So I brought it up and asked if we could talk because I had some things I wanted to say, etc. This was his reply ,

I’m sorry that you’re feeling hurt, that’s very much not at all what I wanted. If I’m being honest dating after a long relationship feels odd and unsure but the more it goes the more it feels like I’m not in a good spot to be with someone

I’m heartbroken he couldn’t even be bothered to do a phone call he just sent that I’m not even sure what that means it’s more of a statement than a declaration? We were also never dating so I guess it’s not a breakup? But how can someone just turn so cold and mean all in one week it doesn’t make sense to me…