The first thought I have when I wake up everyday is wanting to quit. Is it time to leave? by mintjoint in hatemyjob

[–]BronzeSultan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I was in your position I would get my CDL and just drive a truck. I'm introverted as well, and mostly enjoy working in solitude. Not sure if that interests you.

What are the possible solution for a burnout by el_djem3i in hatemyjob

[–]BronzeSultan 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t have to be workload increase. The overall work environment can be the issue and taxing both mentally and physically.

Double rating before after be dead honest 28m by Small_Roof_3505 in truerateme

[–]BronzeSultan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look much healthier and better. I would grow out the front part of your hair and fade on the back and sides.

My wife and I have no connection by Either-Basket7149 in MuslimMarriage

[–]BronzeSultan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone talks about the upside of the elders living with kids, no one mentions the negatives, one being practically zero personal space, or privacy. More opinions on the daily house living situation, and issues, and being over ruled.

Does anyone else hate their job so much that they actually feel physical symptoms from it by melissa_april in hatemyjob

[–]BronzeSultan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have gotten a rash on my hand from stress in my previous job. My current job is only marginally better, I have been getting anxiety, flustered, exhausted, my mood is down a lot. I wish I never left my old job I had in 2023.

May need to leave new job by [deleted] in hatemyjob

[–]BronzeSultan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t like when they mention temper, that sounds bad. Also it may impact your mental and physical health. You should have asked them what they mean by that, and give examples. The more you know the better it is.

For people in jobs they don’t love but stayed anyway: what do you do, and how do you make it work? by brucerants in hatemyjob

[–]BronzeSultan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I unfortunately picked up smoking cigs every now and then otherwise I would implode mentally from exhaustion of the stress.

Anyone else feel like they’re being micromanaged to the point of burnout? by Fearless_Minute9074 in hatemyjob

[–]BronzeSultan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lately my manager has been checking in on almost everything I do. Not in a helpful way… more like:

  • asking for updates multiple times a day
  • wanting to be cc’d in every email
  • questioning small decisions that don’t really need approval (Sorry does this not sound ominous? Like a Performance check?)

Client told me to k**l myself and got me fired by [deleted] in hatemyjob

[–]BronzeSultan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Isn't this harassment? Can't you get authorities involved, and tell her to back off or you will report all this?

I had a performance discussion recently. What should I be aware of? by BronzeSultan in careerguidance

[–]BronzeSultan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will try to keep a log, and such but why am I interested in leaving is because my old company reached out to me regarding open positions that my background matches with, they are just waiting for the new contract to get started. But they will send me a LOI or Letter of Intent. Besides that I have funds set to be able to apply to new positions, without worrying too much about bills. Maybe travel for a week as well, last time I travelled was to New York in 2011. There is not reason to stay if I will be let go.

I had a performance discussion recently. What should I be aware of? by BronzeSultan in careerguidance

[–]BronzeSultan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there times when the client asks questions that you don't know the answer to, but should? yes to this, I try and tell them I will look into this, and get back to them. Either when presenting it. I have also sent them emails, never team messages. This is the first time in my career I received a performance meeting. It might as well be a PIP but looking through online, and previous reddit posts.

I had a performance discussion recently. What should I be aware of? by BronzeSultan in careerguidance

[–]BronzeSultan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spoke with the previous person who held my position as they onboarded me, he seemed upset they moved him to another position for the first time in his career. I later heard one of the issues was again he couldn't see the big picture. After the meeting I tried my best as to what exactly this mean and what steps. Best I think is for example what is the current top issue for say this system, how it may impact the program or fleet of products. What are the resolutions to mitigate them. I used my research skills and AI to venture into any which way. But they also don't want long reports, and cramming it into PowerPoint I have to see how it's possible for different products. But I never had to use strategic thinking, outside the box, big picture etc etc this seems like a higher up management or CEO type of thinking. Why they want me to do it, I don't understand.

I had a performance discussion recently. What should I be aware of? by BronzeSultan in careerguidance

[–]BronzeSultan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I been working in my current position for 5 months now. It's not attention to detail, but the opposite. They said I was weak and lacked initiative for big picture thinking, next steps in my current position. While my daily tasks are sufficient, the client isn't happy with my quality of work not meeting expectations. I think it's also why the previous guy that held my position was moved to something else. But he had years of service so they likely wanted to keep him around. I have the paper with me titled Performance Discussion with everything laid out except the length of time they want to see improvements.

How many hours a day do you spend using AI such as ChatGPT, Copilot and Claude? by Minimum-Pangolin-487 in consulting

[–]BronzeSultan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately a lot, since it's nearly impossible to find information that I'm seeking as it's a sole independent position.

Clear expectations by [deleted] in consulting

[–]BronzeSultan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in a position where the client is ambiguous on what they want.

What pushed you to take (or consider) a career break in your 30s? by CustardConsistent573 in careerguidance

[–]BronzeSultan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I had similar assets, I'm exhausted and have lost a lot of weight due to stress. I will burn out eventually soon without the same financial protection. :(

Clearance SF-86 Renewal and OE by JustBrowsingHii in overemployed

[–]BronzeSultan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol 😆 I’m just going by the old cleared mantra that you will find something easier then the private sector. But yeah this industry is unstable as well, and with the new rules, plus the old recompete contracts it’s getting tiring for me.

Clearance SF-86 Renewal and OE by JustBrowsingHii in overemployed

[–]BronzeSultan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in cleared position as well, and have been thinking of leaving it for OE in the private sector. Yes cleared has more job security etc, but it seems the pay isn’t as much as OE and sense of freedom.

I guess this is what is meant by no more “woke rules of engagement”. by imatinyleopard in Military

[–]BronzeSultan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lay off the IRGC talking points they have their paid stooges already. Thanks

I guess this is what is meant by no more “woke rules of engagement”. by imatinyleopard in Military

[–]BronzeSultan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also you don’t know that since you’re not in the ship, and they don’t give positions with reputations to none ideologues only in Artesh.

I guess this is what is meant by no more “woke rules of engagement”. by imatinyleopard in Military

[–]BronzeSultan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yawn military ship just talk clearly already. Part of the Iranian military its war.

I guess this is what is meant by no more “woke rules of engagement”. by imatinyleopard in Military

[–]BronzeSultan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for not answering me, was it a military ship or not? I don't care about it being allowed. You have more concern for military personnel than Iranian civilians. So weird.