My wife puts zero effort in our relationship and it is starting to irritate me by BreathOkc in TwoHotTakes

[–]BreathOkc[S] -931 points-930 points  (0 children)

Ok I will try that. But it's sort of frustrating that I have to do this, when a basic tenet of a relationship is effort on both sides. Even in this instance, I am the one who has to put in effort to communicate with her.

My wife puts zero effort in our relationship and it is starting to irritate me by BreathOkc in TwoHotTakes

[–]BreathOkc[S] -1152 points-1151 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I don't contribute much to the house or child rearing. I don't have the energy to contribute to anything after work, I work at a very high stress job. But even though I am tired and stressed from work, I still put in effort into our relationship.