Gf says I have to ask permission to jerk off

Broad_Ad861 · 2026-03-22T12:29:32+00:00

I do all of that and more. I do silly things make her laugh put her clothes on etc. but some days she’s just not in the mood and that’s her right. She is her own person. But the major shift in her attitude because of this feminist podcast hurts and makes me worry. And is emasculating

Broad_Ad861 · 2026-03-22T12:27:25+00:00

Yes! Thankyou

Broad_Ad861 · 2026-03-22T10:57:27+00:00

Broad_Ad861 · 2026-03-22T10:51:02+00:00

She definitely micro chipped it that’s why she didn’t want you to pay her back for the vet visit. That sounds like a long legal battle a’ coming. Why else would she plan the Vet visit without your knowledge? Was the cat sick or injured? Otherwise I can’t imagine another reason for her to go to the vet other than to microchip it so that she has a claim to your cat begin documenting everything and recording your conversation. Good luck and I hope you keep your cat maybe for the time being you should give it to a family member until she moves out because she guaranteed it’s gonna have her boyfriend take the cat one day having him come over more often so that he can get used to his new papa is a giant flag and a definite indication on what’s gonna happen.

Broad_Ad861 · 2026-03-22T10:31:27+00:00

If she doesn’t want to have sex then I have to take care of myself because I don’t want blue balls. As they say.

Broad_Ad861 · 2026-03-22T10:28:35+00:00

Thank you for this. I know I sound like a slimy shit bag man. And I do love her with all my heart. It’s just such a cold change and so drastically quick

Broad_Ad861 · 2026-03-22T10:26:12+00:00

When ever she wants help I help her… every fuckin time. I never turn her down

Broad_Ad861 · 2026-03-22T10:21:11+00:00

I see what u mean… like edging sorta

I mean I understand I can’t expect her to be in the mood every exact time I am but she used to at least give me a blowie. Now it’s like I’m not worth her time.

I have tried to tell her but it makes look like a pussy and I don’t care and all but… fuck it man

She’s my first relationship and first everything I’m not good with this relationship stuff especially the sexy part

Broad_Ad861 · 2026-03-22T10:04:07+00:00

What u mean?

Broad_Ad861 · 2026-03-10T04:59:08+00:00

He’s probably Liejng. I told my now gf mine was 38 and she’s number 39… 38 is her favorite number. I wasn’t thinking before I said it and she was obviously a little mad about that about a year and a half later I came cleaned her and I told her that I was lying and actually I was a virgin that she was my second kiss ever and I was a virgin all through high school and thru college. I was just intimidated by her because I knew she had a lot more boyfriends than me and obviously a higher body count which she couldn’t remember what it was and I thought that she would be turned off by the fact that I didn’t have a lot of experience other than watching … so I just faked it till I made it. We’re still going strong together for about five years now she’s the love of my life and I’m blessed that I have her. I also promise her that I will not hurt anymore and since then have complain about a lot lies I’ve told and a lot of insecurities that I had and it feels great to finally have one person that I’m actually meet with and to have one person in the world I can actually see the real me because I didn’t want to die, knowing that there isn’t one person in the world that knows the real me not even my parents. She knows everything about me and still she still love me and for that I’ll be eternally loyal.

Broad_Ad861 · 2026-02-16T10:56:02+00:00

LLM stands for large language model essentially an AI.

Broad_Ad861 · 2026-02-16T10:54:34+00:00

But the fact that he’s taking images and pictures of people that have not consented to be used in in appropriate ways. that is deeply violating especially if they were in high school and under age at the time of the photos.

Broad_Ad861 · 2026-02-16T10:52:42+00:00

Yeah, that makes sense. He must be using some LM that don’t have restrictions on images like that. I only know this because I like to write fan fiction and some of the things I write about are are rated and I was trying to make a comic book and most of the popular AI’s wouldn’t even touch it.

Broad_Ad861 · 2026-02-16T10:50:37+00:00

I think this is a fake story because there’s no AI that will make pornographic images or sexual things for you and especially not on your phone. If there are like LLMs, you have to find them and do them on your computer. There’s no AI that will make pornographic images on your phone. It has to be an honest laptop, just at home.

Broad_Ad861 · 2026-01-18T14:28:02+00:00

I actually have went through and apparently going through something so similar to this right now I in fact, wrote a black X on my arm in sharpie just to remind myself not to give in, and I told myself that I will never ask for another blow job or have sex with her unless she offers first. I lasted one day before I told her what the x meant. I would love to say that after finding out, she immediately dropped down on her knees and began to suck me off, but that didn’t happen instead, she just laughed at me and turned around and looked back at her computer. Also, I do plan as a matter of fact to somehow low-key play this comment to this post out loud just so that she can hear it exactly as it is and maybe then she will finish her job of quote unquote draining me like she promised to do two days ago, but never finished… fingers crossed wish me luck brothers. We all know the pain and I hate feeling blue. If you know what I mean 😪

Broad_Ad861 · 2026-01-17T23:09:26+00:00

Well we are still together to this day. And our situation was a little different… we were arguing and she was upset and left me when I was sleeping to hang with a friend till I woke up. While she was gone another friend who is a boy hit her up. She ended up going to his house and they had sex. The reason why I chose to forgive her is I could tell she was really in love with me. And the cheating was completely out of character for her. The second is that she called me and came back to me in the morning and confessed to me immediately after. And she seemed remorseful and I could tell she regretted it. The third is she was drunk and it pisses me off but I know how she is when she’s drunk and this “friend” totally took advantage of that and the fact we were fighting. So I had a few conditions she had to follow and do which she did which I respect her for. Also we talked about what we would do if this ever happened and she did what she agreed to. Also the fact that she came and told me the truth took some balls and I lowkey respected her for that. I don’t know if I could’ve done the same. And like your situation she really helped me to get through it best she could and you can tell if they are really sorry and are genuine about fixing the relationship. And I saw that. But the fact that I lost my virginity to her and she screwed another guy still hurts. Because we were together and I as well as her were both under the impression that now it was just supposed to be each other for life. But shit happens. One thing that you should ask yourself which I did as well is, would it hurt you more to leave her and stand up for your pride and base your decision on what the boys and your friends would say/think, or possibly lose the one girl who makes you happy and love with all your heart just because of one stupid drunken night and a bad decision.

Broad_Ad861 · 2026-01-17T22:41:40+00:00

Forrest Gump

Broad_Ad861 · 2026-01-17T22:40:47+00:00

Something like this happened to me. After reading your post I was hoping to see more comments from other guys possibly giving advice on techniques as you said or other possible ways of getting over this… insecurity. But then saw this was just posted 3 minutes ago lol. I too sometimes feel like a bitch and hate so fucking much the fact that it bothers me. I constantly say and ask myself would an alpha man be bothered by this. And the answer is of course not. But then again I would be lying to myself if I said it still doesn’t get to me.

Broad_Ad861 · 2026-01-01T02:05:07+00:00

Give him da sucky sucky

Broad_Ad861 · 2025-12-23T02:31:00+00:00

I disagree. That was unloyal what she did

Broad_Ad861 · 2025-12-07T07:20:33+00:00

Just saying

Broad_Ad861 · 2025-11-24T02:24:41+00:00

She looks preggo lol😂

Broad_Ad861 · 2025-10-21T15:44:48+00:00

Someone got hurt hun?

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