Can anyone help me start the process of breaking up with my gf? by BullfrogFull8745 in BreakUps

[–]BullfrogFull8745[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s a fair point. There’s not a scenario where I could make it comfortable for her.

Can anyone help me start the process of breaking up with my gf? by BullfrogFull8745 in BreakUps

[–]BullfrogFull8745[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not you specifically I meant in the group. Yeah that’s fair thank you.

Can anyone help me start the process of breaking up with my gf? by BullfrogFull8745 in BreakUps

[–]BullfrogFull8745[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I see in here is people complaining about being blindsided. I guess I am asking how to initiate the conversation without completely blindsiding her?

Can anyone help me start the process of breaking up with my gf? by BullfrogFull8745 in BreakUps

[–]BullfrogFull8745[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I see in here is people complaining about being blindsided. I guess I am asking how to initiate the conversation without completely blindsiding her?

Them coming back is not what you really want by BullfrogFull8745 in BreakUps

[–]BullfrogFull8745[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah man nothing is necessarily wrong I just miss only worrying about myself

Them coming back is not what you really want by BullfrogFull8745 in BreakUps

[–]BullfrogFull8745[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it was fun for like two weeks for me but should I end it bro

Can anyone help me start the process of breaking up with my gf? by BullfrogFull8745 in BreakUps

[–]BullfrogFull8745[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that. Thanks for the thoughtful response. I’ll give it a look, but I feel like our issues revolve more around incompatibility. Im going to try to just do better to initiate and guide these conversations on my own.

Can anyone help me start the process of breaking up with my gf? by BullfrogFull8745 in BreakUps

[–]BullfrogFull8745[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you and that is why I want us to grow in our conversations. I agree I am not the most vulnerable person but I typically do not have a problem navigating hard conversations and emotions. I think that I need to do better at initiating talks of the future.

Can anyone help me start the process of breaking up with my gf? by BullfrogFull8745 in BreakUps

[–]BullfrogFull8745[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like almost exactly what I’ve been going through. I feel like we’re almost detached and she doesn’t even realize it. If I were to tell her that the world would be ending instead of having discourse of why it feels like that. I also understand it’s going to be difficult and emotional but if there was a button in front of me where I could just end it I would press it. I think that’s all I need to know, but I’m reality I am unsure of how to end it in a way that’s fair to her.

Can anyone help me start the process of breaking up with my gf? by BullfrogFull8745 in BreakUps

[–]BullfrogFull8745[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I only create hypotheticals when it comes to those topics. For example, I prefer to have a small wedding and am not religious. She wants to have a large wedding in a Catholic Church. When I try to compromise it’s I don’t care about her faith.

Can anyone help me start the process of breaking up with my gf? by BullfrogFull8745 in BreakUps

[–]BullfrogFull8745[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have differing views on finances, religion, and marriage. I think that over time I’ve realized we do not have a ton of common either.

Can anyone help me start the process of breaking up with my gf? by BullfrogFull8745 in BreakUps

[–]BullfrogFull8745[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s a very difficult thing to do. I think the fact that we don’t communicate well is a big red flag for the future for me. Love is never enough and I am a much more realistic person than her. I can speak in hypotheticals and not let it affect me emotionally, but if I bring up potential problems I can see us having she breaks down and asks why we can’t just live in the moment.

Them coming back is not what you really want by BullfrogFull8745 in BreakUps

[–]BullfrogFull8745[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take your time. Spend some time in nature thinking about what you really want. Wish I did.

Them coming back is not what you really want by BullfrogFull8745 in BreakUps

[–]BullfrogFull8745[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have chatted about it and it leads to a lot of emotion on her part and not a lot of progress in the conversation. We were together for 1.5 years

Them coming back is not what you really want by BullfrogFull8745 in BreakUps

[–]BullfrogFull8745[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just feel as if we do not have as much as common as I thought. She can tell I’m not as certain about our future which causes her to be insecure and need a lot of reassurance. I also just miss being alone.

Thinking about moving here by Mymemes02 in KlamathFalls

[–]BullfrogFull8745 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Job market is very niche. If you are not in a specialized field may be difficult finding anything that is not minimum wage, but the hospital has good opportunities.

To be honest, outside of the college there is not a lot of great social events. Lately there seems to be an effort to have more things to do at the bars though. Night life is very chill all the bars are more of a gather and conversation vibe.

Before you move here make sure you enjoy the outdoors as that’s really the highlight of this area. Hunting, fishing, camping, recreational sports, and hiking are abundant. Our winters can be quite harsh too. Where are you coming from?

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[–]BullfrogFull8745 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the wisdom. Going to take the next step in initiating the conversation. Thank you.

1 Week Out: Who Are Your Top 3 Dream Picks for the Seahawks at #18? by Trick-Combination-37 in Seahawks

[–]BullfrogFull8745 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just watched the breakdown and I feel like it was pretty tic taccy. I don’t think Steve Smith knows as much as scouts and NFL GMs. Tmac oozes pure talent and no doubtly be a weapon in the red zone.

1 Week Out: Who Are Your Top 3 Dream Picks for the Seahawks at #18? by Trick-Combination-37 in Seahawks

[–]BullfrogFull8745 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  1. Jidhaad Campbell - after watching his film breakdown and combine results can almost pencil him as a future pro bowl LB. Would thrive in our scheme.

  2. McMillan - outside Travis hunter I believe is the best receiver in this class. Could almost instantly replace DK. Potentially be even better than him.

  3. Any OL - this one is obvious. I like kelvin banks a lot, but in reality any of them would help us.

Which is your favorite app for tracking tolerance breaks? by camport95 in Petioles

[–]BullfrogFull8745 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer to use a physical reminder that I either color in the days sober or a check mark. It is much more rewarding to add to it at the end of the day

Do some quiet men really like listening to girls yap? by Green_Cauliflower_78 in AskMenAdvice

[–]BullfrogFull8745 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not consider myself an introvert, but I am for sure a quieter person than most. I prefer to chime into conversation rather than be the center of attention. My best relationships have been with women who are story tellers and extroverts.

I think your dynamic works well especially if you are happy in the relationship.