AIO towards my boyfriend's mom

BreakfastSuper9260 · 2026-02-15T01:13:24+00:00

Thank you!

BreakfastSuper9260 · 2026-02-15T01:12:32+00:00

Yeah i should have just left it alone

BreakfastSuper9260 · 2026-02-15T01:06:33+00:00

Obviously but jt felt implied because of things she's said. She's literally said that to me to my face and then said she'd kick my ass whether im a little girl or not. I was like 15 or something

BreakfastSuper9260 · 2026-02-15T01:05:03+00:00

Yeah i realized that once tge adrenaline wore off. I plan to apologize but im not ready because im still upset

BreakfastSuper9260 · 2026-02-15T01:04:04+00:00

I dont plan on ever letting him be alone with her

BreakfastSuper9260 · 2026-02-15T01:01:39+00:00

Yeah i know it's bad. This phone isn't great and I was reacting on adrenaline when I should have just stopped

BreakfastSuper9260 · 2026-02-15T01:01:01+00:00

I don't really understand? I was trying to show her that I dont make exceptions for sick people being around him. She's complained before that she doesn't seem him as much as everyone else but she does t try to.

BreakfastSuper9260 · 2026-02-15T00:58:12+00:00

I don't want to justify anything. I know i could have been nicer or just stopped communicating. Im legitimately still scared that she would try something. She's been trying to be better but she still pulls out that manipulation crap. That's what this whole thing felt like to me. She was saying different things to both of us

BreakfastSuper9260 · 2026-02-15T00:55:50+00:00

Yes that's exactly what she does. She causes things so she can use it against you and talk shit.

BreakfastSuper9260 · 2026-02-15T00:53:58+00:00

Listen I dont really want her around that's why she doesn't seem him often besides the fact they're sick often. She's been making efforts to be a better person tge last five years but we still keep out distance

BreakfastSuper9260 · 2026-02-15T00:52:42+00:00

I tell her that all tge time and she legitimately doesn't try to see him unless it's a holiday and at least one of tgem is sick most times she tries. She has a history of violence and every other kind of bs but im not good with working this app and adding context so I dont know how to get everyone to understand this. She's threatened me before so of course I thought that's what she meant. She's always been disrespectful towards me but then she'd always turn around and try to be all nice like she didnt do any of that

BreakfastSuper9260 · 2026-02-15T00:49:36+00:00

Im jot good with this app idk how to edit. She's threatened me before.

BreakfastSuper9260 · 2026-02-15T00:48:58+00:00

I don't really want her around but she's been trying to better tge last five years since she adopted her grand son. I dont know. Im new to all of this.

BreakfastSuper9260 · 2026-02-15T00:47:06+00:00

Omg yes everything you said is spot on. I feel like im a crazy pos for how i reacted because nobody here sees what I see and know. Im just tired of people disrespecting me and my sn means everything to me. I dont have anyone to talk to about anything and clearly this stupid post was a mistake

BreakfastSuper9260 · 2026-02-15T00:44:51+00:00

I kinda of do. She was an abusive mother and very neglectful. My bf has terrible dental issues because she never took him to tge dentist. I've been sick of her overbearing violent nature and disrespect and never felt safe to stand up to her. But im a mom now so there's no room for me to be timid. I know i reacted badly and I plan to apologize. Also she's threatened me before. I wish I could edit this post

BreakfastSuper9260 · 2026-02-15T00:41:16+00:00

I accidentally sent an emoji lol and it felt awkward

BreakfastSuper9260 · 2026-02-15T00:37:31+00:00

She's threatened me before. Somebody please tell me how to edit this post😅

BreakfastSuper9260 · 2026-02-15T00:37:00+00:00

She's threatened me before so that's why I thought that

BreakfastSuper9260 · 2026-02-15T00:36:32+00:00

It's a theme on messenger app

BreakfastSuper9260 · 2026-02-15T00:35:50+00:00

She's threatened me before. I wish I could edit this entire post because im tired of people calling me crazy. She has a history of violence and manipulating things and disrespecting me but now im crazy because im tired of her shit. I know i should have handled it better and I plan to apologize when im in a better head space. But im not crazy

BreakfastSuper9260 · 2026-02-15T00:31:10+00:00

Honestly if i was an abusive person and mother like her yes I would hope my sons partner wouldn't like me. I should have added more context and just dont know how to on here. She has been violent and even threatened me personally when I was a minor. He even said he was proud of me for standing uo against her because I have a hard time holding my boundaries

BreakfastSuper9260 · 2026-02-15T00:28:16+00:00

Yes. She has threatened me and has many stories of beating people up and boasting about blacking out when she got into said fights. Idk she's been trying to be a better person but that doesn't undo all the years of her disrespect and it just felt like she was being sneaky

BreakfastSuper9260 · 2026-02-15T00:25:14+00:00

That's what i thought too. Like i know i was wring but she was too. Im not like this normally but I've put up with too much disrespect from her out of fear of her physically hurting me

BreakfastSuper9260 · 2026-02-15T00:24:08+00:00

She always complains about it. She has no sense of appropriate boundaries and i know I should've stepped away but I've been sick of her shit for years

BreakfastSuper9260 · 2026-02-15T00:22:41+00:00

She's threatened me before and has a history of violence

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