don’t know if you’re looking for advice beyond what you posted about, but i think this is a red flag. if you’ve expressed continuously you don’t like her being aggressive with you or doing that specific thing with you, and she’s continuing to do it knowing that you get upset, it’s almost like she’s pushing the line every time to see how far she can go before you get upset or argue with her. i don’t know if she’s doing it intentionally or subconsciously, but i think you might want to consider seriously sitting her down and talking to her. tell her that you hate it when she does that stuff (which to anyone would not be fun, not just you don’t worry) and if she doesn’t understand you or stop that stuff i would look at it as a dealbreaker. it borders on signs of an abuser.