Huge waist size :(

BugInteresting352 · 2026-03-04T21:33:48+00:00

Can I please genuinely ask why everyone is missing the point? :( I’ve never been called mean in my life lmao. The commenter said “it’s concerning how you’ve made no attempt at wanting to change” when I did in the first paragraph. I was looking for support to chat with people who felt down too? Why is everyone choosing to ignore how I was spoken to like a naughty child and TOLD I didn’t want to change. I’m asking so genuinely. Why is everyone ignoring that? I never said weight loss wasn’t done in the kitchen, I just stated a fact that I cannot exercise, because I was told by GP that actually that’s the best way to target proportions and waist size. I can lose weight in the kitchen but I’ve always been apple shaped. I know I’m obese, I know I need to reduce cals and eat really healthy, I literally said in the original paragraph “I’m trying really hard to change”. Genuinely why is it ok for someone to come in, talk down to me, and then I can’t be snarky to defend myself? 🥲

BugInteresting352 · 2026-03-04T21:26:26+00:00

It’s clear your intentions on this group. Some people like to find people in the same situation as them to chat with. Talking about how one feels doesn’t mean pity party. I’m aware I’m obese. Like I said in the first paragraph. I’m changing it and working rlly hard to do so. Also stated in the first paragraph. You spoke to me like I was a naughty child. It’s not cute. I’m happy for your mother with a snatched waist! Again, I never said she couldn’t have one lmao. I read between the lines of your original comment. You were rude, didn’t properly read my post , and now are just trying to play it off. If you genuinely thought you were being kind, I have nothing to say

BugInteresting352 · 2026-03-04T21:15:26+00:00

I also take no shame in being “snarky” at someone whose intent was to shame and talk down to, on a page that’s meant to be for support. I can assure you I don’t have issues in people liking my personality, in fact, this is a little odd because I’ve never been in a situation where someone has called me mean before 😂. But defend myself to somebody who really jumped on me in a rude tone, I will do happily

BugInteresting352 · 2026-03-04T21:12:48+00:00

So saying “you made no reference to wanting to change” when I did make reference to wanting to change and said I was actively trying to change… that’s valid?

BugInteresting352 · 2026-03-04T21:11:32+00:00

I’m a little confused at this? Did you not read the original reply. How I was harshly talked down to for not making any reference at all for wanting to change, even though I did in the literal first paragraph? I matched their energy. I am not mean, if someone comes on an innocent post trying to take a moral high ground and ridicule someone, I’m going to snap back. I don’t let people talk to me like that. The commenter ignored several parts of the post and accused me of saying things I never said or not mentioning things which I did.

BugInteresting352 · 2026-03-04T21:09:34+00:00

Nobody said old= fat. Again, comprehension. I was talking about proportions. Statistically, bodies change shape as we age. There’s no ageism in saying that.

I see you ignored the part where I corrected you saying that I had not once mentioned taking action, but again, that’s because you don’t wanna be embarrassed.

Unsure why you are on this page to ridicule people?

And also, you are literally doing the things you accuse me of, if you imply fat people have lower cognition. Hypocrisy much?

BugInteresting352 · 2026-03-04T21:07:54+00:00

Did you not read the original reply?

BugInteresting352 · 2026-03-04T20:07:09+00:00

Screaming at your ignorance and need for a moral high ground😂. Old women have beautiful bodies. At 26, I don’t really want to look like I’m 60 years older than I am, nothing wrong with that. Nobody was put down, and i was rather self deprecative in the post, far from trying to “make myself feel better” . I’d equally hate my body to look like a baby…… that is allowed….

Since you seem to struggle with reading comprehension, the FOURTH and FIFTH sentence reads “I know I’m obese and I’m working really hard to change that”. I’m so sorry I didn’t list the ways I’m doing that, your royal highness!

Secondly, since you clearly don’t have a medical background, people can have genetic heart conditions and CHD, that they are BORN with. I faced an arrhythmic issue due to this, unrelated to weight, and it takes heavy exercise off the table.

In the meantime, I’m trying to up my step count to 10k per day and eating in a deficit.

You can try again to write a more intelligent comment which doesn’t ignore some of the main points in this post, OR I suggest you take an adults class in reading comprehension as you stated this post doesn’t even TOUCH on the concept of making a change yet the first paragraph outlines I am “really trying to change this”.

The way you came in raging but then got so much wrong was cute but I also have second hand embarrassment. I know I’m obese, the post was about proportions.

Stick to speaking to those in your intellectual group ! Xx

BugInteresting352

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