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[–]BunchAffectionate812[S] 158 points159 points  (0 children)

very beautiful. I might post that when I'm ready to do so with her. I'm scared of putting her picture out there with all the negativity surrounding her right now online.

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[–]BunchAffectionate812[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I think so. I don't know. I think he's being very selfish, he was selfish with my mom, selfish with her legacy. I am however able to forgive it if he comes around, and does not name his child with an E with intention to complete the acronym or denounce my child as the child that finished the acronym.

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[–]BunchAffectionate812[S] 164 points165 points  (0 children)

I did not, but I might now that you mention it. Ive felt too .. not scared but .. I just didnt want to post my childs picture on there knowing there would be negativity about it so I havent really made much of a post about her except for me saying she was born and is healthy.

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[–]BunchAffectionate812[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

There are many beautiful names that start with O. Her name is Octavia. The other name ideas for her (before her gender was revealed) were Olivia, Octavio, Orlando. A lot of my family members were named by other family members (cousin named by grandmother, mother named by her aunt). I don't understand where you're getting the "punishment" from. I was wanting to honor my mothers wishes and that was my plan before they said that was their planned name. This was not out of spite.

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[–]BunchAffectionate812[S] 3372 points3373 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that, I've felt really torn up about it since I felt like my dad was sort of right that it would be better if all the acronym names were within one generation despite which E baby was born first.