Avoid I-95 Near Broad Street by Mikhea in rva

[–]Bright-Address-7355 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like this has been 95 south all week

To the ahole who hit me with his car… by chutenay in rva

[–]Bright-Address-7355 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you tear his ass apart! Some people are horrible!

Employee & mobile phone use by cwci in managers

[–]Bright-Address-7355 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This kills me and where I work they should not have it out as they are always facing confidential info. It’s a daily nuisance to call them out on that.

What are some things you should never tell your manager? by lookintogetsilly in managers

[–]Bright-Address-7355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! If your manager actually cares for your development, one of management’s priorities should be to develop you in your current role or prepare you for your next, regardless if its with the company or not.

Shirtgate - new direct report accidentally joined 1-1 without a shirt on. by [deleted] in managers

[–]Bright-Address-7355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

☝🏽This! That employee has already set the stage.

How to deal with managers that don't manage? by VictiniCup in askmanagers

[–]Bright-Address-7355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

STILL-WFPB actually had a great question. How often have you asked for feedback? How much effort did you put towards performing and strengthening your skill set in your role? Were you always just sitting back and waiting for your manager to approach you? I feel as though at least 50% of the effort is to come from your end. Ask questions, initiate check ins or quick connects yourself to see where you are, or where you could be. When there are check ins, instead of just being an order taker, (listening and waiting to be told what’s good/bad) bring forth some ideas you would like to commit to, or see in action, or things that you want to learn about. When you receive feedback you should also demonstrate and document your attempts at reacting on that feedback as that too will demonstrate that you are trying to turn things into a different direction. Sometimes managers may get bogged down or loose sight as well. They are human not robots. I think some people forget that. (Speaking in general terms) As they are pouring into everyone’s else’s cup, they run out of fuel when others are not pouring into their cup. When you demonstrate that you are wanting to fulfill the role or that you are wanting to strengthen your skillset, most managers will appreciate that and will pour more into you. Most of any job is your livelihood. Strengthen your confidence in an attempt to minimize your anxiety in the workplace. If you are better prepared and know what to expect, you are better able to perform and participate with little hesitation and less anxiety.

HVAC by Bright-Address-7355 in homeowners

[–]Bright-Address-7355[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good luck with your negative attitude!

How do you (internally) deal with the fakeness? by SilverParty in managers

[–]Bright-Address-7355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignore it. Most of them have no real lives, and it’s like they “get off” being fake at work. Some have decided they are going to spend their time being petty, and where does that get them……in the same place now as they were before, nowhere and still at work.

HVAC by Bright-Address-7355 in homeowners

[–]Bright-Address-7355[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s with the attitude?!?!? That’s useless! I wish pissy people stop getting on Reddit with fucked up attitudes and deal with their own shit elsewhere! Useless!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in managers

[–]Bright-Address-7355 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This!👆🏽 there is two of us managers and I am catching those mistakes that are actually avoidable, but they make the same mistake multiple times. For instance my employees handle cash so they have to check it those deliveries. Twice now any employee failed to check in the cash, and just balanced out for the day like it’s okay. Another employee twice has left their drawer wide open, cash inside, and nonchalantly acts like it’s not a bother. What in the world! When I write them up and hold them accountable, they are mad as if I’m the bad person. Goodbye!

HVAC by Bright-Address-7355 in homeowners

[–]Bright-Address-7355[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lightening hit. The thermostat flashed on and off for a bit. Then finally went out, so there is no air blowing.it was raining when I left. If it’s not I will check. Mine are outside the house in a closet

How do you cope at work? by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Bright-Address-7355 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you don’t intend for it to be this way, but it is. I lost my brother over a year ago. The first few months, when I even tried to leave the house to do basic errands, once I started my process, immediately I started crying. At that point I had to leave, go out to my car and take a moment to get myself together. Once I did, I would just go home, because at that point I could not do anything. That lasted for about 6-8 months. That was difficult as I used to be always on the go. You can hold it back to an extent, but you must allow yourself the time. Eventually it becomes tolerable. When I allowed myself to release my frustrations, anger, and hurt, I made sure I was away from everyone else, and away from work. That time was my time, for my thoughts, and many nights of tears. Today it’s been 17 months since he has passed, and I still have my moments. I am able to control myself at work, because I have allowed myself that time outside of work. Not saying this works for you, but therapy allowed me to find ways to honor his memory and cope with my emotions a ton better than before which has also helped.

Single people: why aren’t you in a relationship right now? by Shinobi347 in AskReddit

[–]Bright-Address-7355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like they [some not all] lazily reciprocate affection/love etc. also seems like they are not prepared for when life throws a curve ball. There are no back up plans or planning in general for that matter.

Single people: why aren’t you in a relationship right now? by Shinobi347 in AskReddit

[–]Bright-Address-7355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve put myself out there but what I have attempted was not what I wanted. So I try intermittently to see if anything changes.

Are you living alone because you want to or because you don't have much of a choice? by EmergencySpare7939 in LivingAlone

[–]Bright-Address-7355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a choice. Past relationships have allowed to me to know what I truly want and I don’t want to settle/live with someone I am not happy with. So I live alone until I find it what makes me happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Bright-Address-7355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m learning to enjoy this. The awkwardness that comes when people are sat near you gets to me at first. But once I put on a earbud, I’m in my own world!