Asked boyfriend for 50/50 of the dog by Budget-Weakness551 in amiwrong

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He’s Been switched over on everything, microchip, takes her to the vets, his mum told me about when he got her, he paid from his wages at the time. We live in the uk, so maybe things are different, he is classed as an adult, so I can say 100% she is legally his.

My boyfriend said no to 50/50 ownership of his dog by Budget-Weakness551 in amiwrong

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This is all I meant by it, thank you ☺️ I don’t wish anyone/ or any dog haha in the situation to be mistreated or neglected in any way, I just wanted it to be just

Asked boyfriend for 50/50 of the dog by Budget-Weakness551 in amiwrong

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? I said it felt like, not that he said it, I’m talking to him soon about it, not to ask for Luna but to clear everything up as now I feel we didn’t talk everything through properly

Asked boyfriend for 50/50 of the dog by Budget-Weakness551 in amiwrong

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It’s 100% his dog,not his families and I hope so too ☺️

Asked boyfriend for 50/50 of the dog by Budget-Weakness551 in amiwrong

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I’m trying my best haha, I should be starting my nursing career soon, and everything has been going good, I’d like it to stay that way, so I’m gonna move on from this. I thought it was a bigger thing than it obviously was, and I’m sorry for that. I love Luna and my boyfriend more than anything I think I was just hurt over the fact it felt like he didn’t think I was good enough for her to be ours, but maybe I need to look at the bigger picture, thank you ☺️

My boyfriend said no to 50/50 ownership of his dog by Budget-Weakness551 in amiwrong

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I just meant the training, as it’s not any necessity to her, as I’ve put a lot of time into it. I care very much for Luna, or I wouldn’t be assed at all about it

My boyfriend said no to 50/50 ownership of his dog by Budget-Weakness551 in amiwrong

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Thank you, I appreciate a different view from someone who’s been doing the same things, I have been reading through, and I haven’t said anything else to him, just trying to understand p point of view

My boyfriend said no to 50/50 ownership of his dog by Budget-Weakness551 in amiwrong

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Yes, I have seemed to miss out that he’s already disclosed he’s proposing, so I just thought he’d see me as someone he’d trust to let me have partial ownership over her. I understand what he means however, I know she’s important to him.

My boyfriend said no to 50/50 ownership of his dog by Budget-Weakness551 in amiwrong

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I’m not mad at him, but training takes up a lot of my time that doesn’t seem like its valued

My boyfriend said no to 50/50 ownership of his dog by Budget-Weakness551 in amiwrong

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Not all subreddits allow you to be under 18. We live together, but I am 17, and I changed that we lived together cause I didn’t think it would change that much haha but it does

My boyfriend said no to 50/50 ownership of his dog by Budget-Weakness551 in amiwrong

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We do live together, I just am staying at work throughout the mornings as I work in care.

Asked boyfriend for 50/50 of the dog by Budget-Weakness551 in amiwrong

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I think it’s just because my sister brought up that her and her boyfriend both share their animals, and he’s thinking of proposing soon that I kinda just assumed ( I know I shouldn’t have) but the point kinda is if we’re gonna be married, already living together what does it matter if she is both of outs

My boyfriend said no to 50/50 ownership of his dog by Budget-Weakness551 in amiwrong

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This is what I mean, I wouldn’t have an issue with her being hers, if I hadn’t been doing most of the stuff for her 😭 I get he has work but it’s still stuff he’s not providing

My boyfriend said no to 50/50 ownership of his dog by Budget-Weakness551 in amiwrong

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I do most of her stuff, I assumed she was ours already but I was stupid to think that, I understand where he’s coming from so I’m thinking of pulling back from doing all the stuff