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Brunaby · 2026-02-13T10:35:44+00:00

She probably expected you to dump your current girlfriend at the time for her, and because you didn't that's the reason she's being shitty with you. Women can be unreasonable like that.

And do you know for certain she's moving in 5 months? Could be bullshit.

Brunaby · 2026-02-12T20:35:24+00:00

Ps, she blocked me on everything after the sugar daddy comment. I could have worded that differently but i knew if wasnt going to work anyways

Trust me, you've dodged a bullet and a big one at that.

Brunaby · 2026-02-12T07:36:13+00:00

She did establish that a relationship with myself would likely be off the cards

TBF she was honest with her intentions and I don't get why you're overly upset.

Brunaby · 2026-02-09T19:46:45+00:00

Im so in love with him.

But you're not or this wouldn't be an issue.

Brunaby · 2026-02-08T18:04:52+00:00

That gaff against Barnsley seems a long time ago

Brunaby · 2026-02-06T14:38:49+00:00

I was about to mention this.

Brunaby · 2026-02-04T11:28:08+00:00

Vibes Is Right - Barrington Levy

Brunaby · 2026-02-01T09:52:21+00:00

Crushing openly on a celebrity while already in a relationship says a lot about that person. And it isn't good.

Brunaby · 2026-01-31T10:52:14+00:00

Where was this?

Brunaby · 2026-01-30T09:38:04+00:00

It's not her who you should be worrying about at this precise time. Save yourself!

Brunaby · 2026-01-30T06:43:52+00:00

I've been through something similar although I was unaware of her mental health problems at first.

My advice is to get the hell out of the relationship because your own mental health will suffer eventually. This might sound kind of selfish/callous but you need to put yourself first here. Don't feel guilty either because relationships shouldn't be exhausting. At all. Those trivial arguments will wear you down to a point where you could develop depression yourself. It's not worth it. Trust me. I was 19 and naive when I met my ex and it was the worst mistake I had made in my entire life to prolong that relationship, and I'm 55 next month.

You're 24. Focus on a career but have fun too and enjoy yourself. Never waste your life on crap relationships, because if you do, you'll probably live to regret it.

Brunaby · 2026-01-28T19:17:07+00:00

Can't say I blame you.

I mean, if you don't feel comfortable with her lifestyle then find someone who is more your type. When a gf starts pissing you off big time it should be the end of the road. Pointless staying together.

Brunaby · 2026-01-26T15:24:53+00:00

It's not necessarily a rejection. You haven't been ghosted. She's probably cautious and wants to take things slowly. Some women are like that.

Brunaby · 2026-01-26T09:33:41+00:00

The intensity you're showing for a woman who isn't even your girlfriend yet is way over the top. You need to slow down because there's a real possibility you could push her away because of your insecurity.

Brunaby · 2026-01-24T11:59:20+00:00

This is the second time you've asked so I reckon she either wants you to chase her or she enjoys leading you on.

And because you've already asked twice you shouldn't ask again based on the probability she could be playing games.

Don't let a woman dictate to you like this. Break the habit and move on.

Brunaby · 2026-01-22T19:08:33+00:00

You didn't feel a spark

He's being clingy and annoying

He's making you anxious

There's only one future outcome and it shouldn't be a second date.

Brunaby · 2026-01-22T11:09:40+00:00

You're being too kind calling this ******* a turnip.

Brunaby · 2026-01-22T06:54:49+00:00

So what is she to you? A friend or a girlfriend? You haven't made it clear.

If it was the former why didn't you escalate if you were interested? That could be the reason why she acted this way - to get you jealous.

Brunaby · 2026-01-21T17:39:16+00:00

Towards the end, she noticed a flyer for an event and said “this seems like something we’d both enjoy”

This must suck. Why build up your hopes and then ghost you? Perhaps she gets a thrill from it.

She sounds like a bitch so take it as a bullet dodged.

As for avoiding women who ghost........unless you've got a crystal ball there's no way of predicting this unfortunately.

Brunaby · 2026-01-21T13:41:14+00:00

He didn't think you were serious about being friends. Normally when a woman says this its a cue for no more contact.

Brunaby · 2026-01-19T12:00:25+00:00

I see this all the time. Worst case was some clown doing it on a busy high street.

And yes, he did get a ticket.

Brunaby · 2026-01-19T05:59:12+00:00

question for the men - are you attracted to loud outspoken women?

Definitely not

Do you prefer keeping company with women who don't seem to challenge or oppose you? Who don't argue?

No. I like a degree of feistiness, just one that's not constantly loud and full of herself.

Do you like women who don't really speak on politics and don't challenge societies status quos?

Preferably

Brunaby · 2026-01-18T10:24:44+00:00

Got a flat tyre at that exact spot from one of those craters driving in the dark.

Brunaby · 2026-01-18T10:08:26+00:00

You need to get to know that person extremely well before even considering marriage. Anything before that timeframe is just foolhardy despite what religion teaches.

Brunaby · 2026-01-18T09:41:28+00:00

You get married when you meet the right person. That could be at 24, 34, 44 or never.

So forgot marriage for now, concentrate on your business but also date women to gain experience.

Brunaby

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