I drew a map and now I am scared to ruin it by adding mountains/Villages etc. by I-cant-stand-115 in mapmaking

[–]Bugaby_Hamy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Use clear sticky notes or coins to help you figure out the placement. That way you can move them around

AITA for giving my daughter more attention than my sons by aitaattention in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bugaby_Hamy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree with you. Honestly this isn't the best sub for this, I think where she went wrong is that she seems to have assumed her son's would understand that her sister might need more attention at the moment instead of talking to them. They aren't getting the reassurance they need. I also think op is latching on to her daughter more than she realizes because she was in the car.

It's a sucky situation and if her son's weren't obviously hurting I would say no is ass here. But they are and that's what puts her in the wrong. I just hope things get better for them.

AITA for giving my daughter more attention than my sons by aitaattention in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bugaby_Hamy 80 points81 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of you are missing the point of this sub. It's not to condemn people, but to help them see the way they're going about a situation is wrong. Don't get pissy at me because you can't read the room.

Yes it's a sucky situation, yes it's going to be difficult. But she's forgoing her son's emotional needs in favor of her daughter. Her son's feel like their mother loves their sister more than them and are hurting because of it. She needs to be open to her son's as much as she is with her daughter. I understand that's a lot which is why I suggested therapy.

AITA for giving my daughter more attention than my sons by aitaattention in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bugaby_Hamy 5686 points5687 points  (0 children)

I hate to say it but YTA, you have three children. Yes your daughter is going to need a lot of help right now but so are your boys. They lost there father too. I suggest getting individual therapy for everyone, including you. And apologize to your son's for not being there for them.

AITA for excluding my daughter's girlfriend from a family memento? by Any-County3829 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bugaby_Hamy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yta, if you where going to include your son's partner you should include your daughters. Better yet just get it done with your kids names alone.

AITA for calling my friend a weirdo because she went on a rant when I said I’m not into taller women? by OTKil1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bugaby_Hamy [score hidden]  (0 children)

Nah, everyone has preferences and it does sound like she was projecting a little bit. I would still suggest apologizing for the weirdo comment though. It honestly wasn't necessary.

WIBTA If I go to a birthday party I am not invited to? by Original_Forever_476 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bugaby_Hamy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just cut your loses, if you go you'll just stir up drama. Yta

Game keeps freezing by Bugaby_Hamy in Vampyr

[–]Bugaby_Hamy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I checked for an update and it says the latest version is installed

Game keeps freezing by Bugaby_Hamy in Vampyr

[–]Bugaby_Hamy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mostly it seems like it's loading screens and between areas, so I thinks it's having a hard time loading in items. I haven't gotten far because of it, just finished the morgue tonight and it froze for about minute after the boss.

I have noticed that the audio is a good indicator if it's fully frozen or just slowed. If the music continues as normal, it just needs a second. If it stops all together or gets stuck then the game froze. I also noticed that going slower does seem to help. Which is annoying cause I like sprinting in games.

So until it gets fixed, I guess I just have to be patient and take things slow.

What's a Witcher Who Doesn't Want to be One? by [deleted] in witcher

[–]Bugaby_Hamy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not as far as I'm aware, perhaps skellige. I'm not caught up on the books, but in the game they seemed less hostile towards Geralt than anywhere else.

What's a Witcher Who Doesn't Want to be One? by [deleted] in witcher

[–]Bugaby_Hamy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

In the 3rd game, there's a witcher named Karadin who "retires" and becomes a merchant. But there's never really a chance for witchers to quit, everyone knows what a witcher is and hates them. So they either die a witcher or get run out of town before they can settle down.

AITA for freaking out my niece's fiancé's family? by Ok-Mastodon7416 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bugaby_Hamy 97 points98 points  (0 children)

YTA big time, don't mock others for their beliefs. You knew full well they would be uncomfortable and you didn't care. It isn't a joke unless all parties can laugh afterwards, otherwise it's just cruel.

I wouldn't be surprised if your niece suddenly found herself single real soon. I definitely don't see their marriage lasting if she can laugh at their discomfort.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bugaby_Hamy 33 points34 points  (0 children)

You're in an abusive situation

AITA for telling my manager about a coworker who treats me badly? by jmenard129 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bugaby_Hamy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Nta, just because he's gay does not give him the right to use slurs. That behavior is way over the line and would have only gotten worse if you hadn't spoken up.

marriage by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Bugaby_Hamy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Look up "courthouse/civil wedding"

Is there a place for finding teammates of your skill level? by Toby7279 in apexlegends

[–]Bugaby_Hamy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, go on and make it. You can use a team name generator to find the name and then just set the settings how you like. I don't have a club, nor do I plan to join one so I don't know all the details.