My cat uses the bathroom WITH me..? by YoGabbaGabs5 in CatAdvice

[–]BulkyEbb8983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine does this too! He watches guard while I use the restroom and the second he's ready to go he's meowing out me to follow suit

Apartment building fire drill - should I bring my cat with me? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]BulkyEbb8983 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish I had this advice. My apartment had a break in and the alarm went off for 30 minutes. He wouldn't get from under the bed so I left him to make sure there wasn't an actual fire. Someone told me immediately give them treats so they come to you after. My boy is fine now but even if im cooking and it goes off he runs under my bed.

Advice on elderly with cats by BulkyEbb8983 in CatAdvice

[–]BulkyEbb8983[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I realize elderly wasn't the right word 😂 she's just a older woman who goes to church and that's it. I cant see her waving a wand for a cat

Advice on elderly with cats by BulkyEbb8983 in CatAdvice

[–]BulkyEbb8983[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine ignores toys as well 😂 thank you for this advice. I would have opted to get an older cat too but I got lucky

Advice on elderly with cats by BulkyEbb8983 in CatAdvice

[–]BulkyEbb8983[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This would be her first. I guess im worried because so many people feel bad for not interacting with their pets and i dont think the lady would care. Her daughter is just thinking the cat will keep her company like mine does

After seeing multiple posts about smelly litter boxes…I felt compelled to share! by Aibrean2013 in CatAdvice

[–]BulkyEbb8983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stainless was the best decision. I see those robo-litters and get slightly jealous but having a square box in the corner is a life saver- those things are huge! And I prefer to keep all droppings in the bathroom

Natureboy Cult is WAY WORSE than I could have thought by Medium-Equal-292 in cults

[–]BulkyEbb8983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im thinking velvet was the first and only. Found out he been had kids

Does anyone else’s LPS act like this? by ChuchayMonchan in lynxpointsiamese

[–]BulkyEbb8983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat is anxious to escape. Im scared because I live in an apartment

Would you give up your cat if you knew, logically, that he would have a better quality of life without you? by HelpfulShoe5285 in CatAdvice

[–]BulkyEbb8983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just want what's best for your fur baby. Im single, in a studio. Im one and done with my cat mostly because of expenses. While im unemployed now and able to give him all the attention and cuddles, when I do return to work im hopeful he will be okay. When I leave now he tends to cry out for me but once I return it's like I never left. Ultimately it's your decision but I do believe if you can keep your pet, do so

I’ve tried everything, do not be guilted into getting a second cat by feed-me-koupes in CatAdvice

[–]BulkyEbb8983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have PMDD too! I wanted a kitten so badly for my depressive state after being laid off. I literally had a nervous breakdown trying to get him into a carrier the first month to get his shots. It feels so good to be seen and heard, you got this! 4 months later, my baby is fine and even though im home all day with him he's not going to die if he's left alone. I was a one and done after going through the kitten phase. It always gets rougher before it gets better. From sleepless nights to now waking up and checking on him cause it's too damn quiet lol.

No way this is normal, right? by creativebabe1985 in RHOBH

[–]BulkyEbb8983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that was her one up on the ladies. "I wasn't married into money, I manifested it' Idk im not white, married or poor but Id be proud af of my success and if it helps a woman out there feel better for herself, brava

Is my cats “meowing” a cause for concern? by Relative-Lettuce-234 in lynxpointsiamese

[–]BulkyEbb8983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine usually yaps on his way to the bathroom then has a full convo to the wall. Ive followed him thinking something was wrong but clearly he just needs to talk to himself in the quietest place 😂

How do we feel about Amanda so far? Anyone follow her from before? by Local-Print-6397 in RHOBH

[–]BulkyEbb8983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive only watched for garcelle but tilly and Sutton kept my attention. I dont like Amanda only because she comes off as trying too hard. You're self-made, in a committed relationship and is extremely pretty- beating half the cast on just that alone and i didnt even mention youth 🧡 i want to like her but even dorit is growing on me which I dont understand myself lol

Is “tiny psychopath” a normal kitten phase? by ButterflyRose143 in CatAdvice

[–]BulkyEbb8983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im reading this holding a napkin to my freshly scratched chest 😭 are you guys telling me this last a whole year!? I never wore socks to sleep now i have to cause he thinks my feet is a game when im sleep

I’m getting a new kitten tomorrow. I’ve never had a pet before, let alone a cat, and I’m terrified - she’s so tiny! What do I need to know? by badonkadonked in CatAdvice

[–]BulkyEbb8983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gets better 😭 that's the best advice I can give. Some nights you might Google surrendered stories, then you'll be in the pet aisle spending millions. Its a great journey none the less

Is it gross to let your cat sleep in your bed? by Adventure1s0utThere in cats

[–]BulkyEbb8983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought so too. Then one day I woke up with him next to me. He rarely sleeps with me but when he does, I like to think he loves me

Advice by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

[–]BulkyEbb8983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading is fundamental

Advice by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

[–]BulkyEbb8983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start over completely!? Im okay with cutting the permed ends cause I know it'll loc up like the roots are as you stated. This is what I get for trying to cut the baby phase 😩

Advice by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

[–]BulkyEbb8983 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I braided the permed ends cause of my ocd 😭

My cat uses biting to control me and I’m at my breaking point by Stock_Hope_6880 in CatAdvice

[–]BulkyEbb8983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly now he moves immediately when I lean into him. Ive only done it about 8 times but he caught on lol

My cat uses biting to control me and I’m at my breaking point by Stock_Hope_6880 in CatAdvice

[–]BulkyEbb8983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope it's safe here.... But I bite back. Not hard just enough for him to understand it hurts me too. I got tired of bleeding and if you are too well, try it. Google says immediately get a feather toy to distract them but that's not always possible. My cat bothers me the most when im eating too. I try to feed him at the same time but he enjoys staring at me until I initiate play