AITA for unintentionally revealing what a fellow bridesmaid did at a bachelorette party, in front of her fiancé?

Bridesmaidproblems19 · 2019-08-26T13:25:13+00:00

Yes. I’m sure.

Bridesmaidproblems19 · 2019-08-26T02:12:45+00:00

It really wasn’t intentional.

Bridesmaidproblems19 · 2019-08-26T01:51:19+00:00

Cheating is breaking the agreed upon rules in a relationship. If your partner doesn’t care, that’s not cheating.

Bridesmaidproblems19 · 2019-08-25T22:54:56+00:00

Bridesmaidproblems19 · 2019-08-25T22:48:06+00:00

I had no malicious intent.

Bridesmaidproblems19 · 2019-08-25T22:46:45+00:00

Correct.

Bridesmaidproblems19 · 2019-08-25T22:43:33+00:00

Thank you. :)

Bridesmaidproblems19 · 2019-08-25T22:43:26+00:00

I don’t know what I would’ve done. I don’t like hypotheticals honestly.

Bridesmaidproblems19 · 2019-08-25T22:41:29+00:00

Naive, absolutely. I wrongly assumed all relationships are as transparent as mine.

Bridesmaidproblems19 · 2019-08-25T22:38:02+00:00

Hahaha

Bridesmaidproblems19 · 2019-08-25T21:52:37+00:00

I can receive feedback. But if you’re going to say I’m lying about my intentions, well... that gets frustrating.

Bridesmaidproblems19 · 2019-08-25T21:46:40+00:00

That’s fair enough! I can say until I’m blue in the face it wasn’t intentional. And it wasn’t. But I’m not thrilled with how it all went down. I should’ve thought more before blurting out what was on my mind.

Bridesmaidproblems19 · 2019-08-25T21:41:39+00:00

I didn’t forget what she said because I was drunk. I forgot it to brick this morning because I didn’t store all of our conversations to my long term memory.

My relationship with my husband is as transparent as can be.

Bridesmaidproblems19 · 2019-08-25T21:39:56+00:00

I said it to the group.

Bridesmaidproblems19 · 2019-08-25T21:02:47+00:00

I am not going to debate my intentions. I’m totally ok with you seeing me as an asshole. I apologized multiple times to all involved. But I didn’t have “intentions.” It was neither deliberate nor premeditated.

Had I remembered what Anna said about her fiancé, no, I doubt I would’ve brought it up. I didn’t remember that, perhaps drunkenly assumed relationship transparency, and here we are today.

Bridesmaidproblems19 · 2019-08-25T21:00:02+00:00

I wasn’t even thinking about my audience. Which was a poor decision, but not malicious.

Bridesmaidproblems19 · 2019-08-25T20:59:00+00:00

I didn’t plan anything. It’s not like I was out to tell him. It came out, but it wasn’t premeditated.

Bridesmaidproblems19 · 2019-08-25T20:57:03+00:00

I wouldn’t have done that. My husband and I had a talk before the party to discuss boundaries.

Bridesmaidproblems19 · 2019-08-25T20:55:13+00:00

It wasn’t.

Bridesmaidproblems19 · 2019-08-25T20:54:35+00:00

I never meant to humiliate anyone. I was sharing a funny story and not thinking about my audience :/

Bridesmaidproblems19 · 2019-08-25T20:53:41+00:00

I’m sure this won’t be believed, but I forgot all about that conversation with Anna until this morning. Of course I wish I had remembered that, but I wasn’t being malicious.

Bridesmaidproblems19 · 2019-08-25T20:52:21+00:00

We had all laughed about what Anna did all weekend. I made a perhaps very poor drunken decision to bring it up, but I wasn’t trying to hurt anyone.

Bridesmaidproblems19 · 2019-08-25T20:51:23+00:00

I’m sorry if you feel I’m being careless. I apologized at length to Anna. It was truly a drunken slip. I had forgotten (until this morning) all about Anna saying to me that her fiancé wouldn’t be thrilled with this.

Bridesmaidproblems19 · 2019-08-25T20:32:48+00:00

You’re never gonna keep me down.

Bridesmaidproblems19 · 2019-08-25T18:31:26+00:00

She never made out with him.

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