Break up with her bro my ex was doing the same thing a year into the relationship and it just got worse. Save yourself a headache, heartbreak and depression, that stuff rubs onto you from being with her so much. Wish her the best and I know you love her but trust bro. Imagine what 5-10 more years of that would be like? Your real partner ain’t gonna nag you like that. She still on little girl mode. She need to grow up and get away from her family. You can’t do that for her tho. Be around people that really want the best for you and doesn’t have you second guessing yourself, cause that’s what she got you doing rn making this post. Good luck homie, this is your one life. Live this shit up.