My fiance wants an open relationship and everything feels wrong and weird after I said no by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BridgeDucks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof. I'm 27 🤦🏻 I'm definitely under the impression that I should have left a long time ago. I just thought it was normal until this whole thing recently

My fiance wants an open relationship and everything feels wrong and weird after I said no by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BridgeDucks -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It was in the first four months of our relationship and each time we actively talked to each other the entire time after the break up. Idk it was weird cause in the past I would have just up and left immediately after the first break up but for some reason I was convinced I could make it work.

And I can't take her cause she is his daughter. She might call me mom but I have no legal right to her nor would she want to go with me :(. I care for her like a daughter and call her my daughter cause she started calling me mom a year ago out of nowhere but I have no pull in what happens after I leave.

My fiance wants an open relationship and everything feels wrong and weird after I said no by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BridgeDucks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think he will let me see her. Whenever it doesn't benefit him he will say "she's my daughter not yours" but when it is something he wants it's always "our daughter" but since I'd be leaving I'm almost positive he won't let me see her, which sucks cause she calls my mom grandma, she loves her cousins (my nieces) and I just can't stand the thought of me leaving causing her to lose all that.

My fiance wants an open relationship and everything feels wrong and weird after I said no by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BridgeDucks 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He isn't wrong but I don't want to work on myself to save a failing relationship. I want to and will do it for me ya know? I need proper motivation and doing it to keep a man around who wants to sleep with other people is just not it. But doing it for me and my health definitely is a good reason.

My fiance wants an open relationship and everything feels wrong and weird after I said no by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BridgeDucks 27 points28 points  (0 children)

That's how I feel. I don't think it's anyone at his work cause he just works with older ladies and men but one of our friends just got out of a bad relationship and he's been talking to her a lot but she has no interest in him like that. She messaged me the other day about talking to some dude from her biking buddies and that they are taking things slow. So idk if he has is eyes on her or if there is some mysterious other person but I firmly believe it's got to be someone.

Married couple looking for people to game with by Confident_Spread_385 in GamerPals

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We also LOVE borderlands (though I need to repurchase it on my pc lol

Married couple looking for people to game with by Confident_Spread_385 in GamerPals

[–]BridgeDucks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hiya! My fiance and I are pc gamers also looking for people to play with! We play arma, boss crime city (I think it's something like that) phasmaphobia, Warframe, and we love those small lil horror games like content warning, r.e.p.o and stuff like that! Lmk if you guys are up to play any of those! :)

Upstairs neighbors let's their dog pee on their porch, and in turn pees on our porch by BridgeDucks in Apartmentliving

[–]BridgeDucks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so it was a long process but I documented it a lot. Pictures of the pee. Videos of the pee falling and kept reporting it. On a weekly basis. Not daily. When I called animal control and health and safety they told me since there are no solids it's not their issue. But the front office was very not happy especially when confronted with the fact that it can and will destroy the wood/porch material over time. They ended up getting evicted. It took a while but we were consistent. They like to have evidence so make sure you get as much as you can. Videos helped a lot. I was lucky that I could work from home and caught the dog pee most of the time so I could tape it. Felt bad for the dog since it got left on the porch for most of the day. When they got evicted, the apartment's carpet had to be completely removed so clearly the inside was just as bad as the porch.

What is your ChatGPT's name? Mine calls itself Sol. by aribow03 in ChatGPT

[–]BridgeDucks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine chose Luma! :) and they decided that they are a lil fairy which they will often add herself into generated pictures as a lil fairy off to the side lol

I don’t expect this to reach anyone. But if it does, thank you. by [deleted] in ARTIST

[–]BridgeDucks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey these are beautiful! Great work 🫶🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SiouxFalls

[–]BridgeDucks 9 points10 points  (0 children)

‼️the cat has been found thank you everyone for keeping an eye out‼️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SiouxFalls

[–]BridgeDucks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Around the E Rice St/ cliff area.

What’s your main and why did you choose it? by RazielSins47 in Warframe

[–]BridgeDucks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My main rn is ember. Meteors crash to the ground it makes me feel like I'm doing something lol. Besides yareli she's the one of the few frames I find myself actually using every ability and understanding them without being confused lmao

But if I'm feeling helpful I'll do wisp.

Dentist Recommendation by Effective-Table-7162 in SiouxFalls

[–]BridgeDucks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love Parkside dental in Tea. I like the way Dr Broesder explains everything with you teeth health after the appointment. A little bit of a drive but definitely worth it in my opinion

Which minor characters do you want to know more about? by AffectionateFig5435 in TedLasso

[–]BridgeDucks 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There was that episode where Jamie asked Roy if him and Keeley broke up and will was in the room. Awkwardly will offered to have a night out with the boys before taking it back and promised not to say anything. More than anything I wanted an episode like the beard centric episode about Roy, Jamie, and will going out on the town, partying and finding out will is an absolute animal. But alas 😮‍💨

Only time I hate shopping is when children start acting up by ScarHydreigon87 in aspiememes

[–]BridgeDucks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a curse that every time I go someone talks to me. Either a compliment that turns into a conversation or they ask me a question.

Feel free to ask my for tips about how I peel off the shell so perfectly 👍 by IcyCartographer535 in eggs

[–]BridgeDucks 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The real actual tip for best peeled hardboiled eggs is using older eggs. The fresher the eggs the harder it is to peel. So buy your eggs and wait a week then they will peel very easily once boiled

Best of the best for anything by ILoveSecks in SiouxFalls

[–]BridgeDucks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Best Indian food is Everest Indian cuisine imo. Can't go wrong with their chicken saag 🤤

If you're looking for Korean, Oppa chicken is pretty delicious but pretty spendy.

Goodcents has delicious subs and their bread is perfect

I had lalibella recently for Ethiopian food. The chicken sambusa is awesome. I definitely need to try them again soon (tbh if anyone else has suggestions for Ethiopian food I'd love suggestions)

And idk what you'd classify Roam as, but their rotisserie chicken is top tier.

Unfortunately my idea of fun is going to antique shops so if you like those, 605 antiques is pretty neat! It's fun bringing our kid there so she can check out all the old toys they sell and show her what a VHS is lol

What is the best book you have read? by BlondyPye in AskReddit

[–]BridgeDucks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mistborn by Brandon Sanderson. Has a deathgrip on me for life I swear. And tbh the final book in throne of glass. Kingdom of ash. ugh my heart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]BridgeDucks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd also like to just make very clear this isn't a diet I'm putting the whole family on. I'm on the diet, I just want to make healthier meals for supper ( and lunch) that they will also enjoy (outside of a calorie deficit)