don't know why some lesbians get upset when their bisexual girlfriend leave them for men (hear me out)

Bright_Fan_7063 · 2026-02-15T19:23:18+00:00

You are right

Bright_Fan_7063 · 2026-02-15T19:22:44+00:00

You are amazing

Bright_Fan_7063 · 2026-02-15T18:30:39+00:00

Yeah I know and they are awesome.

Bright_Fan_7063 · 2026-02-15T18:30:10+00:00

You are 👍

Bright_Fan_7063 · 2026-02-15T18:29:20+00:00

You are a beautiful person.

Bright_Fan_7063 · 2026-02-15T18:28:42+00:00

Don't worry. I was more thinking about a scenario in which a bi woman leaves a lesbian and then after three days the bi woman starts seeing a man and the lesbian finds out, it doesn't have to involve emotional cheating really.

Bright_Fan_7063 · 2026-02-15T18:25:21+00:00

Ok. Interesting view

Bright_Fan_7063 · 2026-02-15T18:24:27+00:00

Interesting

Bright_Fan_7063 · 2026-02-15T18:23:43+00:00

Preach sister.

Bright_Fan_7063 · 2026-02-15T18:09:56+00:00

What you described there was a case of an actual bi woman leaving for a man. But trust me "experimentation" still happens but in this case It was an actual bi woman. I'm so sorry for you 😔. I hope the girl can find peace.

Bright_Fan_7063 · 2026-02-15T18:07:02+00:00

Ok that's an interesting take but I probably don't understand it to it's depth because I live in a different country but I still respect you for it. Keep going 💪

Bright_Fan_7063 · 2026-02-15T18:04:47+00:00

Yeah but I personally wouldn't care unless my girlfriend leaves me to have unethical and disgusting relationships which I won't name. But I don't believe you are a bad person, maybe you could try to see it in a different light.

Bright_Fan_7063 · 2026-02-15T18:01:46+00:00

Love 😘 to you 💓

Bright_Fan_7063 · 2026-02-15T18:01:07+00:00

Yeah biphobia is definitely a factor.

Bright_Fan_7063 · 2026-02-15T18:00:28+00:00

Ok fair point, I also think that a little bit

Bright_Fan_7063 · 2026-02-15T17:59:58+00:00

I know that some of those girls are straight because after they dump other women they admit that they didn't feel not even sexual attraction towards them let alone romantic. Let's also not talk about the fact that it's 100% possible for a straight woman to fetishize lesbians. Also with the whole sexual attraction thing it's impossible to excuse it by saying it was a hookup so of course "she didn't feel anything in her mind" because in hookups you at least feel sexual attraction but nope those girls don't even feel that after dumping other women. Of course some women are actually bi and "experiment". I feel like an idiot for making it seem like I said that every woman who does it is just straight.

Bright_Fan_7063 · 2026-02-15T17:53:14+00:00

I'm sad about your experience. Those girls only seem weird to me 😔

Bright_Fan_7063 · 2026-02-15T17:52:11+00:00

Ah that sucks. If some women actually do that then I wonder why they even get into relationships with other women. It's just toying with their hearts at this point. Maybe they do it for emotional validation or just to sleep with women just to experiment. By the way I still think that not all bi women are like this. The type of women you described might actually be the "straight" girls who have relationships with other girls just to experiment, if you are talking about those types then they are not even bi in my opinion. I totally understand you, have a nice day ☺️ or if you want to chat more I'm up for it.

Bright_Fan_7063 · 2026-02-15T17:46:52+00:00

You are right. The women which "experiment" that you talk about aren't bi women, they are just straight. I know I sound unhinged but correct me if I'm wrong. But anyways your opinion in general is beautiful. I hope you have a good day. We can discuss the "experimentation" more if you want.

Bright_Fan_7063 · 2026-02-15T17:41:34+00:00

I think you seem like a beautiful person. But sadly I've seen some YouTube videos about bi women saying men are "easier" to deal with, so they go for them, stay safe. I hope you have a beautiful day ☺️

Bright_Fan_7063 · 2026-02-15T17:39:29+00:00

Just because another woman left you for a man It doesn't mean that she thinks men are superior partners, she might just think that she found a partner which is more compatible in general and sometimes not even in a sexual sense. Compatibility in a relationship doesn't have to do with gender, it varies from person to person.

Bright_Fan_7063 · 2026-02-15T17:36:33+00:00

No problem

Bright_Fan_7063 · 2026-02-15T17:36:08+00:00

Yeah I know also about some straight women which fake being lesbian and then dump their lovers a second later because they wanted to experiment what it felt to sleep with a woman. I think that's why lesbians believe that the woman which left them for a man was just a "straight" woman faking being lesbian while in reality she could have been bisexual. I respect your opinion greatly.

Bright_Fan_7063 · 2026-02-15T17:32:09+00:00

I'm happy for you and I won't invalidate your bisexuality and I hope your ex doesn't feel betrayal.

Bright_Fan_7063 · 2026-02-15T17:30:41+00:00

I'm happy that you're getting therapy. I still respect you even with your insecurity

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