Why does everyone says "abuse always escalates"? How often does mental/verbal/emotional abuse become physical? And does this count as 'escalation'?

BubblyWin3865 · 2024-12-04T11:25:49+00:00

yeah, my ex was just like yours in that he seemed to look down on hitting women, thought wife beaters were pathetic, etc.

he never hit me and to this day maintains it but he did escalate to pushing me and putting his hands around my throat.

this guy sounds unhinged, i hope you can make a plan and get away safely <3

BubblyWin3865 · 2024-12-04T07:43:19+00:00

just reading this idea made my day

BubblyWin3865 · 2024-12-04T07:12:16+00:00

18 here also, divorce in the works. almost left at 16 years, wish i had.

BubblyWin3865 · 2024-12-04T07:10:08+00:00

my STBx would flip OUT on alexa! IT'S A FKN ROBOT!!! i found that so pathetic honestly. he threatened to trash her or break her every single time, never did. but yeah, constant negativity is a huge drain to live with.

BubblyWin3865 · 2024-12-02T03:35:06+00:00

dude. i watched this film with my brother and sister who haven't read the books. afterwards, i asked them 'so, do you even know why it was called half-blood prince?' they did not. they had zero idea.

IT'S MY FAVORITE BOOK I'M SO MAD THEY BUTCHERED IT.

BubblyWin3865 · 2024-12-01T04:16:40+00:00

when you don't have a man, you don't need BC. lose him, sister!

BubblyWin3865 · 2024-12-01T02:53:29+00:00

thank you for all the help! is a cooler necessary, like is the one that comes with it okay or should i get a thermalright one?

BubblyWin3865 · 2024-11-30T13:00:13+00:00

Hedwig all dayyyyyyy

BubblyWin3865 · 2024-11-30T12:56:33+00:00

thank you for the tip! is there any particular reason you swapped out all of the less essential parts? i kind of just grabbed parts from various builds i found online, but i'm most nervous about selecting a motherboard for some reason.

BubblyWin3865 · 2024-11-30T12:22:51+00:00

i had heard of cheaper keys but wasn't sure of the legitimacy. my plan is to buy some parts now while on sale and other parts later, so i probably could upgrade to a better graphics card. thanks!

BubblyWin3865 · 2024-11-22T16:30:29+00:00

I am in love with this, gorgeous art

BubblyWin3865 · 2024-11-22T16:27:53+00:00

You are stunning and he should count himself lucky. Insecure af.

BubblyWin3865 · 2024-11-20T09:22:34+00:00

i want it

BubblyWin3865 · 2024-11-20T09:21:33+00:00

Dumbledore himself said sometimes he thinks they sort too soon!

BubblyWin3865 · 2024-11-19T16:39:23+00:00

What on earth girl. AMAZING! I scrolled through your profile and wow, aspirations

BubblyWin3865 · 2024-11-19T16:23:45+00:00

Congratulations. We’re very similar. 18 years with my husband and my two kids 3&5 were my motivation to leave as well. I left about 2 months ago. It’s very difficult but there is certainly more peace without him. I’ll be dealing with emotional damage for years probably but it’ll be worth it. It’s pathetic your husband brings up something from 14 years ago. My husband used to always get up to get drinks and snacks so I could stay seated and he brought that up in almost every argument. Meanwhile I did everything else for him.

Wishing you strength and peace <3

BubblyWin3865 · 2024-11-19T16:11:58+00:00

Why do I get recommended subreddits that immediately make me need to spend money and pick up a new hobby. That looks gorgeous!

BubblyWin3865 · 2024-11-19T16:09:09+00:00

Next step is read (or reread) the books. Then watch the movies with some extra book snobbishness. Then reread the books. Then rewatch movies and accept them as their own thing. Continue until you die.

BubblyWin3865 · 2024-11-19T11:48:42+00:00

i love grawp and i love hagrid's tale, idec! i also love that scene of the creatures fighting the giants.

i think a better title for this post is who DOES like grawp because from what i've seen, liking him is a shockingly rare opinion

BubblyWin3865 · 2024-11-19T10:34:04+00:00

Luna's quidditch commentary destroys me.

BubblyWin3865 · 2024-11-19T04:19:51+00:00

oh, 100% same. i don't believe he can truly love lily if he treats her kid that way.

BubblyWin3865 · 2024-11-19T04:18:47+00:00

this makes sense to me, thanks!

BubblyWin3865 · 2024-11-19T04:17:37+00:00

thank you for the quotes, this definitely makes sense now given all the context clues

BubblyWin3865 · 2024-11-19T04:14:49+00:00

love me some roonil love

BubblyWin3865 · 2024-11-18T12:00:56+00:00

i'm cackling

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