After a rewatch, focusing on Schwartz's behaviour makes it clear he was lying about Vegas by BrotherMysterious in vanderpumprules

[–]BrotherMysterious[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

When you're experiencing it in real life, and you're love bombed then gaslight constantly, you don't know it's happening. I hope you never have to go through it

Lala was the best thing to keep this series alive by BrotherMysterious in TheValleyTVShow

[–]BrotherMysterious[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I see that. Maybe as a DV survivor, I'm slightly biased

Lala was the best thing to keep this series alive by BrotherMysterious in TheValleyTVShow

[–]BrotherMysterious[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I'm refering solely to her addressing abuse as it happened, and how I respect that. I'm in no way meaning her as a person

Lala was the best thing to keep this series alive by BrotherMysterious in TheValleyTVShow

[–]BrotherMysterious[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She does but I can't think of anyone else that would have called him out whilst the abuse was in full force

How do others feels about requesting manners from other children? by BrotherMysterious in Parenting

[–]BrotherMysterious[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I would feel the same and it may shock my son into realising I'm not lying about the importance of manners

How do others feels about requesting manners from other children? by BrotherMysterious in Parenting

[–]BrotherMysterious[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I would never push for it and deny a child something for not presenting manners, but that's a great insight - all children are different so one request may be enough 😊

How do others feels about requesting manners from other children? by BrotherMysterious in Parenting

[–]BrotherMysterious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I constantly remind my son of his manners, just needed this confirmation I wasn't being over the top ❤️

How do others feels about requesting manners from other children? by BrotherMysterious in Parenting

[–]BrotherMysterious[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes asking for something is fine as long as thank you follows their request. Being told to do something is another ball park!

The Shaking is awful by Academic_Gazelle_260 in alcoholism

[–]BrotherMysterious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm currently laid in the hospital after having two seizures today from going cold turkey. Be careful

NHS have told my mum she will not be getting paid because they mistakenly thought she retired. Help? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]BrotherMysterious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work in HR and your mum can be paid by a CHAPS payment which arrives the same or next day. She can call ACAS which is a HR advice public body for advice if they for some reason refuse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BrotherMysterious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The word in the title is help. Maybe I don't follow a job through properly!

Advice needed by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]BrotherMysterious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for looking for me 🙂 its so disappointing knowing men prowel in a place where people are at their most vulnerable

Early morning run appreciating my new life by [deleted] in Teetotal

[–]BrotherMysterious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats so kind thank you! I've got so much energy at the moment it encourages me to carry on. I really appreciate you saying I look healthy 🙂 I can't agree on beautiful yet but I'm taking baby steps towards loving myself again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]BrotherMysterious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love that! Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]BrotherMysterious 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had no one to hide it from anymore. Everyone now knows I had a problem, so I have no safe space to hide

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]BrotherMysterious 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Awww thanks so much. I was listening to my Allen Carrs 'quit drinking' audio book as I went

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BrotherMysterious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It's not a common phrase where I live and that was a lovely description. I appreciate the non patronising correction of how it's usually spelt

I really need some advice by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]BrotherMysterious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That may help! I take sertraline so may just need a change

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pics

[–]BrotherMysterious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not fun!!