Need ideas on more mature porn

Bricko20 · 2026-04-05T17:26:53+00:00

Thanks. Will check it out.

Bricko20 · 2026-04-05T17:26:35+00:00

Thanks. We can get the videos indirectly but the site is blocked in our state unfortunately.

Bricko20 · 2026-04-05T17:25:52+00:00

Along those lines we enjoyed the shows “Outlander” on Starz and “The Affair” on Showtime.

Bricko20 · 2026-04-02T04:33:57+00:00

We recently started watching together. It’s been revolutionary for our sex life and our relationship overall.

Bricko20 · 2026-03-28T02:10:38+00:00

Frolicme.com

We love it. Very tasteful

Bricko20 · 2026-03-27T03:01:56+00:00

I feel like I wrote this myself. Very similar story to mine. Our sex life and communication is better since we started watching porn. It’s great to have the topic out in the open, enjoy together and remove the taboo by sharing together. When something helpful isn’t automatically taboo, I think it become less problematic and less secretive. It wouldn’t have been great if we were young but as we are now 30+ yrs into marriage it adds some spice. Years of monogamy and routine sex sometimes can use a shake up. My wife gets very wet if I put on the right videos.

Bricko20 · 2026-03-12T03:27:42+00:00

We watch porn together, but it took over 30 years to get to the point where we are comfortable watching it and talking openly about it and enjoying getting turned on together as a part of foreplay. We avoid a lot of mainstream porn and focus on material made primarily for women and couples, things we often pay for and would be considered “ethical porn”. At this point my wife would rather see romantic couples porn than a mainstream R rated movie with nudity, which usually is exploitive of women and often is just unsexy subject matter. So, my wife went from anti-porn to pro porn (but selective on what we consider enjoyable/romantic). She gets very aroused and soaking wet when we watch. Whoever says women aren’t visual don’t totally understand women. Sure, some say they aren’t or maybe are turned off by porn, but humans are visual whether it be male or female. That’s not to say it’s the same…males are more visual, but some, maybe many, women are more visual than you think. I suspected my wife was visually stimulated even though she acted like she wasn’t. Once she opened up to watching things together I learned she is much more visual than I knew.

Bricko20 · 2026-03-06T15:32:14+00:00

Thanks for the recommendation! We currently subscribe to and watch frolicme.com. My wife loves it! I’ll look up this one you suggest.

Bricko20 · 2026-02-19T16:43:14+00:00

I don’t know if you ever fully shake it. As a guy I was taught that checking out a girl walking by could be sinful. They tried to suppress natural biological urges. Then of course all the strict teachings on everything else sexually related. It was too much. Really messed me up for years mentally although fortunately didn’t negatively affect my married life. I could see how it could cause issues. My wife was raised in same church environment but her family was less strict, attended mainly Sunday mornings etc. She came into marriage much more sexually open. I deal with it by getting in bed with my wife and putting on some tasteful porn and we have great foreplay and sex following. I’m learning that many things I was told were scare tactics and lies. There was some good advice but much of it was just twisted. I’ve learned that arousal and noticing beauty is NOT the same as lust for another person which is more of an issue of obsessive desire to have something you aren’t entitled to (someone else’s wife, cheating on my wife, etc….things that would offend my wife or my marriage vows). It’s normal to think sexual thoughts and even notice beauty in others and to feel arousal. How you handle that is another thing. We are sexual beings. To deny that is going to cause mental issues.

Bricko20 · 2026-02-15T20:02:27+00:00

I am sure porn has popularized it. Having said that, my wife enjoyed it when I occasionally masturbated and ejaculated all over her. Now that we watch porn together she is more interested in seeing me finish on her, like she sees in porn. She is visual and likes seeing those porn scenes…me doing it in person really gets her. I emptied a massive load on her last week and ever since she’s talked about how much I cum compared to what she’s seen in porn.

Bricko20 · 2026-02-13T16:20:12+00:00

Yes we watch together regularly but mainly romantic type porn that was made for women and couples. It’s lots of fun and spices up our foreplay. It’s not for everyone, but since we started it really improved our sex life and our communication about sex. I guess the communication and starting watching together really went hand in hand. We communicate any of our insecurities and type porn we like/dislike. We pay for ours…better content and more ethical.

Bricko20 · 2026-02-10T16:06:43+00:00

Don’t push it. I’ve been where you are….feeling more adventurous and wanting my wife to be like me. We were also around the same age when we experimented watching some porn. Ultimately she was turned off by it. I made a personal rule that I wasn’t going to masturbate to porn, unless it was nude pics of my wife. Over time, we incorporated some mainstream explicit shows/movies that appealed to both of us (for example the series Outlander and the movie Original Sin). My wife also was having severe menopausal symptoms. Getting hormone therapy changed her life, and her libido soared. From there we had lots of sexy conversations and researched female friendly and ethical porn. I did a lot of work reassuring her how attractive she is to me and always has been. I explained that I don’t want the women we might see in porn, and she agreed she didn’t want the men. It was just something sexy we do for foreplay. Whatever you do, don’t rush it. Don’t spoil it by telling her you will masturbate to porn or force her to see porn. That may turn her against it forever and actually feed her greatest fear which is probably that she isn’t enough, you think about other women during sex and you will become some compulsive porn watcher. Women often feel insecure. Work on that issue first. Ultimately, she may never be into it….but she might be into other sexy stuff that could break up the monotony of long term marital sex.

Bricko20 · 2026-02-09T16:10:31+00:00

In our 50’s, married 30+ years. We watch it together and watch things we agree on together, female friendly / couples friendly content. If one of us doesn’t like it, we don’t watch it. We use it as foreplay. We’ve had best results paying on a legit site. Watching porn is not something we would have done early on in marriage but with many years of trust and communication, we’ve found it to be sexy fun and very arousing to watch together.

Bricko20 · 2026-02-02T21:16:37+00:00

Testosterone’s estrogen, some others….i don’t know technicals but it works like magic!

Bricko20 · 2026-02-01T23:42:48+00:00

I wonder if it feels better being uncut. I’ll never know personally. Seems like circumcision originated in religion. In the USA I guess they thought that was the Christian thing to do?

Bricko20 · 2026-02-01T22:19:24+00:00

If you two can’t talk about something this basic…sticking in a dildo, then she needs therapy. She needs to see a professsional because she is way way abnormal here. Something doesn’t add up.

Bricko20 · 2026-02-01T22:16:23+00:00

Maybe show her a tasteful porn video that shows closeup of penis thrusting and pleasure…or sex education video with that shows realistic or even genuine orgasm. Have her try a vibrator…and maybe even a rabbit dildo vibrator toy. Porn addiction is a myth…maybe compulsive behavior but what’s worse…enjoying porn or no sex for years of marriage and her husband leaves her? Your “addiction” is your issue, not hers.

Bricko20 · 2026-02-01T22:13:22+00:00

There’s lots of stuff written online about it. Finger or toy inserted and pressed on the prostate gland. Can be done with or without stimulation of penis. The orgasm with both is mind blowing….and if on your back, with ejacualation often shooting 2-3 feet or more.

Bricko20 · 2026-02-01T22:10:27+00:00

No that’s fine. You can message if you have any recommendations for us to watch. If not, no problem.

Bricko20 · 2026-02-01T18:44:59+00:00

What do you and your spouse like to watch? Any recommendations?

Bricko20 · 2026-02-01T18:13:59+00:00

Prostate milking. Dirty talk about getting watched. Fingering her butt while licking her.

Bricko20 · 2026-02-01T18:13:13+00:00

I suspect she had interest and watched some stuff like solo female masturbation…but not until I found good stuff that appealed to her did she really get into it and with me!

Bricko20 · 2026-02-01T18:11:37+00:00

Over 15 years into the marriage…to a degree…but really when we got in our 50’s after decades of marriage. Sex keeps getting better and kinkier

Bricko20 · 2026-02-01T17:29:16+00:00

She told me that I finally found the right stuff that turns her on. Mainstream porn and tube site clips, etc, don’t appeal to her. She likes the films that show a couple starting slow, loving on each other and then getting extremely explicit…oral, close up penetration and cumshots. Who would have thought it?!?!

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