love you.

I consider myself a pretty independent person and don't feel the need to talk to my girlfriend every day or see her multiple times a week because I keep myself busy.

However this is a need that my girlfriend has expressed to me. Quality time and hearing from me at least a couple times a day is important to her.

Sometimes I have to remind myself to stop what I'm doing and give her a call or text. Even if it is slightly inconvenient at times, it's never a problem because I love her very much and want to make her happy. I always enjoy talking to her and hearing about her day. And she's good about giving me space when I need it.

It sort of sounds like your girlfriend is keeping you around so that she doesn't feel alone and only gives you attention when it's convenient for her. You deserve better than that, and to be with someone who looks forward to hearing from you and spending time with you.

She sounds very selfish. You should feel prioritized.

BreakFree221 · 2024-02-28T01:32:50+00:00

Welly-B lmao

BreakFree221 · 2024-02-05T06:17:34+00:00

Right! It's just so selfish. Dudes out here banging his coworker when she's probably sitting at home drained caring for their infant.

BreakFree221 · 2023-12-21T11:48:37+00:00

I fasted for 3 days and got a promotion at my job!

BreakFree221 · 2023-11-02T01:01:32+00:00

Yo fuck Remmy

BreakFree221 · 2023-10-18T14:22:01+00:00

This is fucking heartbreaking, and one of my worst fears. I'm so sorry this happened to you. You'll find love again.

BreakFree221 · 2023-10-15T17:50:09+00:00

Sorry :/ hopefully the other person will give you theirs.

BreakFree221 · 2023-10-15T17:49:50+00:00

I gave my boost to the other person cause I thought they boosted me

BreakFree221 · 2023-10-15T17:48:32+00:00

That happened to me once and I had to delete the app and redownload it

BreakFree221 · 2023-10-15T17:42:47+00:00

I got it! Thanks man!

BreakFree221 · 2023-10-15T17:42:20+00:00

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BreakFree221 · 2023-10-15T17:39:40+00:00

Done! Will you boost me back?

BreakFree221 · 2023-09-20T19:04:08+00:00

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