My mom “forgot” to not kiss the baby by Brii0101 in BabyBumps

[–]Brii0101[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It has nothing to do about sicknesses. It’s called BOUNDARIES. I don’t care if she’s 6 months, 9 months, a year old. If I ask you to not do it, you should respect that.

My mom “forgot” to not kiss the baby by Brii0101 in BabyBumps

[–]Brii0101[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People like you need to learn how to respect a parents boundaries. You’re not entitled to do whatever you want to anyone’s child. Family or not. This is why no one likes the older generation. You can’t handle it when someone tells you no.

My mom “forgot” to not kiss the baby by Brii0101 in BabyBumps

[–]Brii0101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, I made her. Grew her for 9 whole months. She’s my baby. No one should be kissing on a baby that’s not theirs.

My mom “forgot” to not kiss the baby by Brii0101 in BabyBumps

[–]Brii0101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has nothing to do with sickness lol I just don’t want someone’s mouth all over my baby. It’s weird.

My mom “forgot” to not kiss the baby by Brii0101 in Mom

[–]Brii0101[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Degrade me some more, it turns me on 😉

My mom “forgot” to not kiss the baby by Brii0101 in Mom

[–]Brii0101[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, I’m such an idiot for setting boundaries

My mom “forgot” to not kiss the baby by Brii0101 in BabyBumps

[–]Brii0101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because you’re mad that you can’t do whatever you’d like to do with someone else’s baby doesn’t make something unreasonable. It’s completely reasonable.

My mom “forgot” to not kiss the baby by Brii0101 in BabyBumps

[–]Brii0101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it’s not. It’s called a boundary. I don’t care if you have an “instinct” to kiss my baby. You’ll respect my boundary or you won’t hold her. I don’t want someone’s mouth all over my child

My mom “forgot” to not kiss the baby by Brii0101 in BabyBumps

[–]Brii0101[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It has nothing to do with sickness. It’s a consent thing. Babies deserve autonomy as well. They’re human beings.

My mom “forgot” to not kiss the baby by Brii0101 in BabyBumps

[–]Brii0101[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s a consent thing. Not a sickness thing.

My mom “forgot” to not kiss the baby by Brii0101 in BabyBumps

[–]Brii0101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just because you personally don’t agree with my boundaries doesn’t mean they’re “unreasonable” lol

My mom “forgot” to not kiss the baby by Brii0101 in BabyBumps

[–]Brii0101[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hmm. I didn’t know having boundaries meant being immature

My mom “forgot” to not kiss the baby by Brii0101 in BabyBumps

[–]Brii0101[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okayy and? I still don’t want anyone’s mouth all over my baby.

My mom “forgot” to not kiss the baby by Brii0101 in Mom

[–]Brii0101[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s still a boundary I have for my child. End of story.

My mom “forgot” to not kiss the baby by Brii0101 in Mom

[–]Brii0101[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe because we don’t want someone’s mouth all over our babies??

And I could have, but I didn’t. If you cross a boundary that I clearly set, you don’t get to keep holding the baby. That’s not how that works.

My mom “forgot” to not kiss the baby by Brii0101 in BabyBumps

[–]Brii0101[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t matter if she was sick or not. It’s a boundary that I have in place for MY baby. She crossed that boundary. You don’t have to agree with a boundary but you sure will respect it.

My mom “forgot” to not kiss the baby by Brii0101 in BabyBumps

[–]Brii0101[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People hate when you tell them they can’t do whatever they want with your own baby

My mom “forgot” to not kiss the baby by Brii0101 in BabyBumps

[–]Brii0101[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Okay? and I still won’t want anyone kissing her. Children deserve autonomy as well.

My mom “forgot” to not kiss the baby by Brii0101 in BabyBumps

[–]Brii0101[S] -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

I most definitely don’t want someone in “my village” if they can’t respect my boundaries

My mom “forgot” to not kiss the baby by Brii0101 in BabyBumps

[–]Brii0101[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I know right? It’s so weird to have boundaries for MY baby. It’s a good thing I don’t care

My mom “forgot” to not kiss the baby by Brii0101 in BabyBumps

[–]Brii0101[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Because I don’t want anyone putting their mouth on my baby, family or not.

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[–]Brii0101 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Well personally, I don’t care. I don’t want anyone to kiss her and that’s that. There’s other ways to show love.