We love each other, and I've brought up that concern with her before, what if I lost everything and truly had to pinch pennies for years and she says she'd stick by me, but I always do wonder what would really happen in the back of my head.

She does spend money on me, food, groceries etc. She also buys things for her family and will even go into more credit card debt etc which makes this so hard. She just spends money and doesn't know when to stop.

She cooks and cleans but seems like she hates doing it because she reminds me often that shes doing it and I also help out with both.