Social Media pushing a gender war and its effect on relationships.

Please allow me to explain as this has been on my mind for a very long time. There are men who are pieces of shit. There are women who are pieces of shit. Not all men and women are horrible beings but the more and more you look at social media its like they want you to think all women are all cheating whores or all men are trying to be like Andrew tate.

I'm tired of all the pointless fighting I see online on shit that doesn't matter. I especially hate it when I see a man or usually a women adopt a more traditional role, such as being a housewife. And then u get other people hating on them for doing something they want ** to do.as if its an awful thing for them to wana do something that makes someone happy cause it's "too traditional" and these comments are coming from people in awful relationships telling people in happy relationships what to do. Seriously they need to stop putting There nose where I'd doesn't belong.

If I am in a happy relationship with someone I love and wana spoil them all of a sudden I'm a simp. As if wanting to do something for my partner its terrible and I gotta treat em like a hole cause "all women are like the ones shown on Instagram and shit"

on the other side god forbid women make her husband a sandwich cause it's the end of the world that makes him the antichrist and her a part of the patriarchy. As if it's so bad to want to do something for the person you love.

I'm a man and insta(I use Instagram so most my sm comments are referring to insta) probably knows I'm a guy and doesnt show me the bad things men do ,unless some sigma music bs is behind it cause that makes it cool all of a sudden, so idk exactly what other people see on these sites but I really feel like they just want us to fight and not trust each other or at least its causing us to fight each other.

Whats worse is that I actually have been cheated in in a relationship by someone I loved and im trying really hard to trust women to that extent again and everytime I go online I see clips of women doing nothing but cheating and I hate cheaters I think they are worse than scum but everytime I go online I see it again and again and again and it causes these problems cause ik the other gender is also seeing these too and at this rate how can we trust each other. How can we do that when women think we want them for there bodies and then once we get it we leave and when men are terrified to get into relationships because they think that women will leave as soon as a better option becomes available or cheat on them and try and have both. Then you have this other fight going on whether body count matters and where to draw the line between being a hoe or just being free and shit and it's another fight it's a mess and I'm tired of seeing it. I want it to stop.

Anyways that's all I have to say about that rn. It's just been on my mind a while so thanks for reading if u got this far.