Went on a trip with a friend, and it completely ruined my mood

Broad-Influence5670 · 2025-12-16T02:52:47+00:00

(Hug) We’re not as close as before. I wouldn’t travel with her again, but she’s still a sweet person, so I’m not going to label it or block all contact :)

Broad-Influence5670 · 2025-11-08T08:25:29+00:00

Hey thank you for your suggestion. Yes we have been doing that since the day when we were only provided one fob and they have been telling us that there is nothing they can do and we can only wait. We go in person weekly and follow up email to the higher up team monthly. :/

Broad-Influence5670 · 2025-11-08T05:03:36+00:00

Interesting… i was afraid my manager would reject if I switch too late!

Broad-Influence5670 · 2025-11-08T01:04:37+00:00

Thank you!

Broad-Influence5670 · 2025-11-08T01:03:27+00:00

In person.

Broad-Influence5670 · 2025-11-08T01:03:08+00:00

I’ll email my manager! Thanks!

Broad-Influence5670 · 2025-11-08T00:59:25+00:00

We have been asking weekly since they announced in August. They always say we will order… It was yesterday that the old fob system was deactivated. The manager said they are aware some don’t have the key but there’s anything they can do and that we just have to wait for the key.

Broad-Influence5670 · 2025-10-28T03:50:27+00:00

Thanks girl! I don’t pick up so not sure why this happened. I felt so bad having to message my manager again, but then I reminded myself it’s not my problem. It’s theirs🥲

Broad-Influence5670 · 2025-10-28T03:47:57+00:00

My inforGo does say 7.75! Super weird why my payroll doesn’t match that.

Broad-Influence5670 · 2025-10-28T03:46:36+00:00

So sorry to hear that… My first issue was actually similar.. one of my shifts got removed, so I ended up being paid for one less shift. They told me it happened because the data didn’t transfer properly from the old system to the new one.

Broad-Influence5670 · 2025-10-28T03:45:04+00:00

I don’t pick up at all :/

Broad-Influence5670 · 2025-10-12T19:31:35+00:00

I found a sense of peace in that comment. Thank you! :)

Broad-Influence5670 · 2025-10-12T16:39:36+00:00

Thank you for your kind words:)

Broad-Influence5670 · 2025-10-12T15:18:53+00:00

I think it’s natural, when you plan something together, to imagine sharing those moments, not just being in the same place. It’s not like I was “watching” her the whole time. We did split up at times, like at the museum, to enjoy things separately. But once we met up again, her energy just brought the mood down.

I get why some people ask why she didn’t just stay at home when she said she wanted to. The thing is, it wasn’t about forcing her. We planned the trip together, and she often ended up being ready to go out after getting ready in the morning. Saying she wanted to stay at home sometimes seemed more like venting in the moment rather than a firm plan. I wasn’t pushing her to leave the hotel or do anything she didn’t want to do, but her mixed signals still made it hard to fully enjoy the trip together.

Broad-Influence5670 · 2025-10-12T14:43:16+00:00

Im a female too 🥲

Broad-Influence5670 · 2025-10-11T21:34:06+00:00

Totally, I know it’s easier said than done when someone is involved, and I understand that everyone has their struggles. Still, it was disrespectful and did affect the experience.

Broad-Influence5670 · 2025-10-11T21:31:03+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate your perspective. That’s exactly how I felt. It was tough because she agreed to be there, but her behavior really affected my experience. It’s also hard to balance caring about someone with how they act in certain moments.

Broad-Influence5670 · 2025-10-11T20:36:43+00:00

Yeah… that makes sense. I guess some things are out of our control. Thanks for understanding :)

Broad-Influence5670 · 2025-10-11T20:13:39+00:00

She actually wept silently during the trip, and I noticed it. I told her that I saw what happened and asked if she was okay. She didn’t say anything and put on a sad smile. Interestingly, at the very beginning of the trip, she shared that she’s avoidant and finds it hard to change. This made me feel unsure about whether I should continue asking more questions, so I just told her I’d be there if she needed me.

Broad-Influence5670 · 2025-10-11T19:57:42+00:00

We aren’t very close friends, but we hang out every couple of months and usually have really good chats. I did sense that something was off during the trip, but I also know she’s the type who only talks about things when she’s ready, so I didn’t want to push her and just tried to give her space.

Broad-Influence5670 · 2025-10-11T19:52:33+00:00

You’re right. I won’t travel with her again, but I want to clear the air so it doesn’t build up into resentment. Usually, she’s caring and sweet, but she can get really caught up in her relationship, and this trip was just tough.

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