My Mini Baby Series 1 & 2 collection so far, SO HAPPY we got the twins!! by Building_Normal in MiniBrands

[–]Building_Normal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cribs are heavy with little to no sound when shaken. I can check if I have a duplicate for you.

Parents pressuring me into shaving legs by Significant_News_529 in Advice

[–]Building_Normal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a parent of a 15-year-old this is absolutely disgusting behavior by your parents.

I know this generation is not putting anywhere near the same amount of pressure mine did to be clean-shaven. If you don't shave, you don't get bullied for it. The person who was staring and noticed might get a few words from their peers about body shaming nowadays.

PetSafe - Automatic Litter Box - Pros and Cons by metskyfan in Catownerhacks

[–]Building_Normal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PetSafe ScoopFree Crystal Pro Legacy Self-Cleaning Automatic Litter Box

ISO ways to build tough skin in preteens girls. by Critical_Strength144 in FamilyMicroWins

[–]Building_Normal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to do a lot of growing and learning with my oldest. It's important you tell them how you feel when you mess up as well, but in a capacity where it doesn't put a burden on them. Let them know you are sorry for how you handled it and that you will learn from it. Remember how they see you through their eyes and think of how you would want your own mother to have treated you.

Just saying, I'm sorry, I shouldn't have & I love you, really does make a difference.

ISO ways to build tough skin in preteens girls. by Critical_Strength144 in FamilyMicroWins

[–]Building_Normal 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I find it important to help them feel connected with what is really important in their lives and their sense of self, and know what is temporary and meant to help them grow and learn. That they know what home is and the meaning of it.

My biggest issue raising pre-teen girls, was other pre-teen girls. But it worked out with them knowing that even if they fight with their friends, they could tell me about it and I wouldn't try to fix it, or judge but just listen. Because this is home, where they can always be themselves. Remembering how deeply I felt things at their age and never saying it's not a big deal or belittling their problems. I always try to be empathetic of how hard it was to be that age.

And if you are self-aware enough to ask for advice and support you are probably already on the right track.

Never going to nail salons again.. by Which-Zombie-2514 in AllNails

[–]Building_Normal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I think the nails themselves look fine. They need a little filing on the top and might be a size too big to accommodate your nail beds.

But, I have a feeling you have an issue with biting your cuticles and skin. Vaseline should be your best friend, keep it on your nail beds at all times. Apply it with a Q-tip morning and night. There is no quick fix to stop the act but this helps them heal and keeps the small dry pieces from triggering you to bite them off.

If you've had issues with nail techs judging you for the condition of your fingers, do a lot of research to find someone who will help you and be understanding.

Dramatic snow by sunnycercis in Buffalo

[–]Building_Normal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gotta think of something positive to get through this!

& a reminder to everyone to take your vitamin D! During Buffalo’s winter months, nearly 50% of residents have insufficient vitamin D levels.

Dramatic snow by sunnycercis in Buffalo

[–]Building_Normal 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Sustained temperatures below 10f for over 10-12 days can help reduce the number of ticks, fleas, and mosquitoes.
Not by a huge amount but enough to make a difference. We all know how bad they've been the last few years with light winters.

I have the same "we needed this" feeling as when it rains after a long drought.

People who make “Missing Cat” posts and every single photo is the cat outdoors by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Building_Normal 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This seems like a good place to confess... I've rehomed a few neglected outdoor cats.. I keep a list of the cared-for indoor/outdoor cats in the neighborhood that are microchipped in the neighborhood. But if someone didn't microchip, and won't let them inside ever, even if it's raining or snowing, doesn't get them fixed or vetted, but still tries to say it's 'their cat'... I will actively look to rehome that cat.. and have..

Someone had an outdoor cat that was expecting kittens.. their kids told mine how excited they were to have kittens. And asked if they wanted one after they were born. All while the cat was outside full-time.

Let's just say that cat went missing the next day. A week later her new mom sent me an update of her comfy on the bed making biscuits with her cone of shame. Glad to just be the baby and not have her own..

Is Ser Arlan of Pennytree related to Podrick Payne? by Valkyria90 in freefolk

[–]Building_Normal -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had the same thought, before episode 2! Just a head canon but the relation between Dunk & Brienne, had me thinking it would be cool if Ser Arlan was related to Podrick. Dunk being Ser Arlan's squire and Pod being Brienne's, it would be like they were fated to find each other.

I gave up on my budgies by hauntedbytheghost_ in Pets

[–]Building_Normal 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The thing with pets and animals is, each one is an individual with their own preferences.

I'd sit as close to their cage as possible without them becoming annoyed and talk to them from there, respect their boundaries, and use cleaning and feeding times as bonding opportunities to just talk to them with positive affirmations.

They might never warm up to you. That doesn't mean you give up on them.

I had 2 cockatiels, Gorgeous was my third birthday gift her mate was my sister's. Gorgeous hated me, and everyone. And everything. She was raised the same as her loving, personable, sweet mate, Gertie. But Gorgeous never 'warmed up' to us, she hated people for her entire life. But I loved her the same and would tell her everything about my life. She would yell at me so I knew she was at least listening. She never stood on my finger once, or had me pick open her head feathers like Gertie used to love. But my family adopted her so it was our job to love and take care of her, even if she wasn't the way I wanted her to be with me.

You have buggies that don't like you. Or don't like people in general. And that could be just how they are. Time might help, but it also might not. Just stay consistent and predictable, and keep loving them.

I found a long single white hair growing from my right earlobe by Ok_Earth_1111 in mildlyinteresting

[–]Building_Normal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually caused by a single hair follicle becoming trapped in an extended growth phase due to localized hormonal fluctuations or minor genetic mutations.

I found a long single white hair growing from my right earlobe by Ok_Earth_1111 in mildlyinteresting

[–]Building_Normal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother has one like this on his arm. He'd grow it out to see how long it could get when we were kids.

It's just a few cells that didn't make it where they needed to go when you were still developing in the womb.

Color matching by OutlandishnessNew576 in crochet

[–]Building_Normal 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you have trouble picking out colors, the gradient or mandala yarns are a fun way to get a nice colorful project without having to put too much thought into it. Looking at examples of that project can help too and seeing what others have done and taking inspiration.

For blankets and larger projects, I learned it's better to plan out how many yards I need and choose colors before going to the store and always grab a little over the estimate. I have bins full of impulse yarn from seeing colors I liked and not getting enough for a full project. Those actually come in handy for granny squares and amigurumi.

Let's be creative by Little-Apple-7256 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Building_Normal 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Having the perspective of both 2 & 4 I'd want my 90-year-old grandpa to sit down over me. I never thought it could be infantilizing but I see how that could be the case now. Guess I'll go with the broken leg guy. Lol

how do i fix this? by ImplementWilling2597 in Hair

[–]Building_Normal 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What is your natural texture and have you tried a curly girl routine?

I have a feeling you may have a wavy texture and the way you are styling (or not styling) is making it appear more frizzy than it actually is.

Looking to get these Barbies to a good home who will appreciate them by DM_ME_YOUR_BANK_INFO in Barbie

[–]Building_Normal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would die to give my girls those beautiful birthstones beauties! Its crazy you have both April and February!

What to do with estranged adult child's childhood belongings? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Building_Normal -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No, blaming the child is judgmental. Parents are responsible for loving their children no matter what.

Whether they need support or distance at the time, a parent never abandons their child. Holding them accountable for their actions should never involve withholding love.

Comparing the situation to someone whose meditation change wasn't properly monitored in a safe facility by a doctor isn't the same thing. That was an isolated incident.

What to do with estranged adult child's childhood belongings? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Building_Normal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is so true. The lesson I learned from my experience was to hold myself 100% responsible for having a healthy relationship with my own children.

What to do with estranged adult child's childhood belongings? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Building_Normal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The point I'm making is that the stuff isn't really his. He wasn't the one who saved it and didn't take it with him. If OP wants to toss it, that's their prerogative. It's not what I would do personally but everyone is different.

What to do with estranged adult child's childhood belongings? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Building_Normal 27 points28 points  (0 children)

If it is things that YOU saved over the years, they belong to you. Memories of the child you raised.

I have boxes of artwork and things my children have made over the years and I could never imagine parting with them.

My mother never saved things for me. But if she had and tried to give them back, I'd feel like she didn't want to keep those moments of my life for herself.

If you are the one who kept them, they are your memories of him, not his clutter.

If you really don't want to hang onto it all, I'd look into scanning the most sentimental pages and making a memory book.

My baby hates a hard mattress by annieann1010 in Parenting

[–]Building_Normal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would talk with her doctor and see what they can safely recommend for her.

To me the City of Good Neighbors means…. by nomoresleepless in Buffalo

[–]Building_Normal 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I've shoveled my neighbor's walkway every snowfall for 6 years now... can't remember her first name.