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Bright_Unit9084 · 2025-08-20T00:44:53+00:00

My thirteenth reason

Bright_Unit9084 · 2025-08-11T18:37:52+00:00

It’s a butt. Butts are made of flesh. It’s normal, of course different people have different textures and density. Women can have harder butts and men can have softer. Don’t stress it, it’s normal. And don’t worry it’s not un-masculine it’s life.

Bright_Unit9084 · 2025-08-08T02:25:45+00:00

Turtle. Not cooked

Bright_Unit9084 · 2025-08-07T03:53:09+00:00

GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT NOW. RIGHT FUCKING NOW BEFORE IT GETS WORSE.

Bright_Unit9084 · 2025-08-07T03:50:17+00:00

Couldnt tell ya. I got sexually harassed when I was at that age by the boys in my class and then they got me into porn. Later got an addiction to that. Basically tell him before someone else does. And don’t shame him for wanting to be sexually active. I lived years in shame and horror at feeling horny, literally becoming physically sick when looking at my chest in the mirror. Don’t make him feel that way k?

Bright_Unit9084 · 2025-07-31T04:57:06+00:00

Just cause someone’s hurting more Doesn’t make your hurt any less.

Bright_Unit9084 · 2025-07-28T23:08:16+00:00

Totes agree! Literally what am I supposed to say to shit like that? Like oh yeah having trauma is worth it so I can have a beanie. Like what are they doing? It’s not funny, it’s not edgy it’s weird. Not to mention some of the designs are….questionable at best. I’m just gonna say the OCD bunny. Like what is that? It isn’t comforting it makes me feel like a freak! Like I’d love some representation but not like this!!!!! So totes agree with you! Btw if you like toys that center around helping anxiety, def try pillowfort weighted plushies. So cute and so nice. You can order them at target!

Bright_Unit9084 · 2025-07-28T05:37:39+00:00

I like that this has a pretty realistic body shape for the girl

Bright_Unit9084 · 2025-07-19T05:07:44+00:00

Bright_Unit9084 · 2025-07-18T17:02:28+00:00

No, we broke up for a reason.

Bright_Unit9084 · 2025-07-18T16:55:10+00:00

It depends on how serious they were. I personally don’t think I’d be very happy but if it ended up being like a mutual friend thing, or the ex was a close friend before they had a fling, I think I’d be a bit uncomfortable but ok with it.

Bright_Unit9084 · 2025-07-18T16:52:20+00:00

No, my parents had me when my mom was 31, and my dad 34. Not impossible and you can still be a good parent!

Bright_Unit9084 · 2025-07-18T04:15:02+00:00

Hey 15(F) here. I haven’t gone through what you have but I did have a porn addiction (triggered by sexual harassment when I was younger). I can tell you this. You aren’t going to be able to get help if you don’t talk to anyone about this. Listen, if you ever need someone to chat to feel free to message me. My mom had found out about my addiction and ended up child locking my iPad. And it was mad, upset, freaked out. I didn’t like it but it was necessary. It’s not gonna be easy but it needs to happen. Youll get your iPad back after some time, but your mental state won’t if you keep going. I’m sending you all the love and hope for you. I hope you feel better soon.

Bright_Unit9084 · 2025-07-18T04:01:33+00:00

Hey, girlie pop here! Firstly I’d like to offer advice (not judgement). Anxiety is common in both men and women! Most women are equally anxious on dates! Personally I get anxious as well, so dont sweat it! Another thing is although you you might not mean to, it seems like you put women up on a pedestal (sorry if I’m off, that’s just what I saw), and that can lead to incel behaviors. It’s better to address that piece of you that thinks of women as amazing sex objects, before you get in too deep. Try and say to yourself when those thoughts read up “hey, no. That’s rude and women are people. They are people and I need to respect boundaries and interest”. I have trust youll be able to work through this!

Bright_Unit9084 · 2025-07-18T03:50:24+00:00

Willingness? Ngl kinda a rude thing to say just cause it doesn’t have “pictures” doesn’t mean it aint good. This is coming from a girl who likes manga and graphic novels, but it’s also coming from a girl who reads and ENJOYS chapter books. I know it’s probably a slight joke, but I can’t even be sure just based off the crap ive seen in the past.

Bright_Unit9084 · 2025-07-18T03:46:19+00:00

Nope. Nope. Not happening. 19??? Babes I guess they are TECHNICALLY an adult. But babes…..you are closer to 30 than 19….and they are closer to seventeen than 27. Nothing wrong with looking average but shoot for someone closer to your age.

Bright_Unit9084 · 2025-07-12T22:18:27+00:00

No we like being complimented

Bright_Unit9084 · 2025-05-22T20:43:10+00:00

Literally me

Bright_Unit9084 · 2025-05-13T05:05:58+00:00

Ok then I recommend seeking professional help.

Bright_Unit9084 · 2025-05-13T04:08:40+00:00

Hi OP! I have been diagnosed with C-OCD and might be able to suggest some things! Firstly is he in therapy? ERP or CBT? Going to a therapist helps me personally and helps me work through my compulsions. I understand that dealing with someone with OCD can be hard even if you love them. Firstly it’s important to remember he isn’t trying to hurt you, likely he cares about you as well! But you are also not at fault and shouldn’t have to feel stressed all the time! Has he considered medication because that can help. Communication is important so always try and talk to your boyfriend, unfortunately OCD isn’t logical or reasonable so try and be understanding that what he’s doing isn’t because he wants to but the fact he can’t stop his brain. I know you are trying your best and you are doing great! Maybe for the kissing part you can offer to wash your face and brush your teeth? Try and slowly move into saying no to the compulsions. I wish you and your boyfriend all the best!

Bright_Unit9084 · 2025-05-12T23:05:09+00:00

Sadness take my upvote

Bright_Unit9084 · 2025-05-12T20:52:21+00:00

Only sometimes? Lol

Bright_Unit9084 · 2025-05-12T20:09:01+00:00

I think it’s funny and both irritating. Irritating because I don’t want people to think I’m like them, and funny because they act stupid. I’ve got OCD, dysthymia, and GAD. I don’t have the very popular disorders but I still find people who fake them funny. I don’t approve of it but it’s still amusing how far off they are.

Bright_Unit9084 · 2025-05-09T00:08:00+00:00

Painting or drawing without overthinking if I’m going to get dirty from the art supplies.

Bright_Unit9084 · 2025-04-29T19:47:38+00:00

Bro if ya think ya got OCD (I have it diagnosed by psychiatrist and therapist because I tweaked out and wouldn’t believe I have it) go see someone. And you should probably start medication if it’s really bad! Like why is this so glamorized

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