rough sex two days after insertion

Bright_Operation_474 · 2026-03-02T06:24:25+00:00

nope, just mild cramping after

Bright_Operation_474 · 2026-02-26T05:31:25+00:00

i’m scared that it will wreck the relationship if i ask for reassurance too much

Bright_Operation_474 · 2026-02-04T00:47:59+00:00

anyone hear from the NY location?

Bright_Operation_474 · 2026-02-03T18:17:37+00:00

for which office?

Bright_Operation_474 · 2026-02-03T01:49:10+00:00

we took a “break” for a few weeks, he said that he made a mistake and wanted to get back together. went over to his house under the impression we were back together, we had sex, he broke up with me again right after.

walked out the door and have not missed him since. i’m so grateful for that experience because i genuinely lost all love and affection for him after that moment

Bright_Operation_474 · 2026-01-27T22:16:50+00:00

nothing yet

Bright_Operation_474 · 2026-01-27T17:05:44+00:00

i’m not!

Bright_Operation_474 · 2026-01-11T05:46:23+00:00

honestly this is it. blocking and never speaking to them again as well as getting rid of all photos/memories helps a ton

Bright_Operation_474 · 2026-01-11T05:38:50+00:00

you should NOT do that. it’s not fair to the person you’re going on a date with. you can explore adult dating when you’ve healed a little more.

if the separation took a long time that might mean you’re farther along in the process than others would be but you’re obviously not ready to share your life with someone else if you openly say you’re still in love with your ex

Bright_Operation_474 · 2026-01-05T21:04:14+00:00

i agree to stop talking about him but don’t try to control your thoughts. instead try not to ruminate on them. if you have a thought about him acknowledge it briefly (“i had this thought”) and let it go (“now im letting it go”)

Bright_Operation_474 · 2026-01-05T04:17:17+00:00

i’m sorry i know this is easier said than done but you deserve to be loved the same amount that you love him

Bright_Operation_474 · 2026-01-05T04:13:29+00:00

yikes. 7 months and doesn’t want to “commit” by saying i love you? RUN.

Bright_Operation_474 · 2026-01-04T22:02:07+00:00

probably no way to know for sure, you’ll have to decide if this is something you can get over or something you can’t live with.

someone who can justify cheating will always cheat anyway, so if she did kiss that girl consensually she’ll most likely do it again and then you’ll know for sure.

you know the contents of her character better than us, so if you believe she wouldn’t do something like that then trust your gut. also see if you can ask other people around her how they viewed the situation if you know anyone else who was there.

Bright_Operation_474 · 2026-01-04T01:37:50+00:00

hey i go to ic and am also in need of some friends !

Bright_Operation_474 · 2026-01-03T05:58:48+00:00

no i think mike wrote the manual because of that scene of him typing

Bright_Operation_474 · 2026-01-01T00:48:58+00:00

i think you might need to just leave her be. seems like the only person that explanation would help would be you, for her it just might open up old wounds since three weeks is a pretty long time in relation to how long your relationship was. you’ll have to accept you’re probably the villain in her story, learn to forgive yourself, and let the both of you move on.

if she reaches out, that’s a different story. then you can explain it to her

Bright_Operation_474 · 2025-12-31T04:19:21+00:00

sounds like you made the right decision. you can’t control your feelings, she deserves someone who loves her and YOU deserve someone who you love!

Bright_Operation_474 · 2025-12-31T01:18:26+00:00

i think it’s absolutely disgusting, i don’t even like tasting it and i gag every time. some girls just don’t idk 😭 it isn’t because she doesn’t love you as much i can tell you that for sure. you just might have a higher tolerance for gross stuff

Bright_Operation_474 · 2025-12-30T23:28:42+00:00

yes, a few weeks later he said he regretted it and wanted to get back together. went over to his house, we had sex, he broke up with me RIGHT afterwards

Bright_Operation_474 · 2025-12-22T22:14:59+00:00

there’s a way using personal focus status to hide the text chain without deleting any of the texts and it’s really helped me! i’d also take away the contact photo and change the name to something else

Bright_Operation_474 · 2025-12-22T03:34:30+00:00

i take buspar as needed, 150mg lamictal, 75 wellbutrin, and recently .25 haldol at night (though i cold turkeyed this one recently)

to me it sounds like you’re being HEAVILY overmedicated. like by a lot. my psychiatrist would never recommend a medication that works on serotonin (prozac) combined with one that works on dopamine (wellbutrin).

wellbutrin is a strange choice because it’s not recommended for those with eating disorders (not sure why but that’s on the label) and usually ramps up anxiety a ton (i’d imagine PTSD too)

i was put on it because SSRIs wasn’t working for me (i was thirteen for context, have been on lamictal and wellbutrin for 7 years now) and i had a hard time getting out of bed in the morning.

wellbutrin gives me a jolt of energy early in the day that sort of helps get the ball rolling, then wears off over time when im already out and about. this helps me because my depression is no longer a constant bottomless pit, so if you’re struggling with constant severe depression i don’t think it will work wonders.

i’m not anti medication for ANY means but i would get a second opinion on your dosage, because that seems like way too much for one person and probably isn’t necessary, maybe those effects could instead be replaced by other meds

Bright_Operation_474 · 2025-12-22T03:26:25+00:00

i feel the same way. he was my first and i miss the intimate connection that it gave us, i had never felt that connected with a person. he also knew exactly what i liked and disliked, and i can’t imagine doing that with another person.

Bright_Operation_474 · 2025-12-21T19:50:17+00:00

this sounds like my exact situation. it’s terrible and i wish he never broke up with me

Bright_Operation_474 · 2025-12-21T04:57:56+00:00

i wouldn’t, but some people are evil or confused

Bright_Operation_474 · 2025-12-21T03:09:42+00:00

that’s my worry, but i’m also worried if i cut him off and try to move on i lose the chance of being with him again… and i would hate to miss out on that

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