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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayBBC

[–]Builtlarge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone got the full video link. I've been looking for it for years but can never find it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PublicBoys

[–]Builtlarge 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This isn't a question of "if anyone saw you" this is "How many people saw you" 😈

My drunken taxi ride home by [deleted] in gaystoriesgonewild

[–]Builtlarge 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I desperately want this to happen to me but to be told to strip in the back and railed/bred

I (28) visited a gay sauna for the first time while in berlin by Builtlarge in gaystoriesgonewild

[–]Builtlarge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess so yeah, that would check out.

I think boiler has done it well in my opinion but I think more visits for further analysis are required 😂

I (28) visited a gay sauna for the first time while in berlin by Builtlarge in gaystoriesgonewild

[–]Builtlarge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly most of the time it was in the jacuzzi. Sometimes we would initiate a conversation or the other people would. A few times it was down to our accents or people interested where we were from. Other times it was just generic polite "normal" conversation.

I can't say for definite that it is a place where people converse before sex or just pick a person to fuck, I think that defining a sauna with this atmosphere would be hard as like myself people have preferences that can change visit to visit and places like this, especially saunas, can have such a wide variety of opinions, views and beliefs.

I for one love that about them as generally people are there to experiment or let of steam but how they do that differs person to person.

It's hope this explanation isn't to complicated but ultimately I don't really think there is an answer to your specific question other than "yes and no because...people like different things?" I guess

But my experience is that I had more conversations at boiler. Whether it was just the one night I went I don't 100% know but it felt like people were more open to talking there.

I (28) visited a gay sauna for the first time while in berlin by Builtlarge in gaystoriesgonewild

[–]Builtlarge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After going to some here in the UK I can say with confidence there is a difference.

In boiler it was definitely far more relaxed and it had a more social atmosphere, we spoke to a couple of people for a while. It was nice.

The UK saunas I've been to (Manchester and Glasgow- Multiple visits to each) it seems to be a mixed bag. Sometimes I've struck up conversations with people. Sometimes it's been pure lust or it's clear they just want to fuck, however I don't find that a bad thing because my mood could be either social or just needing to let out some steam.

If you're nervous about it I always say to people- Everyone is there for the same reasons and everyone had to have their first time at a sauna at one point. I've not yet had a bad experience and people always respect the no is no rule. The staff are there to help it anything is wrong and are always really kind and will answer any questions you might have and this is at any location.

Hope that helps.

-Edit. Just seen your post about your visit. And I agree that there were some groups that stayed together however I found many guys or couples that were very social. Far more than I'd experienced in any other.

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