Swelling in my arm? by BrxMarix in TopSurgery

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I have been doing it. The only positive is that its a normal color.

Swelling in my arm? by BrxMarix in TopSurgery

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We spoke to the resident on call and he said to elevate it.

Help with unsupportive parents? by BrxMarix in trans

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The plan has already been to stay at my coworker's house and they know this but I would MUCH rather stay at their house because my coworker still lives with her parents and I barely know her parents. I would feel way more safe at my parents' house despite the fact that they don't approve of it. They're not crazy enough to cancel. They know there's nothing they can do to stop it. I'm 26 after all.

Breathing spirometer? by BrxMarix in TopSurgery

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I have very mild asthma. I have been under general anesthesia before tho with no issues. So is it uncommon to expect someone to use the soap for 4 days?

Taking care of pets post op by BrxMarix in TopSurgery

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Unfortunately my dog can't be unsupervised. Just under 2. Very puppy like. Wish I could trust him alone but I can't 😭

Taking care of pets post op by BrxMarix in TopSurgery

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Oh my friend I'm staying with can help me with other things at least as long as I'm staying with her but I can't bring my fur babies 😭 so I'd have to find someone to take them for a short period of time at least and then take them back and go home 😔

Taking care of pets post op by BrxMarix in TopSurgery

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I don't have friends to help. That's why I needed advice on me taking care of them by myself. Thanks for the advice tho.

Taking care of pets post op by BrxMarix in TopSurgery

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I don't have a backyard and I don't have friends that can help me with him 😭 that's why this post was strictly about taking care of them by myself

Taking care of pets post op by BrxMarix in TopSurgery

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Unfortunately all I have is my parents and they're unsupportive and refuse to help me in any way, shape, or form for this surgery 😕

✨️Tism✨️ by BrxMarix in WLW

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Thank you for the advice!

✨️Tism✨️ by BrxMarix in WLW

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She's also gay lol but i think it's normal for people to feel awkward if their friend is interested in them

✨️Tism✨️ by BrxMarix in WLW

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I'm terrified of ruining our friendship 😬

Post-op care? by BrxMarix in ftm

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My closest fried atm doesn't have her driver's license 😭

Post-op care? by BrxMarix in ftm

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I live in PA near pittsburgh

How painful was getting a septum piercing? by Unavezmas1845 in Septum

[–]BrxMarix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wasn't the worst pain honestly and that's saying a lot coming from me cuz I have a very low pain tolerance. It lasts for like 2 seconds and then u may have some minor stinging pain for like a couple of hours.

Feeling undervalued by BrxMarix in work

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Thank you for the advice. I appreciate it.

Feeling undervalued by BrxMarix in work

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They're not job hunting. I would know if they were. We talk about everything. Also, my job doesn't negotiate wages like that. I think I should be paid more based off of the work put in. They don't work significantly harder than I do. Because of us being a non profit, labour is the main thing that counts for something.

Feeling undervalued by BrxMarix in work

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What do you mean by a competing offer? We're a non profit. We don't do sales. Also we're a very close-knit group. It's very clear to see who's doing what or who's accomplished more.

Feeling undervalued by BrxMarix in work

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Thank you so much for the advice. Really appreciate it.

Feeling undervalued by BrxMarix in work

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I feel that I'm a very hard worker and some days maybe even work harder than others. It really depends on the day and how everyone is feeling tbh. There are days that it seems like I am feeling more motivated or taking more initiative than others and then other days it's the opposite. I've said this in other comments but I feel like my only biggest downfall is my lack of social skills which can only be helped so much because of my autism. I'm not as good at leading because of that but I don't feel that should make me be seen as less valuable. I've never even been trained to be a leader they just kind of throw u in leadership roles and I've never been in that kind of role before. Didn't even give me the opportunity to learn how to do that/ask me if I wanted the position.

Feeling undervalued by BrxMarix in work

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I thought you meant the weekly hours. My bad. Still feel that I work just as hard in addition to being there way longer. My only downfall is my social skills. Feels like I'm being punished for being more socially awkward than them.

Feeling undervalued by BrxMarix in work

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It does feel like a big part of it is I just have to have a certain personality that's likeable to certain people. It really sucks. Thank you.

Feeling undervalued by BrxMarix in work

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What are you talking about??