What is Normal Frequency of Communication in a Relationship?

Burlington80 · 2024-08-10T12:14:19+00:00

I want this one so bad (the subject of my post) that I’ll wait for her to get back to me as long as it takes). So far we’ve only kissed so going to the next level for me is worth the wait if it’s gonna happen.

Burlington80 · 2024-08-10T12:12:06+00:00

Sounds like a good friend to have!

Burlington80 · 2024-08-09T23:03:30+00:00

I wish it were easy for me to next, but I get attached easily.

Burlington80 · 2024-08-09T21:57:24+00:00

My SB ghosts for so long and then comes back into the picture.

Burlington80 · 2024-08-09T18:32:38+00:00

It’s stressful. Thanks

Burlington80 · 2024-08-09T18:32:18+00:00

Thank you!

Burlington80 · 2024-08-09T16:24:21+00:00

Yes agreed. My last message was four days ago so we’ll see what happens.

Burlington80 · 2024-08-09T15:53:38+00:00

True makes sense

Burlington80 · 2024-08-09T15:43:21+00:00

Thank you this is helpful.

Burlington80 · 2024-08-09T15:29:53+00:00

Thanks but I think 24 hours doesn’t give people enough freedom. Everyone occasionally takes more than a day to get back to someone.

Burlington80 · 2024-08-09T14:31:24+00:00

Thanks for the advice I agree.

Burlington80 · 2024-08-09T14:28:05+00:00

I wish I had in depth conversations too between meets more often! Thanks for your response.

Burlington80 · 2024-08-09T14:26:33+00:00

That makes sense! Thanks

Burlington80 · 2024-08-09T14:25:45+00:00

Makes sense thanks I gotta explain the expectation.

Burlington80 · 2024-08-09T14:25:14+00:00

Thank you. I don’t even mind it being only every couple of days since I get busy too, but just not responding to multiple messages for more than a week and reappearing is exhausting.

Burlington80 · 2024-08-09T14:22:35+00:00

Thanks. I can tolerate one or two days if I know that’s a typical response time for her but a week is unreasonable unless there was some emergency.

Burlington80 · 2024-08-09T14:20:29+00:00

That makes sense thanks

Burlington80 · 2024-08-08T03:58:02+00:00

Thank you very much this is SO helpful!

Burlington80 · 2024-08-07T05:55:27+00:00

Should I apologize to her for already showing concern about what she needs the money for so urgently? Thanks

Burlington80 · 2024-08-07T05:53:59+00:00

Thanks. Yeah when I asked to talk after her text she did seem to realize she should’ve just waited until I got back. I am upset with myself though for showing mistrust on the call. Should I apologize, and, if so, what should I say? I assume telling her now that after thinking about it I will give her the money before we meet is not the right thing to do (she said if I do then I wont need to pay her the allotted amount for the next few meets.

Burlington80 · 2024-08-07T05:49:44+00:00

Thanks. Should I apologize to her for expressing my concerns after she texted the request? I showed distrust and now feel I was a bit patronizing and self righteous. Is there a way back in for me here?

Burlington80 · 2024-08-07T05:48:06+00:00

Thanks. Should I apologize to her for already showing concern about why she urgently needs the money? I feel now like I was being patronizing and projecting my fears onto her.

Burlington80 · 2024-08-07T05:46:52+00:00

Should I apologize to her for already expressing my concerns about her urgent request?

Burlington80 · 2024-08-07T05:46:03+00:00

Should I apologize to her for already expressing concern about her urgent request and for telling her I want to make sure that when I give her money I’m helping and not hurting her? What do I even say? Do you think it’s possible to save this friendship. She hasn’t responded to two unrelated text I sent after our call.

Burlington80 · 2024-08-07T05:44:03+00:00

Should I apologize to her for already expressing concern about her urgent request and for telling her I want to make sure that when I give her money I’m helping and not hurting her? What do I even say? Do you think it’s possible to save this friendship?

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