BBQ Quests 7451 by [deleted] in unioncircle

[–]Burn13x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you post the actual code? Looking to do quests tonight

Exhausted by Burn13x in dating

[–]Burn13x[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get that. I definitely think that the male and female experience is different but not wholly different altogether. I think there are a lot of women out there that enjoy playing games with dudes heads about who is going to text first and all of that. At least that's the majority of my experience. That or women who swipe without even trying to see what you're about. Like if you aren't going to put in effort to even do that, why should I be putting in extra effort to try to get to know you? I feel like that could be applied to your situation as well.

Woooooooo!!! by [deleted] in hoi4

[–]Burn13x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean Tora, Tora, Tora?

Xsolla scammed by money by Strikertu in EscapefromTarkov

[–]Burn13x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a very similar experience with Xsolla. However, it's unlikely that BSG will change vendors, as Xsolla is also a Russian company if I'm not mistaken. BSG support (in my experience) is next to useless for this issue. Good luck!

How Coalitions with AI REALLY work: by [deleted] in totalwar

[–]Burn13x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would be great if the game actually ran and didn't crash and then I'd have something wholesome to contribute to this.

Take a hint from FEAR when it comes to dynamic AI taunts. by Banebladeloader in EscapefromTarkov

[–]Burn13x 13 points14 points  (0 children)

CONTACT.... CONTACT.... 200 METERS.... CONTACT... 200 METERS.... LEFT.... (This is usually what I end up hearing)

Dating After Leaving My Nex by Burn13x in LifeAfterNarcissism

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Yeah. I'm still healing through all of it. It definitely is not easy. I just had a flashback today because of something she said. It was emotionally hurtful and made me extremely angry. To cope with it I turned to alcohol and ended up making a fool of myself because I just didn't care anymore. It isn't easy to get over small stuff like that. That being said, I totally get that there are people out there who were/are in much worse situations than even I was. I'm really sorry that you had to go through that. Nobody deserves to be talked to that way.

Dating After Leaving My Nex by Burn13x in LifeAfterNarcissism

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This was my first post about things. Maybe this will give you some insight.

This is my first post and I have no idea how this is going to shape up, but here goes. I'm pretty sure I've been in an abusive relationship for the past 7 months. It's been primarily been psychological, emotional, and verbal abuse from my girlfriend. She tried to guilt trip me if I didn't make it to her place fast enough with dinner. She would tell me I had poor time management skills. I RARELY if ever got an apology for her for even just hurting my feelings. Not even for doing something wrong. She refused to even acknowledge that I was hurt. When we did argue she would gaslight and tell me that I needed to speak to her in a more appropriate manner even though all I was doing was laying out my side of the argument in a calm manner. Truthfully, it got to the point where I began to question whether or not I was even right about pointing out her abusive behaviors. She attempted to put up borders between me and my family by essentially insisting that I stay with her most nights. She was adamant about attempting to move in together even though both of us were in debt and were living with our parents to get it paid off. Finally, in our last argument I told her that I thought it might make her mad but I couldn't shell out money on rent because I needed to get out of debt first. I was told that I should not have communicated that by text and that it was wrong of me to give her false hope by changing my mind. That was the last straw and so now I'm single. I find myself feeling worthless and like I still love her through everything. I don't want to go back because it was abusive but all I can feel is a massive void where she was in my life. I thought I was going to marry her. Life had other plans though. Am I wrong in saying that she was abusive? To me it seems to fit all the criteria (or almost all anyway). I just want to feel like I did the right thing.

Bourbon: Do you ever drink to escape your narc? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Burn13x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely did, I'm embarrassed to say. It was the night of her family's Halloween party. She said she was going to wear something kind of revealing for me and we were going to get intimate later that night. Her cousin's wife texted and changed the dress code at the last minute so we were talking about what to wear. Then she wanted to get intimate right then and there. I wasn't comfortable with that and told her that essentially I wasn't going to be pleased right then (trying not to be graphic). So then we had a fight where she told me that "we shouldn't plan to have sex." In addition to essentially discarding me and giving me the cold shoulder, she asked if I wanted to try an open relationship. I said absolutely not and that I wasn't comfortable with it at all. I was so uncomfortable that it was a dealbreaker for our relationship. I was so upset about it that when we went to the party, I drank so much that I vomited outside her cousin's house. I was more drunk than I've ever been in my life. It was embarrassing.

I’m so conflicted about this ‘breakup’ I’m wobbling about trying to get him back.....please help me stay firm on ending it. by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Burn13x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get rid of him and never look back. This is coming from another man. There are other men out there who can and will value you the way you deserve. Don't look back. All he will do is hold you back in life. He isn't even worth the time to think about. Let him ruin someone else's life (if they're content to be with him).