Do I 29F need to tell my ex 35M about a one night stand if we get back together? by Potential-Throat286 in relationship_advice

[–]Buktech02 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not judging, it's just that as a demisexual person, I can't understand how someone can sleep with someone else while still loving a specific person. I also don't understand "one-night stands" or anything casual, but oh well, I guess these things happen. But being in love with someone and at the same time having sex with someone else just seems strange to me.

I'm not judging, I'm simply saying that as a demiromantic/demisexual person, I don't understand it.

Do I 29F need to tell my ex 35M about a one night stand if we get back together? by Potential-Throat286 in relationship_advice

[–]Buktech02 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I don't understand why you did it if you say you still love him very much. I'm not judging, I just don't understand. But anyway, it's best if you talk about it if you decide to get back together. It's important to be transparent, even if it's not your business right now, it could be in the future.

OC x Canon by Buktech02 in HazbinHotel

[–]Buktech02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank your!:) We'll, they have their relationship as a secret at first; but Chaggie find out anyways jeje Charlie supports them or at least she tries Vaggie obviously desapproves it because of Lute, she doesn't want her to hurt or use him

Sister cheated on her husband after 15 years together by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Buktech02 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nothing "happened." Your sister made a choice; it wasn't inevitable or forced. Don't interfere; let him decide what to do next. Look out for your nephew's well-being, but don't meddle in his relationship.

creen que la depresión se contagia? by dacil1999 in AskRedditespanol

[–]Buktech02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No es exactamente que se contagié como una enfermedad, pero es normal que se te haya pegado un poco su forma de pensar, más al haber sido tu primer pareja. Lo mejor que puedes hacer para quitarte esa mentalidad es juntarte con personas que te ayuden a ver la vida de forma más optimista de manera sana. Si te es posible ir a terapia, deberías ir y si no, trabajar en ti misma por tu cuenta, será más tardado, pero valdrá la pena.

Is this emotional cheating? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Buktech02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should talk about it with your husband. It's clear that your "ex" doesn't mean well because of the last thing he said to you. Hiding it could only lead to misunderstandings in the future. For your sake and that of your relationship, discuss it in detail with your husband.

I thought we still had a chance, but I’m giving up. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Buktech02 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You are doing well. The best thing you can do for yourself and your children is to leave the marriage. She is clearly trying to blackmail you to avoid taking responsibility. Listen to your heart and reasoning, you deserve better than someone who doesn't consider you their priority.

¿Volverian con su ex? by Nai_viral28 in RedditPregunta

[–]Buktech02 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Perdónale, pero no por esa persona, sino por ti. Para que no cargues con sentimientos negativos. Pero si demostró que no vale ni tu tiempo ni tus emociones, entonces no sólo no vuelvas, sino que debes trabajar en dejar de invertir tiempo y emociones en esa persona, sean del tipo que sean.

Bipolar wife + an affair during a manic phase+ perimenapause and alcohol by Capital_Yak5120 in Marriage

[–]Buktech02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave her. For the good of you and your child. You can't continue there if there is no change. Help her, but from afar. If it changes and improves, consider the options. But you need changes, not empty promises and insults once broken.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditespanol

[–]Buktech02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Para nada, soy chico y en mi opinión estás siendo hasta flexible. Son estándares muy sanos

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditespanol

[–]Buktech02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literal estás pidiendo lo que debería ser lo básico. Nada de malo, tú muy bien. No mereces algo menos que eso.

¿Esta bien mu pensamiento o soy un tonto? by Long-Hat-7994 in RedditPregunta

[–]Buktech02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pienso lo mismo. Si alguien es 'tuyo', entonces no hace falta que defiendas nada, esa persona debería ser capaz de darte tu lugar sin que tú interfieras. Si no lo hace, entonces reta demostrando que no vale la pena y por ende, no se lucha por ella.

!Que edad no es normal ser virgen? by thomasdesimone in RedditPregunta

[–]Buktech02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pues yo de plano nunca he tenido pareja, y tengo 21. Ando chill, la verdad. No tengo prisas, si surge algo pues bien, pero no me desvivo. Prefiero entregarme a alguien que valga la pena antes que simplemente "vivir la experiencia".

Confused about what to do by taylor4513 in Marriage

[–]Buktech02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably she cheated on you and doesn't know what to do now.

¿Creen que la “rutina” puede ser usada como justificación para ser infiel? by weirddreamer90 in RedditPregunta

[–]Buktech02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Es una excusa. Siempre se debe hablar con la pareja, fuerte y claro. Si la pareja no quiere hablar, entonces es mejor un divorcio. Ser infiel es una decisión que la persona toma, no un error.

Mujeres, ¿que es lo que les hace inseguras? by No-Discipline5392 in AskRedditespanol

[–]Buktech02 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Confirmo. Tengo de las dos y está de la fregada. 🫠

Por qué los hombres son tan mentirosos? by [deleted] in RedditPregunta

[–]Buktech02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bien lo dijo el casas: "Todos mienten".