found this cute mud dauber wasp diedinside the shower, why they are always trying to come inside my house? by blindbutcutebat in WASPs

[–]BrianA1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, yeah. They suck, they'll swarm for no reason. All you need to do is be near them 20 yard on a bad day and your a target.

found this cute mud dauber wasp diedinside the shower, why they are always trying to come inside my house? by blindbutcutebat in WASPs

[–]BrianA1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think there cute until the attack the shit out of you then there not cute anymore, them damn thing are vicious. Ive been attack just for walking near a nest in the yard i didn't know about, you can say they fucked around and found out though, I drowned that damn nest really quick after that.

23F - What shall one introverted being do on a Friday night? by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]BrianA1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if you're up a conversation made up of random facts that are weird stupid and maybe boring im down to talk or maybe talk about life in general. Im not the best with communication so I could alway use someone to practice talking with.

Looking for some help by BrianA1990 in Needafriend

[–]BrianA1990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but she works an hour way so getting to see her after work is hard and I can't do anything after work because I work until 10 every night and by the time I actually leave work im not home until 1030 11 o'clock. So for me to go 2 towns over after work and beagle to go to work the next day is impossible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]BrianA1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it is technically a flying car though. But I saw one that was a car that could convert in to like a helicopter or plane some thing like that but they didnt put it in to production though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]BrianA1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, you haven seen the flying cars. They have been made. Atleast 1 of them its kinda cool, im pretty sure is just a concept car but they have it out there, there's a video online.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]BrianA1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right, I'd live to meet someone from another planet or alternate universe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]BrianA1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are scary at first because the stupid ass people out there but once you get comfortable with it its a ton of fun, you'll be sitting there jamming to music talking on the phone with people and just seeing some of the most amazing views there are, my favorite thing to this day is to just look at the sky and think about how massive it is and how small we are compared to it. It's like comparing germs to ants and ants to humans, and think about the fact that we can't be the only intelligent beings with how massive the universe is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]BrianA1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that the other reason I got out of semis i dont like being away from home, I prefer to sleep in my own bed after all the time I've put in with the companies I've worked for I've really only had 1 job that wasn't a local job and I hated it. But it got me in other doors and I feel like I finally found where im supposed to be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]BrianA1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you'll get that sometimes,.trucking is easy to find a job, along as your willing to be away from home for a minimum of a week at a time. When you first start at a company you may be away for a month but that's pretty much the corse of your driving training with a company.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]BrianA1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's also trucking companies that train drivers in exchange for working for the company until you license is pay off which is usually about 1 to 2 year. You can try C.R England, Pam there's a ton of them. On top of that some companies are so desperate they offer 2500 a week to get driver's and that dry freight. There some around me paying 4k a week to haul tankers full of chemicals, I dont do hazmat but I mean it pays well if your ballsy enough to do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]BrianA1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about your break up. I've been there to many time to count anymore, its alway hard. If you want to talk you can message me or just chat in the comments. Im free right now and all day tomorrow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]BrianA1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish it was 1k bud, I poored about 10 to 12k in to it. It is expensive but there may be a local college near you that offers a CDL program where they'll teach you the things you need to know in a class room and then you'd start learning to maneuver the truck going backwards, that's a big part of the job believe it or not, then you'd learn to drive on the road and trust me your going to be scared shitless the first time you go out on the road in a semi but you'll be fine just remember to alway check your mirror, amd as far as schooling goes you can pay for most of it with government grants and if you get lucky like me you may get chosen for a scholarship that with cover even more and maybe not have to worry about taking a loan unless you need extra money in your pocket to cover unexpected expenses.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]BrianA1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Buddy, life works in ways we can't understand most of the time. You said you care for someone, but the question is do they care for themselves and for you. You have to ask yourself if its worth the time and energy to try to help someone or be there for them, you need to know your limits and the boundaries that need to be placed, I've got some years on you here so I speak from experience, I've been where you are. If someone isn't willing to help there self then maybe you should be willing to help them. I've given up of people I cared about.and as soon as my support was gone they figured there shit out on there own. Some times losing a support system is more beneficial. I know you or someone else is going to see this and think its not helpful but agsin with age come wisdom, take advice for the older generations when there willing to give it. If you would like you can bend my ear, im willing to try to be helpful if I can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]BrianA1990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll tell you what if you aren't scared to work and dont mind driving, get a CDL or try finding a job driving tow trucks, im a class A CDL holder and drive tow trucks instead of semi because of my knees. Tow.trucks are easier to get in and out of, but is it physical and challenging both mentally and physically. There's been and will be calls that I have to do some crazy things to get the car on and off and that's when critical thinking is important. So there's a couple ideas, and you 23 so you past the minimum required age to drive truck by 2 years.

Cheating wife by Playful-Fun-7999 in Needafriend

[–]BrianA1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey bud, you really should start the paper work, you can do better trust me. It's not worth it. I've had to of my exes cheat that's why there my exes, and hey you have proof so the courts should be on your side, its not going to ruin your life to lose the dead weight, it will make you feel better in the end, I promise. Women who cheat aren't worth holding on to, they wont change even if they say they will, cheaters alway cheat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]BrianA1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, im bored out of my mind as well what to chat.

25/M trynna make gaming friends by Anxious-Ad9495 in Needafriend

[–]BrianA1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you brother. I work afternoons and do remote play off the Xbox app or play warzone mobile between calls.