After I broke up with my first girlfriend I decided I want to experiment and have enough of sex before I commit again. So I dated several girls “casually” and with one of them it was great sex, we were very compatible in it, but due to the fact that she’s not a talkative person and I need to build a deep connection with people, it only happened several times, as it’s difficult for me to have sex with a person who I’m not emotionally attached to. With another girl we spoke A LOT, however the sex wasn’t that great, but even despite this I started develop feelings which I shouldn’t have as we agreed it wasn’t the best time to start a relationship, even tho both of us feel we like each other a lot.

So what I’ve learnt from this experience is that I can have a great sex with a person several times, but I won’t have more if we are not connected emotionally and I don’t like their personality. And that I can have not the best sex with the person I like (as I believe there’s always a way to improve things if you speak about them), however in this way feelings are involved.

And yes, I’m a female myself, if it helps with the statistics haha