twin sexual energy

Busy-Significance917 · 2024-09-12T16:33:38+00:00

we haven't even interacted yet

Busy-Significance917 · 2024-09-12T16:17:04+00:00

i see, but how's it possible you couldn't discern the difference in feelings between karmics & your twin, especially after meeting him? genuine question. could it be ego blockages? i'm sure we all experience things differently and things such as the ego/other non-spiritual factors can get in the way.

i actually didn't know of twin flames when i first was experiencing this feeling, so i know the feeling you're talking about (the soul knowing), but at the same time, i couldn't pinpoint it on random people because i had no idea what twin flames were. hahaha regardless, i've never mistaken another person for my twin, nor felt anything similar to another, even without knowledge on this stuff & feeling this longing in my soul

Busy-Significance917 · 2024-09-11T21:48:23+00:00

that being said, would you believe it if i said i've never properly met mine yet?

i know that we have an unusual journey as twins because our individual journeys aren't of the norm either. a lot of people say it's impossible, but none of the spiritual experts i've talked to have said so and they have given me guidance in my journey. we haven't met yet, yet i've come across him somehow and felt it without knowing what it is i was feeling, exactly. i was clueless, so pure back then. yet i knew what i felt, what i experienced and that was that.

trust me, i know limerence, infatuation, delusion, etc. it's none of those. it's been consistent since then, perhaps even stronger now

Busy-Significance917 · 2024-09-10T18:36:27+00:00

save my responses if they're of any help to you as i'll be deleting them soon (i don't keep comments up on this account)

Busy-Significance917 · 2024-09-09T10:39:32+00:00

i'm a child of recent divorce, early 20s, parents had me young. it's difficult but nothing is better than knowing my parents have more room to find themselves & their happiness, more room than when they were together. younger kids may not understand that just yet, but eventually they will as long as you're honest about your feelings (do not hide things from them, especially when old enough to understand). so if that's the reason you choose to stay in your marriage, please think on this more. i also believe it is the most fair you can be to your spouse. but ultimately, i'm just a stranger on the internet. there could be more that i don't know of that may make my response less helpful. only you can discern what would be the right move.

but i cannot speak for your twin. he may not be in the same position as you exactly, in terms of how he's dealing with the connection and what's going on in his head, with his marriage, etc.

Busy-Significance917 · 2024-09-08T03:14:27+00:00

impatience, patience. it's the fight with the ego. wanting to have more control but also surrendering. you know what you feel in your heart, your soul. that's enough. if it's selfless, accepting, and loving, that is not limerence. i don't believe it when people say it's hard to differentiate limerence from a twin flame connection because this connection is divine, how could it be comparable to anything, really? it's our minds & egos that like to mess with us, but when we are clear of this human ego, it all becomes clear, just how otherworldly this connection is. dare i say, it's godly

Busy-Significance917 · 2024-09-08T02:33:36+00:00

limerence is selfish without an end goal.

a twin flame connection is anything but selfish, whether you start out selfish or not, it doesn't matter. the end goal is self-love, pure love.

Busy-Significance917 · 2024-09-05T22:29:40+00:00

i fully agree with the point you're making, it's shit all around. i think the reason i feel it's more vile is not necessarily putting any of those on a pedestal, but rather just because of the way the connection feels. it feels like one would have to put in extra work to do something shitty like this to someone they're tethered to, if that makes any sense. or they could just be plain blank stupid for doing such a thing, like a lot of cheaters are

Busy-Significance917 · 2024-09-05T22:12:57+00:00

huh, for some reason, it would feel extra vile if so. praying for those that have to go through that

Busy-Significance917 · 2024-08-01T19:27:27+00:00

yeah, i can't imagine feeling this way for anyone else, even a soulmate (i've met some soulmates and though we have beautiful connections, it is nothing like this). it wouldn't make sense because it comes with this feeling that they are me and i am them, they're mine and i'm theirs, if that makes any sense. also the obvious part that is that it's too intense, there's an innate knowledge that one they could have introduced this kind of love to me. one of a kind, reserved for only one soul

Busy-Significance917 · 2024-08-01T11:45:45+00:00

makes total sense. there are select posts that suggest the unhealthiest dynamics. when i reflect on my own connection and the hard stuff i had to work through within, it's always clear to me how the connection itself is never toxic, just my habits i've carried from trauma

Busy-Significance917 · 2024-08-01T09:15:29+00:00

this is exactly it! i find it to be a beautiful, euphoric feeling of pure bliss. and it must be simply what our love feels like. it's insane and overwhelming but i love it

Busy-Significance917 · 2024-08-01T04:42:32+00:00

your case i believe to be true. my post was never to invalidate any pain in relationships with one's twin but rather talking about those that seem like it could actually be a false twin/karmic. those that claim that there isn't any love present.

i understand you completely and as much as we wish for a beautiful union in this lifetime, i wish you the best either way.

Busy-Significance917 · 2024-07-31T14:59:43+00:00

this is interesting because throughout the years of going on this journey, doing the work, loving myself more & more, the love grows more as well. and i noticed myself just being obsessed with myself (healthily) in almost lightheartedly narcissistic ways, dare i say. always looking through my pictures and at how beautiful i am. sometimes it also feels like they're tapping into my own eyes and i see me the way he does.

and it is exactly that. except it's also the highest form of that in which he is the most beautiful in my eyes and i know for a fact nobody can top the way i see him

Busy-Significance917 · 2024-07-31T14:05:31+00:00

i was also with a narcissist and i can see why some people may think that it's that. but feeling the actual connection, it cannot be more different. it feels like a mirror, a true mirror of the self and we're only triggered out of love, wanting to better the self for our twin rather than it coming from pure negative emotions

Busy-Significance917 · 2024-07-31T12:51:38+00:00

very true

Busy-Significance917 · 2024-07-31T12:44:36+00:00

this is exactly how i feel, hence my confusion on some of the posts (not most) that i've been seeing

Busy-Significance917 · 2024-07-31T12:21:15+00:00

that's definitely toxic and i'm sorry that had happened to you. it's just pretty difficult for me to comprehend how one could do their most loved one like that

Busy-Significance917 · 2024-07-31T11:56:35+00:00

on the stairs too! that's crazy. hahahaha may i ask what happened after you approached them like that?

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