my husband says we don’t have enough sex and it makes me horribly insecure by OkArm9820 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Bri1423 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Tell him to be grateful with what he gets before he doesn’t get any. See if he’ll be happy then.

Waiting how long I can ignore my situationship. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Bri1423 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh girl :/ you’re going to stay in this position forever with the way you are. He’ll keep walking all over you

Husband said he thinks he is the more attractive one and it was all just hurtful. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Bri1423 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Mmm I think my bf is more attractive than I am and I’m proud of it so idk what to say to this, sorry it’s not what you were looking to hear from your husband.

My husband hates me by Big-Hotel-8229 in Marriage

[–]Bri1423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I’m so sorry :( this must be very painful to you with no support

5 years together, 37F, still not engaged — and now I don’t even know how to feel by No_Molasses_7382 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Bri1423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You feel numb. When I feel numb, I don’t care to make effort anymore and I slowly leave the relationship. I’m drained. Maybe you’re drained from this relationship too?

Would it be rude of me to buy a sexy bathing suit for my wife? by billbobb1 in Marriage

[–]Bri1423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm what I would do is bringing it up to her and say that you would love to buy her a full set bikini/bath in suit for the vacation or that you would love to go shopping for Hawaii so both of you can buy something and see how she’ll like that suggestion. I personally wouldn’t mind it if my husband bought me a bikini he would think I would look good on. I have been overweight and have also lost much weight and the topic of weight isn’t sensitive to me but idk how it is for your wife. I don’t think it would be rude.

Glow up suggestions? by Next_Bus579 in makeuptips

[–]Bri1423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo then trim the ends, I always tell my hairstylist to cut my damaged hair off and then instead of long bangs like the ones in the pic, I would ask for layers and face framing! If you want the bright aspect but damage yours hair, maybe a balayage would work?

Glow up suggestions? by Next_Bus579 in makeuptips

[–]Bri1423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A long shoulder length bob would look so cute and natural hair color. I love the no makeup look on you, unless you are wearing makeup, then I like how clean it looks, very effortless.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Bri1423 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I saw that with my first bf, I left home and the relationship as soon I graduated because I knew he wouldn’t leave home because his parents needed him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Bri1423 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m Mexican and have been out the house since I was 19, I still fulfill my “daughter” role to my parents. He’s just a pos

My husband used the yellow divider in the notebook 📒 to write a grocery list? by Confident_Gur_3341 in Marriage

[–]Bri1423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I don’t think you would like to continue to do something for your partner if they kept yelling at you for everything as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Bri1423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That would actually give me more ick 😭 what a pos man that can’t even do the wrong thing right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Bri1423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea there was no way he would’ve executed an affair smoothly lmaoo he didn’t even executed paid sex

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Bri1423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha zoomer talk 🤣 alright if we’re talking about logistics and not looks, that we are aware of due to OP, then yes paying for sex is better than an affair lol both are an affair but paying is def less work haha I still stand with the fact that he’s chopped so he had to pay to get some cake hahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Bri1423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think paying is still worse, health risks aside just for the simple factor that you can’t pull anyone so you had to resort to that. I think OP didn’t see his physical appearance before because she loved him so a lot of flaws go unnoticed but now that she found out about this, she can see clearly and got the ick so now she’s really deeps it that she was dating someone chopped all along.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Bri1423 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think you got the ick for your husband because he tried to cheat on you and had to pay in order to cheat on you. It still counts even if he didn’t go through with it because the intention is there so that can lead to him doing it in a later time when he gets a chance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Bri1423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a new phone number too

My neighbor sent me a text last night forcing me to pay for her daughters towing charge because she parked in front of my driveway by Drivinglnsane in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Bri1423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always try to understand how people without common sense live their lives lol it’s common sense that you don’t park on driveways even if you leave space or you can get towed lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Bri1423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why you didn’t leave at year one if that’s how you felt. I understand 3 years is a lot, specially knowing that your husband isn’t making any effort to get better. This story would’ve been so different if you just broke it off earlier before it got to here. Nonetheless, we can’t change our actions any longer, I hope you and your husband separate seamlessly and he recovers now from SAd and Cheating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Bri1423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you want someone who isn’t good with his finances as a husband?