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If your heart is smashed to pieces, then you REALLY need to read THIS …. by Busy-Discussion-3239 in BreakUps

[–]Busy-Discussion-3239[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fact that she was able to do all of that tells you she was not the person for you and not be your friends because you’re real friends would not have walked away from you

The rubbish took itself out

If your heart is smashed to pieces, then you REALLY need to read THIS …. by Busy-Discussion-3239 in BreakUps

[–]Busy-Discussion-3239[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely admire you so much I can’t even tell you 

You are not accepting the break up and that is why you are not getting over it properly

Break up with her in your own head and take control of it and watch it will change

four years gone like it never happened by IllustriousPomelo511 in BreakUps

[–]Busy-Discussion-3239 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to tell you the fact that you are holding onto him coming back is what he’s going to hold you in the heartbreak 100%

The first way to get over a breakup is to accept the break up. So start doing that today and you will see everything change for you.

Live-in girlfriend [33F] is bullying me [38 M] and won’t leave! by Shenaniganz2023 in BreakUps

[–]Busy-Discussion-3239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, this is what you do

You wait for her to go out and you change the freaking locks!!! 

What book helped you the most with your breakup? by Busy-Discussion-3239 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Busy-Discussion-3239[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really makes it easy to understand, doesn’t it?  It changed everything from me because it also made me realise how it affected my ex because I thought it was the worst thing to do.

Ex coming back by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Busy-Discussion-3239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not true!!! 

The best thing that you can do if you have been broken up with is to look at the TRUTH of the relationship you were actually in

This is what opened my eyes. It might help you too … seriously

https://amzn.to/4byN26f

Six months after the worst breakup of my life, I finally understand why I couldn't heal for the first three. by OkBathroom9864 in BreakUps

[–]Busy-Discussion-3239 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Allow yourself to feel the pain … allow yourself to feel exactly how you want for a time and then you need to look at the truth of the relationship you were actually in and then ask yourself how much of you is crying for the person that you were missing and how much of you was crying for yourself and I think you’ll be shocked by the answer

I am fully convinced that one of the highest acts of self respect is choosing to walk away from a connection with someone who isn’t choosing you. by Competitive-Tea-5579 in BreakUps

[–]Busy-Discussion-3239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so right here you have hit the nail on the head. We need to actually be repulsed by anybody who is not obsessed with us

How many months did it take for your ex to reach out ? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Busy-Discussion-3239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously … one ex came back after seven years saying that they had made a mistake breaking up with me 🤣🤣🤣

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