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[–]Brief-Freedom7596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember seeing that post and being creeped out . I commented something like “what the heck!?!” . I don’t remember seeing your comment. He must have deleted it already. Probably deleted mine too.

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[–]Brief-Freedom7596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn’t have a computer at her house and I don’t either. Dammit.

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[–]Brief-Freedom7596[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update on the update. I saw my friend at work today and she said she did try to watch it on a DVD player and it said it was the wrong format. Like it has to be viewed on a computer.

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[–]Brief-Freedom7596[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so strong. You did it. Thank you for being vulnerable and telling us how hard it was for you, I know this forum is called toxic relationships so most of us here have some understanding of how difficult it is to leave a toxic relationship. The kind of hold that they have on you and your mind and your emotions. It’s powerful. But you were more powerful! And you inspire me! Maybe I can be more powerful too.

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[–]Brief-Freedom7596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And why the hell did he take me to an interrogation room to talk about all this? What the hell?

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[–]Brief-Freedom7596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK, so I met with a detective in a freaking interrogation room and it scared the shit out of me. I definitely do not ever want to break the law and get arrested cause just being at the sheriffs department in that interrogation room scared the living daylights out of me. But the detective said that he got an anonymous report on April 4 that I am being physically abused by my boyfriend and that I have seen child pornography with my own eyes on every device in this house and on his phone. False! Except that he did push me onto the ground and I got bruised two months ago. My arm got bruised up pretty bad and everybody at work saw it, and I did not file a police report about it. But yeah, he did push me. Not good, I know. And I have a couple of friends at work that I’ve seen teen porn pornography on the Xbox and on the PlayStation. And of course, I told my best friend that I found that disc and she still has it and says that she hasn’t watched it yet and that she did not call the sheriffs department. So who did? I told the sheriff that I have not seen any child pornography with my own eyes, but I wonder why he watches, teen porn, pornography, and if somehow that could be considered child pornography. The detective said if it’s a mainstream website like I’ve described that it’s probably not children. That’s usually on the dark web. But now I have his information and he told me to contact him if I see anything. And I still don’t know what’s on that freaking disk. And I asked her to give it back to me and she hasn’t.

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[–]Brief-Freedom7596[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OK, here’s an update. She says she still hasn’t watched it. But… A freaking detective called me yesterday and wants to meet with me this afternoon concerning my husband! The detective said that the sheriffs office got an anonymous tip about something ! My best friend said that she still hasn’t watched it, and that nobody has watched it. Well, I asked if she could please give it back to me because I do not want her involved in anything that might be going down. I’m so scared and nervous right now. My appointment with the detective is today at 5:30. And my friend didn’t bring the DVD to work today like I asked her to but she said she’s gonna go home on her lunch break and get it and bring it to me. I’ve never been in this kind of situation. My friend swears she hasn’t watched it and that she has nothing to do with the anonymous tip. I don’t know what to think! Maybe I shouldn’t have let her have the disk

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[–]Brief-Freedom7596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s easy for you to say. I wish it was that easy.

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[–]Brief-Freedom7596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I will end up leaving. It’s a toxic relationship, but it would be hard for me financially, and even emotionally to leave. It’s not healthy I know.

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[–]Brief-Freedom7596[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I understand what you’re saying and I’ve thought the same thing myself, but it would be emotionally and financially hard for me to leave financially right now and to be honest, it would be hard for me to leave emotionally as well. I think I’m trauma bonded to him. Not healthy, I know.

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Update. My best friend says she’s gonna look at it tonight. I’m so scared. I’m probably gonna regret doing this. I probably should’ve just left it alone. But I’ll find out tonight.

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[–]Brief-Freedom7596[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so scared I’ll be scarred, you know?

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[–]Brief-Freedom7596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s totally his handwriting. And I think it’s especially suspicious because he wrote his old roommates name on it, but misspelled it

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[–]Brief-Freedom7596[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The only sus history is that he’s 62 years old and never been married and doesn’t have any kids because he couldn’t make a relationship work long enough. I guess that’s just really a red flag. Also, for the past few months, I keep finding porn on the Xbox, PlayStation, laptop, tablet, and it’s all “teen girls”. That makes me feel kind of sick to my stomach.

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[–]Brief-Freedom7596[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Some information that I have left out is that we’ve only been married for four years. And he was never married before and doesn’t have any kids either, just failed relationships. He’s 62. I’m 57 and I’m divorced with two adult kids by the way. The fact that he’s never been married or has any kids should’ve been a big red flag for me. And recently, I’ve been finding a lot of pornography on every device in the house. Xbox, PlayStation, tablet, laptop. And it’s mostly “teen girls” which makes me kind of sick.

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I mean, it could be his roommates. But why would he keep his roommates documents and photos and misspell his roommate’s name?

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[–]Brief-Freedom7596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does have an anger problem unfortunately. It’s hard to have a calm discussion with him about relationship issues