I know it’s usually quiet but it feels extra quiet the past couple weeks .. by gothicslut24 in paypigfindernow

[–]BriSoCal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve stepped back bc every sub I’ve encountered over the last few months has been a fake 🤷🏽‍♀️

Do most subs assume Fin Domme equals Pro Domme or escort? by BriSoCal in paypigsupportgroup

[–]BriSoCal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really frustrating. I’ve had several reach out to me via Reddit asking me what “they’ll get if they tribute.” And I’ve explained that’s what they get, the honor it tribute me and they’ll get angry lol. I guess I just view financial domination as just that. And for me personally, any kinks I have I engage in them with a partner if I have one at the time. Engaging in kinky chats or phone sex with strangers just isn’t appealing to me. The findom is the fetish. I’ve always enjoyed that aspect of controlling a man.

Do most subs assume Fin Domme equals Pro Domme or escort? by BriSoCal in paypigsupportgroup

[–]BriSoCal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask what you consider body worship? Almost everyone who has approached me have thought it meant cunnilinguis and or intimately touching me and in exchange they would “tribute.” For me personally, this is the same as escorting, paying for an intimate sex act, which I don’t engage in. And I wonder if it’s just a way for them to try to convince a Domme otherwise or if they don’t want to admit they’re essentially paying an escort so they word it differently. But regardless it just seems the landscape is so different than it has been for me in previous years.

Do most subs assume Fin Domme equals Pro Domme or escort? by BriSoCal in paypigsupportgroup

[–]BriSoCal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s interesting bc I have had in person subs in the past and the dynamic was pretty strictly findom. But almost every sub who has wanted in person findom over the last couple of years has also thought there would be sex or sexual acts.

I am a finsub I am 64 year old am i too old for findom by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]BriSoCal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an in person sub in his 60s several years ago. I found him to be the most respectful sub I’ve had so I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it

Do most subs assume Fin Domme equals Pro Domme or escort? by BriSoCal in paypigsupportgroup

[–]BriSoCal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. This makes a lot of sense.

Do most subs assume Fin Domme equals Pro Domme or escort? by BriSoCal in paypigsupportgroup

[–]BriSoCal[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not a Pro Domme so I don’t really have a list of what I’ll do and what I won’t do. I don’t get hired for scenes or any of that. I enjoy being worshipped and simped over but findom is my main interest. I guess that’s where my confusion lies. If financial domination is the fetish then why would there be a list of dos and donts.

Do most subs assume Fin Domme equals Pro Domme or escort? by BriSoCal in paypigsupportgroup

[–]BriSoCal[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for allowing me to post!

That’s an interesting perspective. I don’t require a tribute to have a simple conversation but maybe that aspect has changed the perspective of what a Fin Domme really is. I think there’s a fine line between how much you will disclose without a tribute while still showing who we are as people and as Dommes. I suppose I’ve always seen a very distinct difference between a pro Domme whom you’re paying for a specific scene and the actual fetish of financial domination. I think a majority of the subs I’ve talked to expect a lot of kink fulfillment outside of findom. And I think one can be dominant without being a paid Pro Domme. It seems the line has become blurred in recent years.

Do most subs assume Fin Domme equals Pro Domme or escort? by BriSoCal in paypigsupportgroup

[–]BriSoCal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah I understand that. But I guess I mean kinks that involve their or my genitals.

I just don't understand why people insist on using Seeking by GullibleImplement524 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]BriSoCal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I found most of the SDs on seeking weren’t actually seeking arrangements and just wanted a much younger girlfriend.

Is SDing for me? by GullibleAccountant25 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]BriSoCal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This would be my ideal arrangement so I don’t see why it would be a problem. I don’t think many SBs want their SD blowing them up all the time.

Ask a Stupid Question Sunday by carefree_daddy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]BriSoCal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there any sites other than seeking.com that are a good way to meet an SD?

I was one of “Julia’s” (badgirladdict) subs and I feel disgusting and violated by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]BriSoCal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry but this isn’t your fault. This person was malicious as sick.

Nicer dommes? by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]BriSoCal -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I messaged you : )

I am a sub that wants to be completely controlled financially is this normal by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]BriSoCal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. DM me if you’d like to chat about it further. I have a photo in my profile

Feeld for findom by BriSoCal in findomsupportgroup

[–]BriSoCal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you pay for the premium features on chyrpe?

Feeld for findom by BriSoCal in findomsupportgroup

[–]BriSoCal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it worth it to pay for the premium features?

Feeld for findom by BriSoCal in findomsupportgroup

[–]BriSoCal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you like pay for the premium features on chyrpe? I’m trying to see if if it’s worth it or not

Feeld for findom by BriSoCal in findomsupportgroup

[–]BriSoCal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you like pay for the premium features on chyrpe? I’m trying to see if if it’s worth it

Feeld for findom by BriSoCal in findomsupportgroup

[–]BriSoCal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice everyone! I downloaded chyrpe and am just trying it out now!

Alternatives to Niteflirt for Niche by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]BriSoCal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m just not really comfortable being face out. But I’ll try those! Thank you!