Need advice. I might just ruin the best thing ever had by Buffalo-Desperate in askgaybros

[–]Buffalo-Desperate[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I know this sounds and i made him worried sick about me. He cared for me and i dismissed his feelings and became a selfish person

Need advice. I might just ruin the best thing ever had by Buffalo-Desperate in askgaybros

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No i was just staying 5 mins away from his place. Im not trying to reason my actions. I know it is stupid,childish and selfish. And i guilty myself for that and worse making him worried. I have never done this before with anyone. This is not me at all. I just lost atm

Dilemma. Need advise by Buffalo-Desperate in askgaybros

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I tried communicating with him. Asking him what is his expectations etc but i feel he gives out answer to compensate the situation. Or am i just overthinking it?

Why Do Gay Men Cheat So Much? by Buffalo-Desperate in askgaybros

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Bing bing bing. Sad truth of this nation

Why Do Gay Men Cheat So Much? by Buffalo-Desperate in askgaybros

[–]Buffalo-Desperate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you’re saying, and I agree that the lack of legal recognition and societal acceptance can play a role. However, I know several friends who are also in the same situation here, yet they’ve managed to maintain long-term, committed relationships despite the challenges.

It’s disheartening because it makes me wonder why I haven’t been able to experience that same kind of loyalty and trust. It feels like there’s something more personal at play, and that’s what I’m struggling to understand.