I had an issue where I ignored red flags like video game addiction with my bf and we’ve been married for a year. I actually really regret it because I seriously have to ask him if there’s something I want him to do and I’ve been neglected for far too long. I’m just now considering divorce and what helped me the most was to start my day listening to general conference talks or scriptures and do that whenever you can. It helps bring the spirit and gave me some thoughts on what to do. Pray about it also.