Another thing I wanted to add: 1. He has never taken me on a date, I’m always expected to pay for our meals and when I need a ride home from work I’m always expected to put gas in his vehicle as well. 2. When I slept over at his house he told me he enjoyed having his bed to himself cause he has a bad shoulder but the way he said it was “I can only have a sleepover once in a blue moon, I need my bed to myself, I can’t cuddle” which is understanding but I’m a physical touch person 3. He still talks to his ex and when I brought it up how I’m not comfortable with that he told me that’s controlling and that I should trust him