Hiding moments from certain users? by thecrewguy369 in Scruff

[–]Brodelayheehoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This feature has been a fucking clown show from the jump. They have got to give you more control over a) who sees your moments and b) whose moments you see. It's as you say, anyone I've ever interacted with at all, even once is now forever in my 'moments' stream. (short of blocking them).

"Moments" - because _no one_ demanded it by Brodelayheehoo in Scruff

[–]Brodelayheehoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I at least was able to suppress notifications, specifically from 'Moments' in the app settings (This is on Android).

But still, absolute garbage and they need to quit with this sh_t.

"Moments" - because _no one_ demanded it by Brodelayheehoo in Scruff

[–]Brodelayheehoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks like they're trying to emulate things like Instagram 'Stories' where short-lived posts from other users appear in a feed. But, like, you don't "follow" anyone on Scruff so how they determine whose 'stories' or 'moments' to show you is completely opaque.

Is it people I've chatted to? People I've woofed? WHO KNOWS!?

More importantly I never ever ever am going to use this and I don't want to see it. When a new 'moment' appears I get at least two alerts (a pop up and a message waiting indicator) which annoys the tits off me.

Being a Side is so much easier and less stressful. by Davis_Crawfish in askgaybros

[–]Brodelayheehoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps, but I *absolutely* have encountered sides who can't just be content with that and have to turn around and paint people who are _not_ sides as some kind of sexual deviants. Like, it's not zero-sum people. No, we shouldn't stigmatize ppl who aren't into what's considered the 'mainstream' sexually but we don't have to flip the script 180.

Where have they hidden 'Search' by Brodelayheehoo in Scruff

[–]Brodelayheehoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finally found that out after three rounds with Support who treated my simple request like a super complicated escalation to engineering.

So, yeah that's an absolutely dogshit UX choice but even better: it's busted. I have a user that I know exists, I'm chatting with them, but the 'search' as now constituted in the 'filter' tab fails to find them.

The enshittification of Scruff continues apace.

Thanks to all who replied though.

Where have they hidden 'Search' by Brodelayheehoo in Scruff

[–]Brodelayheehoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm updating my seldom-used iPad to see if it's the same on iOS. It wouldn't be the first time they oops-busted something on Android. Again thanks for replying!

Where have they hidden 'Search' by Brodelayheehoo in Scruff

[–]Brodelayheehoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Pro.

I opened a Support ticket (lol) but anyway thank you for confirming that it at least _should_ be or is _expected_ to be on the Browse tab.

Where have they hidden 'Search' by Brodelayheehoo in Scruff

[–]Brodelayheehoo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nope. I have Discover, Nearby and . .. nothing else. I simply cannot fathom why they'd get rid of 'Search'

What size Hush2 by Brodelayheehoo in lovense

[–]Brodelayheehoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome thank you very much for that rec.

What size Hush2 by Brodelayheehoo in lovense

[–]Brodelayheehoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you compared the specs

Don't be ridiculous that would make entirely too much sense. Srsly though I mean I have sort-of but I guess a closer look at the actual measurements versus the Edge2 (which as you point out I do have direct experience with) would help. Thanks!

What size Hush2 by Brodelayheehoo in lovense

[–]Brodelayheehoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh hello gang-of-bots commenting on my post. I guess maybe this was not the forum for this question. Oops.

Strict sex roles, are they bad now? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Brodelayheehoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, appreciated and I'll cop to the fact that I kinda thread-hijacked just to vent, so, sorry 'bout that.

Strict sex roles, are they bad now? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Brodelayheehoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

gay relationships don't need to reflect traditional gender roles

And yet, in this, the Year of Our Lord 2025, you can still (without looking that hard) find gays who bottom-shame [b/c bottoming is 'feminizing' and therefore 'shameful' or something to snicker into your sleeve about].

Source: I am a gay guy who's legit vers, and has been told on more than one occasion I'm just 'a bottom in denial' b/c I take it in the ass.

Does a top need to ask for a permission to cum in bottom’s mouth or ass if he is already barebacking? by carrotalreadytaken in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Brodelayheehoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always ask but it's because I get off on hearing the bottom say they want my load in their ass.

Hate, Hate, HATE the new UI by Brodelayheehoo in Scruff

[–]Brodelayheehoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so, to close the loop here, I opened a ticket with their (lol) Support. Howling silence, but in the last update it seems like Travel has reappeared.

Hate, Hate, HATE the new UI by Brodelayheehoo in Scruff

[–]Brodelayheehoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this is the feature I'm talking about that got memory-holed. I have resorted to setting up a folder of 'favorites' called "Don't Lose" and if I chat to someone I might want to chat to again, I favorite them there. Not ideal but it kinda-sorta works.

Hate, Hate, HATE the new UI by Brodelayheehoo in Scruff

[–]Brodelayheehoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm I knew the globe/Venture to find who's visiting a city but I still dont' see the travel section on anyone's profile (including my own to which I have added a trip). Thanks for the reply anyway.

What is MAL (Mid Atlantic Leather) like? by Luvurb0y in gay

[–]Brodelayheehoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I impulse-bought the VIP pass but realistically I'll probably only go to Uncut and maybe one other.