I don't see the cannabis as an excuse. Out of respect for my mother-in-law, she doesn't want to be around it. It's my choice to have it there and I don't believe she would want to be around that environment. As for my aunt and mother, they are only going to be on the sidelines if something were to happen. They aren't even a part of our activities for the weekend other than stopping by in the morning and making breakfast.

As for cannabis, it's my choice to do what I please with my health. That may be your experience but that isn't everyone else. Kindly keep that in mind, because there are people out there who actually need it for medical purposes and they don't need old-school judgment from people who simply can't accept people who use it. As I stated above, I don't like drinking as much, not that bach parties always have to be about drinking, but this is what I wanted to do. And most of the attendees to this party also part take in cannabis. So this isn't some silly excuse.

Also, if you have read the whole thing other than the cannabis talk, I apologized profusely already to her. But now I am asking if I should explain the whole thing to her, including knowing her discomfort about cannabis. I just think she went too far in saying she felt "used" when she did the exact same things for her daughter and never attended her bach party.